Rumors

I had alot of rumors about me, what i do is go to the person and straighten it out, thats all..rumors are just words..fuck them!
 
people who talk bad things to babyphat by the way looks ... that is wrong.. those people needs to learn how to meet you and get know you frist than just looks... bec im sure that I know babyphat can be good person and beautiful inside than outside. people need learn how to do right way.. oh well sigh i know it is hard for deafies to understand what is right or wrong . :)
 
Originally posted by Angelcat
people who talk bad things to babyphat by the way looks ... that is wrong.. those people needs to learn how to meet you and get know you frist than just looks... bec im sure that I know babyphat can be good person and beautiful inside than outside. people need learn how to do right way.. oh well sigh i know it is hard for deafies to understand what is right or wrong . :)
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thanks girl, but I dont like that they are spreading rumors about me before they even get to know me........ now if people hear my name they may think about the rumors they heard.....I wear alot of baby phat and I am very unique - not that many oral deaf middle easterns where I live.....I stand out very much........ I am worried now about meeting Deaf people since the world is small and they could hear things about me and judge me before I open my mouth - first impressions are very important. It is fine if they think I am this and that but another thing if they want to get people to STAY away or be against me........
 
Why be worried about what other ppl think of you.
The only true friends you need are these that will not judge you for whatever rumours were said of you.
 
mmm yeah. I have had people saying things like I was a fake and two faced.. just because I smile too much. I love smiling at people and being happy. pretty annoying after a while to have people make that assumption. But I m not going to change because that's how I am.

all you can really do is ignore them and move on. Only the smart ones will not believe those and find out for themselves. otherwise, they're just stupid and not worth your time to get to know. ;)
 
Rumors will ALWAYS be around for as long as its in the dictionary and with ppl who has TOO MUCH time on their hands --

ive gone thru the same thing and i know its not fun but i always tell ppl believe the rumors all u like cuz the truth will show itself in due time and they will find out the true story not some fabricated BS they want to :bowdown: to --

i stick with the VERY few friends i know are very trustworthy and i trust them with my life and know they wont have any reason to be :gossip: and know they wont try to start up the rumor mill --

all i CAN really suggest is to ignore the rumors and keep ur chin up and keep ur character in good standing and the truth itself will come out in due time (yes it can show up at the most strangest time or moment)
 
believe me, my school's worse in rumors and other BS - i mean, once i tell a friend a secret, the next minute ...... *sighs* i feel like strangling that friend cuz he blabbed his huge mouth off !!!
 
Originally posted by vphreak
know what!!!!


DEAF WORLD IS FULL OF CRAPS RUMORS!
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excuse u :eek: not all of deaf world does... :roll: u need watch out before u make them piss pissed..
 
Originally posted by SweetKid
mmm yeah. I have had people saying things like I was a fake and two faced.. just because I smile too much. I love smiling at people and being happy. pretty annoying after a while to have people make that assumption. But I m not going to change because that's how I am.

all you can really do is ignore them and move on. Only the smart ones will not believe those and find out for themselves. otherwise, they're just stupid and not worth your time to get to know. ;)
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:werd: I agree with you on this one. I smile a lot in real life. Sometimes they'll have to really know me then they'll know who we are. :D

And by the way, BabyPhat21... It's only the rumors. Don't let the word become sword. :naughty: Blast them back and say "Don't you have anything better to do ?"
 
Originally posted by BabyPhat21
thanks girl, but I dont like that they are spreading rumors about me before they even get to know me........ now if people hear my name they may think about the rumors they heard.....I wear alot of baby phat and I am very unique - not that many oral deaf middle easterns where I live.....I stand out very much........ I am worried now about meeting Deaf people since the world is small and they could hear things about me and judge me before I open my mouth - first impressions are very important. It is fine if they think I am this and that but another thing if they want to get people to STAY away or be against me........
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Dont be worried girl. You got more friends to back you up. If they want them to stay or be against you then they are big time fools. When they get to know you they wont be against you. You a mad cool and a sweet gato. They wont dare be against you when im around. :twisted: Anyway cheer up you got good friends here. Dont ever forget that. :)
 
Originally posted by Liza
I agree with Katziechick.... :booty: at 'em.... they are simply not worthy of your association, babyphat... deaf culture or not. I never hang out with those who are like that, even when I'm in a strong deaf community like Gallaudet. Not all folks are like that, thank goodness. I've had the luck of meeting some really awesome deaf people.

I think the rumor mill and the so called deafie thing are due to learned behavior... survival and bullying tactics to make themselves feel good, I suppose. They probably haven't learned another way that is positive to feel good about themselves yet. I have been discussing with a friend about this very social problem that seems to be rampant in the deaf community, and especially in other communities... hell, folks in Puerto Rico and Norway are prone to the very same thing! It's not limited to deaf folks. It's like meeting someone who easily whips out insults at you... "you stupid girl!" " you idiot!".... that kind of thing! I've often told people to not do that because I simply don't like it... and they don't do it. They will learn and adapt for the better.. thanks to you!

Just keep on being your true self, and you will attract the kind of friends, deaf or hearing/hoh that will like you for you. I think you're a good person. ;)
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babyphat, I think i agree with her and other person say about true friends. you are not only one because same thing happen to my friends. I don't care about your past and my friends's past..just be move on and think of present for get new friends and life.:D
 
Originally posted by BostonIceFire
NO shit... Just because someone told a guy one thing and within half hour, almost the entire community knows!
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No shit! Tell me abt it!

I remember at some NSA meeting, someone had "spoke so highly of me" which was not proper for the issue itself. Within minutes, the word got to me as the meeting was over. I stood up to the board and they were surprised that I got "fast news" within seconds! So I had to suffer a week w/ false information until clearification.
 
BabyPhat21 why don't you step in my office and strip your clothes off and I will observe your whole body and see if you have been telling lies or not.

Then I would announce if that rumor is true or false. j/k

I know what you mean once someone set up the rumors and I always face that person who started it to find out what their problem is and try to stop it right there to prove others that person is the one who start that shit so people will know who not to trust or who to trust.

Once I hear other people's rumors I go to that person to find out the truth if not then I inform that person who brought it up. I rather the truth over rumors.
 
Well, now this remind me of last night. I just found some girl add me to her friends list in some journal site. I checked out her profile and she has picture of her. I asked my friend if she looked like slut. Know what my friend said? She said, "I know her. She is still virgin."

Oh damn. I shouldn't judge in the first place. I should try get know her first before becoming her friend. Oh well. Stupid me.

BTW, I have my girl and I aint looking for any girl. :-P
 
hey just be urself FUCK EM' theyre just immatures and assholes when they do it just be proud of who u are and be yourself ! if a deafie do that to me i ll just build an imaginary berlin wall and there ll be a nice beautiful barrier between me and those azzholez !
 
Originally posted by BabyPhat21
I went to a deaf event and just because I was talking to some guys - there is already rumors that I am flirting and a slut. I was just practicing my sign.......and two I was not dressed sexy. I really hate that people judge so much......I dont know what to do - i feel like yelling at the people with the wrong ideas but that is not gonna get them to change their opinions of me. I just ignoring them but feeling a bit helpless.
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I feel for you, but that's another reason why I don't reveal too much of myself on the internet. I've seen a lot of pix of you on here and there.

For those who prejudge you are probably immature, just let them go and they'll find out something else good about you. :dunno:

Which deaf event did you go to?
 
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