And then there are those people who HATES some peeps here on AD - they will find reasons to belittle, berate and show their hate for that member in any way they choose to do so. I know, because I've been a victim myself.
It's good when we can have a serious discussion, but when someone posts, and then another follows that person, showing his/her dislike for that person in a post - that's when you gonna have a war.
No matter how you might try to word it in a way, there's always someone that think its being directed at him/her - and then go on a public forum "beating" up the first poster for "going on an attack" against the person thinking that he/she is being attacked.
I know it gets confusing, but how else do you explain this?
I still feel the best way is to keep an argument civil - make it into a discussion and NOT use the thread maker or another poster's name against them.
If you go back to several past threads, you will see what I mean... for example, and I really don't care anymore... here is an PERFECT example.
http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=24558
Think about this... sometimes threads are created in an effort to show something, OR to open a discussion, but may instead go awry because of some extreme dislike of a threadmaker...
http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=25209&page=1&pp=20
And THEN there are some people that will go completely off topic because of some imagined hurt even when it was just a GENERAL question...
http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=27711
I know some of you will go oh boy not that B**** DD again... but guess what? Some things have to be pointed out quite roughly - and I mean ROUGH.
Tough cookies, honey.
What comes around, goes around and bites ya back.
The point Im making here, is that there will always be attacks here on AllDeaf, members being negative about members, and people threatening to leave AD because of some slight, hurt or insult.
All I can state and Ive stated over and over ad nauseum, many times in many threads, that it's better to keep a civil tonque in your mind, do not name any one that you do not like, but keep general, and keep it on a civil footing while disagreeing with another person here.
And in any discussion, KEEP IT SIMPLE and SWEET and get your friggin point across WITHOUT insulting or demeaning another member. No flaming, no insulting, no attacking.
If you MUST insult, flame or attack another person, then members should declare OPEN WAR on you to get the point across.
Be my guest.
Go ahead, make my day.
I do really encourage to THINK AHEAD before you go on the attack against another person here on AllDeaf. Try to form your opinion before you post it, yet get your point across. Be civil, even when you do not agree with it, but agree to disagree with the thread. If necessary, use the edit button more than one time, to make sure that you do state what you want to state, without starting a flame war.
Think twice - like the old saw...Measure twice, cut once.
It's good when we can have a serious discussion, but when someone posts, and then another follows that person, showing his/her dislike for that person in a post - that's when you gonna have a war.
No matter how you might try to word it in a way, there's always someone that think its being directed at him/her - and then go on a public forum "beating" up the first poster for "going on an attack" against the person thinking that he/she is being attacked.
I know it gets confusing, but how else do you explain this?
I still feel the best way is to keep an argument civil - make it into a discussion and NOT use the thread maker or another poster's name against them.
If you go back to several past threads, you will see what I mean... for example, and I really don't care anymore... here is an PERFECT example.
http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=24558
Think about this... sometimes threads are created in an effort to show something, OR to open a discussion, but may instead go awry because of some extreme dislike of a threadmaker...
http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=25209&page=1&pp=20
And THEN there are some people that will go completely off topic because of some imagined hurt even when it was just a GENERAL question...
http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=27711
I know some of you will go oh boy not that B**** DD again... but guess what? Some things have to be pointed out quite roughly - and I mean ROUGH.
Tough cookies, honey.
What comes around, goes around and bites ya back.
The point Im making here, is that there will always be attacks here on AllDeaf, members being negative about members, and people threatening to leave AD because of some slight, hurt or insult.
All I can state and Ive stated over and over ad nauseum, many times in many threads, that it's better to keep a civil tonque in your mind, do not name any one that you do not like, but keep general, and keep it on a civil footing while disagreeing with another person here.
And in any discussion, KEEP IT SIMPLE and SWEET and get your friggin point across WITHOUT insulting or demeaning another member. No flaming, no insulting, no attacking.
If you MUST insult, flame or attack another person, then members should declare OPEN WAR on you to get the point across.
Be my guest.
Go ahead, make my day.
I do really encourage to THINK AHEAD before you go on the attack against another person here on AllDeaf. Try to form your opinion before you post it, yet get your point across. Be civil, even when you do not agree with it, but agree to disagree with the thread. If necessary, use the edit button more than one time, to make sure that you do state what you want to state, without starting a flame war.
Think twice - like the old saw...Measure twice, cut once.
I have enjoyed being on Alldeaf since I joined last May!!! I love the members, and I love how each and everyone of you have expressed yourselves, and your opinions on different issues and topics. That is what makes Alldeaf so interesting. 
!! @ DreamDeaf! 
