Random Vents.....

I have pain on crap! I think!
 
Hopefully Travis your doctor can discover what causes your "pain on crap".

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MIL is a little livid right now. Pastor from her church that I detest with a passion, just came over. He drove his big honkin truck up into the yard. MIL had just paid a few weeks ago another $1000 to get the sprinklers all fixed and replaced. He just drove over one of the pipe and it broke and also drove over 3 sprinkler heads and smashed them. Now, he's claiming that he's not responsible, that if we had gone to church like we should he wouldn't have to drive over. HE only came to beg my daughter to come help out with Children's church. Daughter told him a flat out "NO!!!"
 
KristinaB said:
MIL is a little livid right now. Pastor from her church that I detest with a passion, just came over. He drove his big honkin truck up into the yard. MIL had just paid a few weeks ago another $1000 to get the sprinklers all fixed and replaced. He just drove over one of the pipe and it broke and also drove over 3 sprinkler heads and smashed them. Now, he's claiming that he's not responsible, that if we had gone to church like we should he wouldn't have to drive over. HE only came to beg my daughter to come help out with Children's church. Daughter told him a flat out "NO!!!"
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I find that amazing since he's supposed to be a christian. That's setting a good example alright.:roll:

Just blaming others for what he did himself.

That is part of problem of today's world.. No body will take responsibilites for their own actions.

Also with the way he is acting, why would anyone want to go to his church?
 
If Im havin a "Am I going to be shit parent?" moment I dont need be told "you options" I want this kid I'm unsure of how my childhood will affect my parenting
 
inmate23, I'm sorry that you're stressed out. You should be receiving support now. I can tell you that all new mothers-to-be worry about being a good mom. That's normal. Having a baby is a huge life change and it creates anxiety (in addition to joy). Talk to your partner about your hopes and fears. And don't let anyone suck the fun out of having your baby.
 
Kristina, get an estimate and file a claim in small claims court. The pastor will have to show up in court or you'll get a default judgement against him. Looks like his concern for his reputation would motivate him to clear it up quietly. You can probably can get a form at the small claims court. The clerks are generally kind about helping. They may be able to tell you where you can find a volunteer attorney. Courthouses usually have set time for a volunteer to answer questions.
 
Homeowners insurance should pay for it. And I think the insurance company will go after the pastor too.
 
KristinaB said:
MIL is a little livid right now. Pastor from her church that I detest with a passion, just came over. He drove his big honkin truck up into the yard. MIL had just paid a few weeks ago another $1000 to get the sprinklers all fixed and replaced. He just drove over one of the pipe and it broke and also drove over 3 sprinkler heads and smashed them. Now, he's claiming that he's not responsible, that if we had gone to church like we should he wouldn't have to drive over. HE only came to beg my daughter to come help out with Children's church. Daughter told him a flat out "NO!!!"
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that is story on sound!
 
Good point, Botte. Doesn't sound like a huge amount of damage. If you have a good insurance company, it will be much easier.
 
inmate23 said:
If Im havin a "Am I going to be shit parent?" moment I dont need be told "you options" I want this kid I'm unsure of how my childhood will affect my parenting
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it is very pretty lots of stress your situation parents
 
sallylou said:
Kristina, get an estimate and file a claim in small claims court. The pastor will have to show up in court or you'll get a default judgement against him. Looks like his concern for his reputation would motivate him to clear it up quietly. You can probably can get a form at the small claims court. The clerks are generally kind about helping. They may be able to tell you where you can find a volunteer attorney. Courthouses usually have set time for a volunteer to answer questions.
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Bottesini said:
Homeowners insurance should pay for it. And I think the insurance company will go after the pastor too.
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MIL has decided to do nothing. She is having hubby fix it all this weekend. She feels that this Pastor can do no wrong. She was livid and very upset, but claims she prayed about it and decided to forgive him.
 
KristinaB said:
MIL has decided to do nothing. She is having hubby fix it all this weekend. She feels that this Pastor can do no wrong. She was livid and very upset, but claims she prayed about it and decided to forgive him.
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sound you on stress on situation your mother's law

she willing confession because mistake something happened?
 
sallylou said:
inmate23, I'm sorry that you're stressed out. You should be receiving support now. I can tell you that all new mothers-to-be worry about being a good mom. That's normal. Having a baby is a huge life change and it creates anxiety (in addition to joy). Talk to your partner about your hopes and fears. And don't let anyone suck the fun out of having your baby.
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thanks i need to change my multi vitamin as it causing me to throw up(which is stressful) my partner doesnt want bring up my mental health issues with my doc without my meds i dont sleep

im guessin its a lack of sleep and i 1 view of how i use equipment and he has another by moving my powerchair in2 shed so i can drive to the shops means i dont feel safe in the kitchen
 
KristinaB said:
That's part of why she wouldn't do that. Florida's rates are high enough.
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However she shouldn't let him get away with that either! This is probably why he got that smug attitude cause he gets away with things like that just cause they think he's a great pastor..
 
Secretblend said:
However she shouldn't let him get away with that either! This is probably why he got that smug attitude cause he gets away with things like that just cause they think he's a great pastor..
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He's gotten away with so much crap over the years. I've just given up on him totally. It's said to think that he was actually the Pastor that did my wedding and told me on my wedding day that I would be divorced within 6 months. Well, 18 years and we are still going strong. Each of his 5 kids have at least 1 divorce and 2 of the boys have 3 each.
 
KristinaB said:
MIL is a little livid right now. Pastor from her church that I detest with a passion, just came over. He drove his big honkin truck up into the yard. MIL had just paid a few weeks ago another $1000 to get the sprinklers all fixed and replaced. He just drove over one of the pipe and it broke and also drove over 3 sprinkler heads and smashed them. Now, he's claiming that he's not responsible, that if we had gone to church like we should he wouldn't have to drive over. HE only came to beg my daughter to come help out with Children's church. Daughter told him a flat out "NO!!!"
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Wow, what a big day! I hope it all works out okay.
 
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