Negativity/Attacks/Leaving AD

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I am not sure what has happened over the course of a few days. It's not my business anyways. I'd rather not know.

But I wanted to speak to those that are considering leaving AD. Because that is my business...since I happen to love people on here, I really don't know what I would do if I hadn't found this site. You and those that I have come in contact with have touch my heart and have had a profound affect on my life.

For once in my life, I feel that bond/connection that I had when I was constantly involved with my deaf friends at elementary school. I have found "home" again.

Consider us that really don't know you and want an opportunity to get to know you. If you leave, yes you will be noticed that you are gone. For a community to be had, it takes a lot of different people. That is what makes the community. Good or bad you can't expect everything to be perfect. For those that are attacking or being negative ~ yes it does hurt. I understand your pain, I've been there. Staying away only hurts those that know you and that want to know you. It won't affect those that are being negative in any way shape or form. They will contiune to behave that way, and drive others to "leave or consider leaving."

That is their problem. If they can't learn to get along or "play nice" then they will reap the consquences for that.

Consider staying, for those that love you, want to know you and accept support from them around you.

:grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug:

Love you guys, A LOT.
Sincerely, Heart2Sign :angel:
 
*nodding*

Good thread! :hug:

I´m agree with you totally. We can´t expect anyone to agree or disagree with me... I like to have anyone to agree or disagree with me because it´s good education for me but the problem is: The people can´t agree to disagree each other... If I see the person who can´t agree to disagree then ignore them. I know it´s not easy but it´s still the best.
 
Liebling:-))) said:
*nodding*

Good thread! :hug:

I´m agree with you totally. We can´t expect anyone to agree or disagree with me... I like to have anyone to agree or disagree with me because it´s good education for me but the problem is: The people can´t agree to disagree each other... If I see the person who can´t agree to disagree then ignore them. I know it´s not easy but it´s still the best.
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I agree with Liebling!! It like debate here on alldeaf. I am all for agree or disagree. If i say one thing, they don't agree, i respect that. Everyone of us here have their own opinion. But it sad to have some of the member of alldeaf leaving because they can't accept the agreement or disagreement parts. It their lost if they leave!!! What can you do?? :dunno:
 
Deehamilton said:
I agree with Liebling!! It like debate here on alldeaf. I am all for agree or disagree. If i say one thing, they don't agree, i respect that. Everyone of us here have their own opinion. But it sad to have some of the member of alldeaf leaving because they can't accept the agreement or disagreement parts. :dunno: It their lost if they leave!!! What can you do??
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That is fine that you respect it. But sometimes people GO ALITLE TO FAR and REALLY HURT OTHERS (they make it a personal attack)

Again, I think the disagreements have reached to a personal level and that is way out of line. You can disagree in a "civil manner."

Just as much as our loss. Because they are a vital part of the community here at AD.
 
Heart2Sign said:
That is fine that you respect it. But sometimes people GO ALITLE TO FAR and REALLY HURT OTHERS (they make it a personal attack)

Again, I think the disagreements have reached to a personal level and that is way out of line. You can disagree in a "civil manner."

Just as much as our loss. Because they are a vital part of the community here at AD.
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If the disagreements lead to a personal problem, i would say that a very different story. I should overlook it probably, my apologize!! Then why do they post a PM to Alex so that Alex can give a warning!! :|
 
Deehamilton said:
If the disagreements lead to a personal problem, i would say that a very different story. I should overlook it probably, my apologize!! Then why do they post a PM to Alex so that Alex can give a warning!! :|
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Like I said I don't know what happened. It's none of my business. All that matters is that people that I care about should reconsider not leaving because they are needed here. :angel: :angel: :angel: :grouphug: :hug:
 
When I was upset with threads/posts in the past, AD members tell me to ignore but what about themselves who got upset and not learn try to ignore the threads or posts??? :dunno: :confused:
 
Heart2Sign said:
I am not sure what has happened over the course of a few days. It's not my business anyways. I'd rather not know.

But I wanted to speak to those that are considering leaving AD. Because that is my business...since I happen to love people on here, I really don't know what I would do if I hadn't found this site. You and those that I have come in contact with have touch my heart and have had a profound affect on my life.

For once in my life, I feel that bond/connection that I had when I was constantly involved with my deaf friends at elementary school. I have found "home" again.

Consider us that really don't know you and want an opportunity to get to know you. If you leave, yes you will be noticed that you are gone. For a community to be had, it takes a lot of different people. That is what makes the community. Good or bad you can't expect everything to be perfect. For those that are attacking or being negative ~ yes it does hurt. I understand your pain, I've been there. Staying away only hurts those that know you and that want to know you. It won't affect those that are being negative in any way shape or form. They will contiune to behave that way, and drive others to "leave or consider leaving."

That is their problem. If they can't learn to get along or "play nice" then they will reap the consquences for that.

Consider staying, for those that love you, want to know you and accept support from them around you.

:grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug: :grouphug: :hug:

Love you guys, A LOT.
Sincerely, Heart2Sign :angel:
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yeah the best..

Let it go.. if disagree or agree.. important feedback anything as pro vs con..
As same thing as real life debate pro vs con. No difference..

If you feel not comfortable.. as long you can ingore the tiny thread.. isn't hurt you..
I've been here for longest years.
Used it here.. not even bother at all as long be yourself postive and just lil'plain simple ingore!
You're just fine young woman.. *smile*~:)
 
It has nothing to do with agreeing to disageeing, it has to do with HOW we approach others with such a respond, if they don't like what you say, you get attacked, and insult, and that's what upset some members in here and for that I don't blame them any bit....

Walk a miles in their shoes then you will know exactly how they feel, please don't say it easy to ignore when feelings do get hurt....


And I think it's a good idea for a few to take a break for awhile, until it cool down, maybe not, God only knows
 
^Angel^ said:
It has nothing to do with agreeing to disageeing, it has to do with HOW we approach others with such a respond, if they don't like what you say, you get attacked, and insult, and that's what upset some members in here and for that I don't blame them any bit....

Walk a miles in their shoes then you will know exactly how they feel, please don't say it easy to ignore when feelings do get hurt....


And I think it's a good idea for a few to take a break for awhile, until it cool down, maybe not, God only knows
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Yes I know it´s upset when anyone are being attack/insult because they can´t agree to disagree with them. Like what I say before that I know that it´s not easy to be ignore but it´s still the best.

Yes it´s best to have a break for a while...
 
Exactly and it's also important to keep an open mind on both sides, if not then how can we able to agree to disagree in a civil manner without putting anyone down??...
 
Just Ignore and do not reply to that poster.
 
^Angel^ said:
Exactly and it's also important to keep an open mind on both sides, if not then how can we able to agree to disagree in a civil manner without putting anyone down??...
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Then, don't respond, if not at all.
 
CyberRed said:
Then, don't respond, if not at all.
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If you really want to ignore a person then use the ignore feature in user cp. I notice they fail to use that often. I have put few on ignore list already..
 
Boult said:
If you really want to ignore a person then use the ignore feature in user cp. I notice they fail to use that often. I have put few on ignore list already..
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Yeah, that's another option. But, as for me - I would just not respond them, if I were them. ;)
 
Boult said:
If you really want to ignore a person then use the ignore feature in user cp. I notice they fail to use that often. I have put few on ignore list already..
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Yes you are right I did fail lol ..... :whistle:
 
I do agreed. But that's life which people do insult, say something very mean and such like that. Only thing we can do is INGORE them that's all. I know it's suck but I guess it's part of life then...
 
Sweetheart said:
I do agreed. But that's life which people do insult, say something very mean and such like that. Only thing we can do is INGORE them that's all. I know it's suck but I guess it's part of life then...
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yea true i agree with u
 
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