My daughter is being bullied! Help!

I think I am starting to understand how to put you on my ignore list.

Heath said:
Diehardbiker ... I think you need to take a breather here and look at Post # 1 and especially Post #2 then the rest of the thread then you will understand , okay?
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:jaw: Whoa....

*holding up a peace sign*... :Ohno:


*run*
 
^Angel^ said:
I support that 100%, I believe it should be a law, cause bully shouldn't be tolerated at all period.... :smash:


Children are suppose to feel safe going to school, and learn....
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Hi Angel,

Yeah .... well not all laws can be enforced what looks good on paper may not always be enforced in real life ....

but your comment about the children that are supposed to feel safe going to school and really be learning alots is 100% right on.
 
diehardbiker65 said:
Amen! I have my own child, before I had my own child I DID think differently about how to raise kids. Now, I realize that alot of things that I thought about kids before my son was born is mostly wrong. Health, once you get baby, GOOOOOODDDD LUCK!!!!!!!!!! You WILL DEFINETLY change the way you think! TRUST ME! I have been there, so is Cheri, ^angel^, me, and other parents.
PLUS you never being bullied, so how nerve you are thinking you know it all! KNOCK IT OFF! Yuor getting on my nerve! I am experienced parents already, and that I have experienced being bullied while nobody did anything about it. So, don't tell me, Cheri, ^angel^ and all other parents shits!
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I agreed with ya.. like if I get my own kids and I will get hard time till get slove not easy right? not to think it is easy nah not easy

my cousin having hard time of her oldest daughter cause her daughter is being so bullied at school. but now she is not being bullied now I think doing good at school but she is very strong .. she is 12 yrs old now
 
Heath said:
Hi Angel,

Yeah .... well not all laws can be enforced what looks good on paper may not always be enforced in real life ....

but your comment about the children that are supposed to feel safe going to school and really be learning alots is 100% right on.
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Hi Heath,

I know it may not happen to some states, but it worth a try right?... ;)
 
diehardbiker65 said:
I think I am starting to understand how to put you on my ignore list.
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By all means, be my guest, look man what happened at WPSD is in the past now ... You are a full grown man ... time to move on. No need to focus on the hurting and start to have many new, good and positive experiences in your adult life.
 
^Angel^ said:
Hi Heath,

I know it may not happen to some states, but it worth a try right?... ;)
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Yeah as long as it is based on common sense law then worth a try. :) :thumb:
 
hey rebelgirl,
i think that u can drop ur daughter off at school and pick her up.. SIMPLE! also u need talk school about that.. i wish that they talk to girl's mother abt that and make kick her out bus and make her and her mom learn lesson.. I WISH... but dang!
 
:( I am so sorry to hear that this is happening to your children. Definitely call the bus transportation office, and let them know that the children involved have been bullied and harrassed by this 2 kids. Call the school, make an appt. with the principal and the guidance counselor, to set up a meeting regarding this situation becoming way more serious than it already has. I know you mentioned that one of the kid's mom doesn't care, and it wouldn't hurt to have her come in too and hear from your children and this little girl along with her parent's, what these 2 bullies are doing. This child's mother may need a wake up call and realize that maybe this 11 year old is a victim too of the 15 year old putting her up to the bullying. I could be wrong about this, but, importantly, your children and the little girl have rights as well as safety, to get back and forth to school without being harrassed or bullied. There used to be a program several years ago, where students themselves would become Hall Monitors, also before/after school monitors, who would try settling problems between the students involved, and it had seemed to work out well.
In the meantime, your children and this little girl need to feel safe to and from school, and the bus transportation office and the school administration, need to be made aware of the fact that they are being harrassed and threatened. Good luck!!!! :hug:
 
CODAchild said:
:( I am so sorry to hear that this is happening to your children. Definitely call the bus transportation office, and let them know that the children involved have been bullied and harrassed by this 2 kids. Call the school, make an appt. with the principal and the guidance counselor, to set up a meeting regarding this situation becoming way more serious than it already has. I know you mentioned that one of the kid's mom doesn't care, and it wouldn't hurt to have her come in too and hear from your children and this little girl along with her parent's, what these 2 bullies are doing. This child's mother may need a wake up call and realize that maybe this 11 year old is a victim too of the 15 year old putting her up to the bullying. I could be wrong about this, but, importantly, your children and the little girl have rights as well as safety, to get back and forth to school without being harrassed or bullied. There used to be a program several years ago, where students themselves would become Hall Monitors, also before/after school monitors, who would try settling problems between the students involved, and it had seemed to work out well.
In the meantime, your children and this little girl need to feel safe to and from school, and the bus transportation office and the school administration, need to be made aware of the fact that they are being harrassed and threatened. Good luck!!!! :hug:
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true i agree with u and u hav a good point! rebelgirl, i think she is right.. why not do it...
 
TweetyBird said:
hey rebelgirl,
i think that u can drop ur daughter off at school and pick her up.. SIMPLE!
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This is the first time I actually disagree with you, Sorry :( I don't think that would solve the problem because, nobody should be pushing anyone off the bus and letting the bully win this round. Gotta stand up and put the end to it all, so that her daughter would feel safe to ride the bus and go to school. ;)
 
At WPSD we had monitors for in the boy's dorm and the girl's dorms. There were some good monitors and some monitors that abused their powers that were given to them.

Some bus companies do put a video camera on their bus then hit play then they write down who is doing what to who then confront them in a school meeting. It costs money but once the kids know they behave better. I remember a show years ago about it. I am not sure if it was 20/20 or 60 mintunes or something about the bus system and the video cameras being used to monitor the kid's behaviors on the bus. I was flipping through the channels and did not except to be watching that and I thought that was an eye opener from before to now. Before it was bad then after .... well behaved kids on the bus. A real eye opener.
 
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Cheri said:
This is the first time I actually disagree with you, Sorry :( I don't think that would solve the problem because, nobody should be pushing anyone off the bus and letting the bully win this round. Gotta stand up and put the end to it all, so that her daughter would feel safe to ride the bus and go to school. ;)
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Yeah but you gotta think about this small girl's emotions and her well being too. Parents should not get into one of those ego wars when it comes to their kids lives, man.
 
Hey, some of you think I may lose my temper around here. Really, this is my expression I have in generally and I wasn't even having temper at all. I actually ask Cheri if she notice me losing temper? She watched me on cam all the way, and she said no. So, to make it clear I wasn't. Ask yourself, did I enlarge my font, like some people do? I almost never did! Also once you chat with me on AIM or in RL, you will understand me better. :)

It does offend me when a person who never been in their shoes and preach them what they thinks so. It DOES turns me off.
 
diehardbiker65 said:
Hey, some of you think I may lose my temper around here. Really, this is my expression I have in generally and I wasn't even having temper at all. I actually ask Cheri if she notice me losing temper? She watched me on cam all the way, and she said no. So, to make it clear I wasn't. Ask yourself, did I enlarge my font, like some people do? I almost never did! Also once you chat with me on AIM or in RL, you will understand me better. :)

It does offend me when a person who never been in their shoes and preach them what they thinks so. It DOES turns me off.
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:topic: and I have been in your shoes before and I know what WPSD can be like. Nobody said you lost your temper.
 
diehardbiker65 said:
Hey, some of you think I may lose my temper around here. Really, this is my expression I have in generally and I wasn't even having temper at all. I actually ask Cheri if she notice me losing temper? She watched me on cam all the way, and she said no. So, to make it clear I wasn't. Ask yourself, did I enlarge my font, like some people do? I almost never did! Also once you chat with me on AIM or in RL, you will understand me better. :)

It does offend me when a person who never been in their shoes and preach them what they thinks so. It DOES turns me off.
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I didn't say or think you had lost your temper it's just that some members see things a little different, and the way I see it is that some members get a little upset of what this member A say, even sometimes we may not agree on some things but it better to be calm so you can explain things a bit more clearly, ya know....

That's all...

Oh boy did I say too much?.... :Ohno:
 
I am sorry your daughter has to deal with this. I used to be bullied by the girls at CSDR. I fought them and I won. They got in big trouble and leave me alone. They were afraid of me after that. Cuz I became so mean after that.

But with your daughter's problem on bus sitution, they should have put zero policy on the bus. Bully others are not allowed on any bus or school. We have those policy here.

I don't like to talk about it but my son used to protect his friends from bully kids and they leave them alone because they were afraid of my son. Sometime He would get his friend who is biggest and strongest to protect him if he needs. Now he is adult and it is all in past. Whew. I used to be worry about him come home in black and blue burise. He sure get in fights wtih those bully kids and did not get in trouble. Usually after school or outside of school. That is why I perfer to drive to drop him off and pick him up from school than put him on the bus. Kids will be kids, nothing is going to change.

Anyway those girls who bully your daughter, there is something wrong with them. Best to let professional deal with those girls, I would suggest you bring your daughter to school if I were you. No more Bus. It speaks from my own experiences, your daughter's safety is number one important.
 
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