Negativity/Attacks/Leaving AD

Sigh.. there are some time i want to scream head off but i realized its not worth my time especially u know who im talking about.. :D but anyhoo.. really.. Alex do have a point... ;)
 
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javapride said:
it goes both ways .. u * disagree and how u disagree is how u attack the person* u agree ur all best friends... to me in all aspect which is one of the reasons why im not posting much here anymore, is because there has been NOTHING but drama, some of you are my age and ur all belittling others what happeend to the age old respect of debating u don't like thier opioion that's ur plm not thiers! they are entitled to it. some of you that are downright belittling and attacking others needs to take a chill pill. some of you that may be disagreeing and starting a flame because of that disagreement take a step back please and think. we are all entitled to our opioion if you don't like it then thats yr plm, show some common respect. then u'll be respected back.

I for on see so many immaturity here and ur all talking abt high school comments junior high school comments >>> OH YES! I AGREE ON THIS... which is why i lost interest!!! :ugh: and how we all are immature for making a comment, do yourselves a favor just ingore them go find another post to post go to the jokes section get cheered up there. greet the newcomers but please knock off the attacks and verbal abuses in here

To those who are taking a cool off u rightfully deserved the respect to do so, dont stay because poeple are begging u not to, just go cool off and come back and u'll be welcomed back with warm and open arms after ur break.

now remember EVEN i may go out of line now and then but i do know when to chill out and sit back and not comment any futher... which is why i don't involve myself with the drama, i have a lady i love the most, i have a job i love, and i have friends i respect and consider a lifelong ones, i have family i support and love... in other words i do have a life and i don't sit on the pc all day long i do have other things to do rather than worrying about the little bickerings i see here and there.

I do however hope this all gets resolved soon. best of luck to you all.
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well said girl!!! i am with you!!! :hug:
which is why i lost interest in this forum... and got bored with it and its people as well... I GOT A GREAT LIFE GOING ON... i am so behind on the readings in here but i couldn't care more cuz i AM VERY HAPPY WITH MY LIFE AND MY LOVE TOO! :giggle:
 
Well well well I am still here and I do get break from here sometime. It goes same on other forums. Only reason I pick this because this AD is for everyone, not one side of group or other side of group. It goes all in one pot and it created alot of conflict among ADers. I unds if they want to leave cuz they don't want any more stress out from this forums and others who are so strong headed people, never die with their own beliefs. Sometime they need to get know themselves first before they realize what they have done to others for so long. It takes sometime for us all to grow up.

Well I guess, I am going to take some break from it and do some damn weeds so stubborn growing out in back yard for while.
 
^Angel^ said:
Exactly and it's also important to keep an open mind on both sides, if not then how can we able to agree to disagree in a civil manner without putting anyone down??...
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Yes I has to agree with you to this.
 
I've only said one thing here I regret and I can't even say anything
in my defense without becoming the news of my neighborhood, I've
even prior that one comment noticed a post that absolutely made my heart sink because I knew it was made by someone I know but to keep the peace
I will say nothing, but because of that which has been said there have been
many a day I didn't want to be a member because I feel as if intruding
on this persons turf being here and being here is causing me alot of upset.
 
There are so many postings here that deserves :applause: ~

It's indeed a two-way street.

Many of you have said that no one gets respect unless it's earned, then cry in postings that you don't get any respect and are leaving AllDeaf for good -
it's kinda like a double standard, don't you think?

No matter what you think of a person or a post, it is still deserving of respect - respect in replying and posting to a thread. Many of you have a life, yet when I log on in when I have some free time - I see someone saying he/she is leaving AllDeaf because of this or that...but the underlying emotion is saying that he/she is feeling that no respect is being given out.

Ive also seen a lot of posts where it states that the person doesnt deserve any respect...now, I respect your opinion, but doesn't that kinda invite a war of posts a.k.a. War of the Roses?

There are so many people here with very strong opinions, beliefs and ingrained values - that you can scratch the surface of what you think is simple, and still find complex meanings underneath. I know, because I am a western Kansas-born redneck bisexual woman who has been in interracial relationships, have been asked to leave several schools for the deaf, graduated with honors from a high school for the hearing, have not learned ASL until my late 20's, have been working since I was 8 years old and have not much respect for those able-bodied souls who would rather collect government money than go to work and take food from those who are not able to work; etc., etc. Scratch what seems to be simple on me, and you will find new dimensions in me. I know, because every day, I discover something new about me.

Also, when I say a two-way street, I DO try to respect those who posts, no matter how asinine I may think that post appears to be - because it is from a person that is gonna be VERY different from me, and will ALWAYS have a different point of view from what I have.

Even when that person says what may be foolish, stupid and moronic, may have a lot of meaning to that person - and I do try to give it the respect it deserves.

Of course, I have a hard time respecting threads that says IM LEAVING AD... because we all know, that person will usually ... USUALLY... be back sooner or later. And we look down at that person because of that thread.

However, in no way, will we ever understand or even know the reason why the poster would say that - even if he/she does explain why. Why? Because like I said, each person has a different point of view. Period. Word.

No one will ever be the same...we are all like snowflakes.

My motto: Respect the post, respect the person who posted. If you do not agree, just leave it be, or state the reason why you do not agree, and be sure to make your comment clear and to the point, with no flaming, insulting or belittling.

If you feel you must flame, then go for it. Be warned, though, expect the friends of the poster to flame you back immediately. You started the war, be prepared to die in the war.

Again...show respect.
 
FeistyChick said:
which is why i lost interest in this forum... and got bored with it and its people as well:
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Ouch! You're saying we are boring people? Oh Okay then, Whatever :roll:
 
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Originally Posted by Heart2Sign
I'd rather being boring then a someone who is causing crap


^Angel^ said:
Exactly ^ 5!
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So am I ... *^5 too
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I would agree with Alex there, "Why can't we get along?"

If we disagree with a post or thread to a point that it appears to be "arguementative" (meaning you know your statement WILL start fight) or too personal, then DO NOT POST AT ALL! That will help us to get along. Another good advice is to Let ignorant be ignorant and no, I do not mean "I will let you be stupid so I won't post anything" or "Look at you, I will say nothing" or ANY hint(s) that leads to argumentation.

Just Get Along (JAG).
 
LinuxGold said:
I would agree with Alex there, "Why can't we get along?"

If we disagree with a post or thread to a point that it appears to be "arguementative" (meaning you know your statement WILL start fight) or too personal, then DO NOT POST AT ALL! That will help us to get along. Another good advice is to Let ignorant be ignorant and no, I do not mean "I will let you be stupid so I won't post anything" or "Look at you, I will say nothing" or ANY hint(s) that leads to argumentation.

Just Get Along (JAG).
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If a statement will start a flame war, Why can't moderators remove that statement to prevent a flame war?, 'Like example of my thread.' *sigh*

I understand what you meant the same time, It's hard to avoid hot topics such as CI, where some have hot heads would start a flame war by posting something that offensive one another, then another member post, it goes on and on to neverland. :giggle:
 
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