My daughter is being bullied! Help!

cool use all methods to deal with the bully...

never back down from a bully, they feed off of it. the best way to deal with a bully is to make a stand. one way or another. make a stand...
 
:applause: You go girl, I know you won't give up with a fight! :applause: :hug: @ Rebelgirl
 
RebelGirl, I didn't get the chance to read all these posts until just now. I am so sorry that you are going through this kind of situation. I know it is really hard on your daughter and you with her being bullied. I want to say that I hope everything will go well after that meeting tomorrow.
 
I'm sorry to hear your daughter's going through a bad time. I know from experience what it's like to be bullied. My school did nothing to combat the problem even with my mother calling all the time.

I think it's time for schools to start having zero tolerance policy against bullying.

But I do hope your daughter's bullying problem will be resolved soon.
 
C.C.Sinned said:
cool use all methods to deal with the bully...

never back down from a bully, they feed off of it. the best way to deal with a bully is to make a stand. one way or another. make a stand...
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working on that! :thumb:
 
ButterflyGirl said:
RebelGirl, I didn't get the chance to read all these posts until just now. I am so sorry that you are going through this kind of situation. I know it is really hard on your daughter and you with her being bullied. I want to say that I hope everything will go well after that meeting tomorrow.
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Thank you! I'll let everyone know what happens tomorrow..

by the way.. love your avatar!
 
Miss-Delectable said:
I'm sorry to hear your daughter's going through a bad time. I know from experience what it's like to be bullied. My school did nothing to combat the problem even with my mother calling all the time.

I think it's time for schools to start having zero tolerance policy against bullying.

But I do hope your daughter's bullying problem will be resolved soon.
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I agree with ya that they need to set up the policy NOW! not for my daughter, for other children too.
 
^Angel^ said:
That's my girl!! :hug:
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I meant to tell you that.. the bully is actually my neighbor.. i've gotta put up with that bullcrap with the "neighbor".. so you and i are very similar.. :thumbd:
 
Well...

I told my nephew to

1. Ignore them because everybody have to deal with bad people all the time.
2. Tell your teachers if it really bothers you.
3. Laugh if they namecalling you and namecalling them back.
4. Hit back if they hit you.
5. Make friends and more and more.
6. Focus on homeworks and make good grades.
7. Make your teachers proud and sit and obey them.
8. Only got few more years to graduate, so hang on in there and do your best.
9. And communicate with your child and empathize..... make sure he or she thinks positive.
10. And make sure your child be in schoolplays and other activities to help his or her self esteem.
 
Rebelgirl,

I'm very proud of you to fight for your daughter to stop that person to bully her. My daughter quit high school cuz of bullying...at that time I tried to help her, but the school wasn't helping. I went to school counselor, etc about it and my daughter still refused to go to school. My daughter kept telling me not to tell because she was afraid of revenge, so it was a big struggle for me. I told anyway and she did get some revenges. She quit high school, but graduated with GED. I'm glad that the schools today take bullying much more seriously than in the past. I have three young children now and it is very important that bullying is taken VERY seriously in schools so that they won't be afraid and be excited about learning in school. Please do let me know what happens after you have meeting. I really feel for you and Jaci, I really do!! Hugs!!!
 
:roll: @ Miss P, I hope nobody takes her advice. Never hit a child back, it only gets you in trouble. I learned my lesson when I fought my bully because my parents suggested me to ignored. It was worthless to ignored, It'll never stop until you step your foot up and do something about it. Report it does the differences. You are teaching your nephew the wrong path, Miss P. tsk tsk!
 
But you are overprotecting your child.

And I don't want my nephew to waste time on bullies.

Because my nephew followed my advice, he has ton of friends and hate to come home and want to play with friends and enjoy school so much.

See it works!!!
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
And I don't want my nephew to waste time on bullies.
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Hummm... You just listed what you told your nephew what to do, Now you denied it? I putting you on block because you kept on lying right and left. I hate liars. :bye:
 
Am I insvible that no one read my msgs ?? :D

in my mind that wish no more bullied around in school and just be a friendly with them. IF dont want to involed it then dont go near and be builled them just like stay. away :)
 
I never experience to being bullying. But, its best way to take care of that before getting low esteem or ugly. I hope u get care ur daugther situation. Hope that would taken care of. One thing i don't believe to fight or hit, they don't help any. It will guide them grow up. Alots of my friends believe in that. Which i don't. Talk is always way to solution. Most of time Bully have no friends or jealous for something. Good thing u are there for daugther and for her safety and her esteem. I'm proud of that. :)
 
I'm back ... wow, 6 whole pages thread here.. :shock:

RebelGirl said:
I thought about that but i had to reconsider it cuz i'm not going to run or let my daughter run away from problems. It'll make us look like a coward so we're going to face it and make it stop.. I'm going to fight.
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Exactly "run away from problems" do not solve anything that the children will never learn how to resolve when they are adult.

I show my children to stand themselves and be smart in friendlier way toward bullies. I explained my children that it’s no good to fight back but give them something positive. They realized afterward that the bullies leave them alone. My children will always have my support if they have the problem with bullies.
 
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