Negativity/Attacks/Leaving AD

moonflower said:
i agree with ya angel

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:smiling: Thank you Moonflower, I'm glad you understand where I'm coming from

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^Angel^ said:
It has nothing to do with agreeing to disageeing, it has to do with HOW we approach others with such a respond, if they don't like what you say, you get attacked, and insult, and that's what upset some members in here and for that I don't blame them any bit....

Walk a miles in their shoes then you will know exactly how they feel, please don't say it easy to ignore when feelings do get hurt....


And I think it's a good idea for a few to take a break for awhile, until it cool down, maybe not, God only knows
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True, and be careful before speaking with others on All Deaf.com. It is a public web site.
 
WhoKnows said:
True, and be careful before speaking with others on All Deaf.com. It is a public web site.
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Amen I agree!!
 
it goes both ways .. u * disagree and how u disagree is how u attack the person* u agree ur all best friends... to me in all aspect which is one of the reasons why im not posting much here anymore, is because there has been NOTHING but drama, some of you are my age and ur all belittling others what happeend to the age old respect of debating u don't like thier opioion that's ur plm not thiers! they are entitled to it. some of you that are downright belittling and attacking others needs to take a chill pill. some of you that may be disagreeing and starting a flame because of that disagreement take a step back please and think. we are all entitled to our opioion if you don't like it then thats yr plm, show some common respect. then u'll be respected back.

I for on see so many immaturity here and ur all talking abt high school comments junior high school comments and how we all are immature for making a comment, do yourselves a favor just ingore them go find another post to post go to the jokes section get cheered up there. greet the newcomers but please knock off the attacks and verbal abuses in here

To those who are taking a cool off u rightfully deserved the respect to do so, dont stay because poeple are begging u not to, just go cool off and come back and u'll be welcomed back with warm and open arms after ur break.

now remember EVEN i may go out of line now and then but i do know when to chill out and sit back and not comment any futher... which is why i don't involve myself with the drama, i have a lady i love the most, i have a job i love, and i have friends i respect and consider a lifelong ones, i have family i support and love... in other words i do have a life and i don't sit on the pc all day long i do have other things to do rather than worrying about the little bickerings i see here and there.

I do however hope this all gets resolved soon. best of luck to you all.
 
javapride said:
it goes both ways .. u * disagree and how u disagree is how u attack the person* u agree ur all best friends... to me in all aspect which is one of the reasons why im not posting much here anymore, is because there has been NOTHING but drama, some of you are my age and ur all belittling others what happeend to the age old respect of debating u don't like thier opioion that's ur plm not thiers! they are entitled to it. some of you that are downright belittling and attacking others needs to take a chill pill. some of you that may be disagreeing and starting a flame because of that disagreement take a step back please and think. we are all entitled to our opioion if you don't like it then thats yr plm, show some common respect. then u'll be respected back.

I for on see so many immaturity here and ur all talking abt high school comments junior high school comments and how we all are immature for making a comment, do yourselves a favor just ingore them go find another post to post go to the jokes section get cheered up there. greet the newcomers but please knock off the attacks and verbal abuses in here

To those who are taking a cool off u rightfully deserved the respect to do so, dont stay because poeple are begging u not to, just go cool off and come back and u'll be welcomed back with warm and open arms after ur break.

now remember EVEN i may go out of line now and then but i do know when to chill out and sit back and not comment any futher... which is why i don't involve myself with the drama, i have a lady i love the most, i have a job i love, and i have friends i respect and consider a lifelong ones, i have family i support and love... in other words i do have a life and i don't sit on the pc all day long i do have other things to do rather than worrying about the little bickerings i see here and there.

I do however hope this all gets resolved soon. best of luck to you all.
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Great point. We miss you alot and we glad that you are back. :) :hug:
 
LOL , you edit your post Heart2Sign and I did replied good grief...
 
^Angel^ said:
LOL , you edit your post Heart2Sign and I did replied good grief...
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I just felt bad, I thought maybe I was coming across as not understanding or controlling. I just want people to be able to see that they have support, and that don't need to leave permantly.

That is all...sorry.
 
Aww you don't need to apologize and you did something really good by starting this thread to show how much you care about others, and I'm sure they will look into your thread and see the kind person you truly are!


:cheers:
 
Boult said:
If you really want to ignore a person then use the ignore feature in user cp. I notice they fail to use that often. I have put few on ignore list already..
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Am I on your ignore list??? :giggle:
 
A few close members of mine have left and never came back and I can't contact some of the members too. I sure do miss them. I wondered why they left without any answers. But I can understand if something had happened in AD and just suddenly left.

I know the feeling about several, included me, have tried to leave AD because it has gotten out of hands. We most of us have very very strong opinions and we stay it out loud and it may have hurt their feelings. Some were bashin', insultin', or just got tired of the same issue.

I truely hope that we could just get along and learn to agree to disagree or disagree to agree. That makes us SMARTER when we learn! I sure did learn alot from AD!!
 
^Angel^ said:
Aww you don't need to apologize and you did something really good by starting this thread to show how much you care about others, and I'm sure they will look into your thread and see the kind person you truly are!


:cheers:
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I agree with ya there!
 
javapride said:
it goes both ways .. u * disagree and how u disagree is how u attack the person* u agree ur all best friends... to me in all aspect which is one of the reasons why im not posting much here anymore, is because there has been NOTHING but drama, some of you are my age and ur all belittling others what happeend to the age old respect of debating u don't like thier opioion that's ur plm not thiers! they are entitled to it. some of you that are downright belittling and attacking others needs to take a chill pill. some of you that may be disagreeing and starting a flame because of that disagreement take a step back please and think. we are all entitled to our opioion if you don't like it then thats yr plm, show some common respect. then u'll be respected back.

I for on see so many immaturity here and ur all talking abt high school comments junior high school comments and how we all are immature for making a comment, do yourselves a favor just ingore them go find another post to post go to the jokes section get cheered up there. greet the newcomers but please knock off the attacks and verbal abuses in here

To those who are taking a cool off u rightfully deserved the respect to do so, dont stay because poeple are begging u not to, just go cool off and come back and u'll be welcomed back with warm and open arms after ur break.

now remember EVEN i may go out of line now and then but i do know when to chill out and sit back and not comment any futher... which is why i don't involve myself with the drama, i have a lady i love the most, i have a job i love, and i have friends i respect and consider a lifelong ones, i have family i support and love... in other words i do have a life and i don't sit on the pc all day long i do have other things to do rather than worrying about the little bickerings i see here and there.

I do however hope this all gets resolved soon. best of luck to you all.
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Likewise here - I mostly agree with you. That's my sentiments ! It's why I said in my post earlier that if, I were them - I wouldn't respond back, if not at all. I do feel that sometimes, they downright at me and ignore me for nothin'. I even test to see how they respond when I created them some banners - all I can see some " friction " goin' on around or " tension " involved. Boy, I just knew that some of them aren't my true friends.
Bein' a friend is just a part of test.

By the way, welcome back ! :)
 
OH i been around just haven't posted much as work beckons most of my life now, as well as my partner.... but all in all, thank you CR but i wasn't vying for attention im just making post here and there not incessant postings to ward off boredom :) theres been ALOT of intresting posts but have had NO time to post my thoughts on them. when im on the road and or out of town and have some time i ll try and post but 95% of the time i'll be too damn busy to post.. sorry guys :) but just for the records theres been ALOT of GOOD debates and posts and i really enjoy them, i overlook the incessant dramas and go for good information and communication is indeed the key, but respect is also a factor we need to relize.... i remmy vampy posting one post abt farewell to respect or something like ode to respect something like that.... vamp do you remember that?

all in all we need to step back think again and relize even the littlest thing we say may hurt one another, just remember u should state and this is only an advice, you should just say here's my thought on this or here's my opioion on this. you have every right to disagree, and in closing say thats my thought on this, im not here to fight or pressure anyone. and then leave the thread alone and not challenge them repeativly because it only comes across as attacking thats IMHO....

all in all thats MY THOUGHTS on this debate we are having.
 
LMAO cute alex I agree yes indeed we can get along if we can learn to respect the others opioion without squashing them!
 
Heh if I replied then you aren't :D just those who used verbal abuse and belittling that I have seen in those threads I post to..

Also, I am sick of that when I put someone on ignore then a few months later, this person change username and is no longer on my ignore list grrr..
 
javapride said:
it goes both ways .. u * disagree and how u disagree is how u attack the person* u agree ur all best friends... to me in all aspect which is one of the reasons why im not posting much here anymore, is because there has been NOTHING but drama, some of you are my age and ur all belittling others what happeend to the age old respect of debating u don't like thier opioion that's ur plm not thiers! they are entitled to it. some of you that are downright belittling and attacking others needs to take a chill pill. some of you that may be disagreeing and starting a flame because of that disagreement take a step back please and think. we are all entitled to our opioion if you don't like it then thats yr plm, show some common respect. then u'll be respected back.

I for on see so many immaturity here and ur all talking abt high school comments junior high school comments and how we all are immature for making a comment, do yourselves a favor just ingore them go find another post to post go to the jokes section get cheered up there. greet the newcomers but please knock off the attacks and verbal abuses in here

To those who are taking a cool off u rightfully deserved the respect to do so, dont stay because poeple are begging u not to, just go cool off and come back and u'll be welcomed back with warm and open arms after ur break.

now remember EVEN i may go out of line now and then but i do know when to chill out and sit back and not comment any futher... which is why i don't involve myself with the drama, i have a lady i love the most, i have a job i love, and i have friends i respect and consider a lifelong ones, i have family i support and love... in other words i do have a life and i don't sit on the pc all day long i do have other things to do rather than worrying about the little bickerings i see here and there.

I do however hope this all gets resolved soon. best of luck to you all.
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:gpost: yeah I wud do same thing if I don't see what i like when some1 makes a thread or not not much new threads around in AD or whatever I wud not come here and I wud take a break from coming here but of course i'm still around ;) cuz i do have a life so.. important of all just have fun and don't give other ADers problems that's all ;)
 
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