I was waiting for these statements.
You often tell people that they "believe only what they want to believe". Unfortunately, the person who says this also "believes only what they want to believe" which is obviously the oral experience is always horrendous. Which shows up in the 2nd bolded statement.
Yes yes yes, I know what you're gonna say, you have research backing you up that the majority of orally raised deaf kids have shown to have social problems and so on. But sometimes, I think you think majority means all.
I am happy with my oral experience. Maybe Ill be happier if I was ASL raised instead. Frankly, I don't care. It's illogical to think like this.
Again, I am NOT promoting oralism. Unfortunately, like Lighthouse says, if I say "It doesn't work for most people", it sounds like I am saying "Most deaf people aren't smart enough for it." So this is one of those situations where I sound bad no matter what I say, unless I have a oral deaf "revelation" (realizing how much I missed out) and start talkin smack about oralism.
Leaving me with only one choice, keep my mouth shut.