One night stand

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sunny_signs said:
Is so bad idea??? Or ok if you know starting is one night stand?

Destined make feel bad? Or maybe good way blow off steam?

What your opinion one night stand??
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My opinion is that a one-night stand is a bad idea, for a variety reasons. It can harm you spiritually, mentally, physically, professionally, and in safety. No matter how careful you are, you open yourself up to disappointment, regret, disease, pregnancy, and attack.
 
deafbajagal said:
If you want to get STDs, go for it.
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Scary! I went to health department early this year (dentist)and they had sex clinic to treat ppl with STDs. Whew, not me! I did saw couple of patients and I couldnt help but laugh inside of me. One of them was a Steelers fan. BOOOO!

shel90 said:
Oh yea! I had a few one night stands when I was so desperate for sex. Lol
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How was the sex? Were you satisfied or you wanted more? :lol:
 
CSign said:
That's not what I said.
I said, "if you're looking to just blow off steam, I'd pursue other options first".

Such as; exercising, writing, going at it with a punching bag etc.
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She/he did not say why they wanted to blow of steam, if they're mad at a partner having an one night stand is not going to help solve anything. I would rather blow of steam with the person I am involved with!
 
Reba said:
My opinion is that a one-night stand is a bad idea, for a variety reasons. It can harm you spiritually, mentally, physically, professionally, and in safety. No matter how careful you are, you open yourself up to disappointment, regret, disease, pregnancy, and attack.
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Hmmm..so people who are not in a long term relationship should refrain from having sex? That doesn't sound healthy for mental, emotional and health reasons.
 
I believe it depends upon the person, male or female....emotionally, if having a one night stand wouldn't mean anything to you.

I've known a lot of girlfriends who were actually wanting and searching for a relationship, and thinking a one night stand would become so....Even saying "if I don't sleep with him, he will never come back around"...when in reality, once the man sleeps with them, they never see him again...only at Bars...looking for another "lay".......going out to bars, getting drunk or high, and sleeping with anyone that offered to buy them another drink, "breakfast" or go to another bar.....One friend I had was this way, and no matter what I tried to advise her of, she paid no heed to me....She became deeply depressed after several years of doing this...she was "well-known" in the bars as "easy", was called "a barfly"..."butterfly"....she finally moved away, and would not have anything to do with her friends and the last thing I know of her is that she lives alone and is practically a "recluse".
 
I don't want to make this into a religious thread but I have to make a correction. Baptists are not historically Calvinists. We don't believe in Calvin's predestination, limited atonement, or infant baptism, for starters.

Being a Baptist isn't limited to living in the South. Baptist brothers and sisters live all over the USA and the world.

It also has nothing to do with this thread. Baptists aren't the only people who would recommend against one-night stands.
 
DeafCaroline said:
Hmmm..so people who are not in a long term relationship should refrain from having sex? That doesn't sound healthy for mental, emotional and health reasons.
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There's nothing unhealthy about abstaining from sex for the right reasons.
 
Even for those of you who just enjoy bashing religious members, you are basically sleeping with every partner you one night stand has slept with. :ugh:
 
Bottesini said:
Even for those of you who just enjoy bashing religious members, you are basically sleeping with every partner you one night stand has slept with. :ugh:
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Same could be said of your long term partner. I didn't see any bashing of religious members here. Not sure where you're getting that from.
 
Bottesini said:
Even for those of you who just enjoy bashing religious members, you are basically sleeping with every partner you one night stand has slept with. :ugh:
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Whats the issue if my night stand partner had slept with an entire town and comes up clean?

:dunno:
 
Bottesini said:
Even for those of you who just enjoy bashing religious members, you are basically sleeping with every partner you one night stand has slept with. :ugh:
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That's absurd.

This whole canard started as a way to scare people about STDs. STDs can be transmitted from Person One all the way to Person Ten.

But that's assuming no one ever tests for STDs or uses condoms and practices safe sex.

One does *not* sleep with everyone the other person has. If you were, you'd see them lined up in the bedroom and you don't. :roll:

And besides, what if you're the first person your one-night stand has slept with? :hmm:
 
DeafCaroline said:
Hmm...if I needed to blow off steam sexually, then sex would be the answer, not writing on a piece of paper or punching a stuffed bag. Adults are sexual beings, nothing wrong with having sex for the sake of having sex.
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She didn't state blow off steam because she's sexually frustrated.... She just said blow off steam. You could need to blow off steam for any number of reasons.

If she is sexually frustrated then she can play like the song, "when I think about you I touch myself".

I don't find anything wrong with having sex. I'm just saying if you're just frustrated and need to "blow off steam", you don't need to go search out some random person. There are other, more productive solutions.

If you want a one night stand just because you want to get some- more power to you. Just as others said, so long as it's done carefully and you know your feelings won't get hurt when the guy doesn't call.
 
posts from hell said:
Whats the issue if my night stand partner had slept with an entire town and comes up clean?

:dunno:
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The issue would be more of what you know about a one night stand. It is sort of implied you would not know the person or know much about them.

One night would be not a person you constantly socialize with.
 
Suppose your spouse is in a coma forever. You love this person and is committed to caring for him or her. Would a night stand be justified? Or are you supposed to abstain from sex until the partner dies or if you divorced?
 
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