I never even said anything remotely close to that........and you're all whining about people misinterpreting you? That's not even a misinterpretation of anything I said. Pretty sure you threw out that I was jumping to conclusions........oh boy, that is hysterical, considering what you just shoved in my mouth......... that's a doozy.
Are you drunk? high? what?
Yes, yes, you did. You see, when you went off on your tirade, you put your own past experiences in alignment with that of the OP. Those two experiences are not even closely related. The OP's husband is not abusing the OP. The OP is not wanting to leave because her husband nearly dislocated her jaw and was then reading his bible in the living room. The OP is bored. The OP is wanting exciting sex and romance. The reason behind the OP's desires, which she plainly stated, are that her husband has seemed to have lost interest in her sexually. There has been no mention of verbal or physical assault, which you have indicated was your past experience with your ex. You projected your own past experience on to what the OP was saying when the two are not even closely related. When I made mention of what was the "likely" cause of the OP's dissatisfaction, I was not assigning blame on anyone. I was just straight talking about what "could" have been the underlying causes, and what was "probable", or "likely" - I was not making any definitive assertions or accusations. You misinterpreted what I said, and when you did that, you put the blame on the male in the relationship as a result of your own projection of your past experiences.
yeah, you're right, its totally my fault that you misunderstood me.
Here you go ... follow the bouncing ball. You **assumed** I was placing all of the blame on the OP for wanting to cheat on her husband because he was "so-so" in bed. I then clarified that this was, in fact, what the OP was claiming - not me. You then expanded on that by *assuming** that I was placing the blame on the OP for their current sexual plateau in their relationship. I believe I may have clarified, more than once, that I was not placing blame. You then drew a comparison between myself and your ex who almost dislocated your jaw, and whom liked to play the "blame game'. You are now suggesting that I am not using the "proper" vocabulary, and that is why you misunderstood me in the first place. Why don't you look up the definition of probability and possibly, as well as could be. It does not matter which way you put it, saying something is probable, is stating that something is likely. It is likely that the OP is as much at fault for her sexual plateau in her relationship as much as her husband is. It is not probable, it is not possible and it is not a 'could be' that this is a public forum and the identity of the OP can
easily be found by any competent divorce attorney. There is also no probability or possibility that the OP is publicly humiliating her husband. That is an empirical fact. It is fine if you disagree with me, I do not hold grudges, but I hardly ever back down from what I know to be true.
I don't play the "blame game". I do not dislocate jaws. I also do not get high, nor do I get drunk.
To further expand on this issue - your whole assumption that >I< am the one who is playing the blame game when you yourself are making assumptions and pointing fingers is laughable.
just me and my 13 and 14 year old, no more temper tantrum throwing 4 year old. Oh wait, that would be 40 year old. No seriously it often felt like I had a 3rd child, a spoiled brat of child. I'm talking to guy I've known for forever. But just talking, he lives like a thousand miles away. Not sure where that's going, but I'm okay with that. Not going in with any expectations this time 
