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Indeed. I've had people - especially my father- tell me if i tried harder, I wouldn't lose things so often. No matter how hard I try, I will lose things more often than most people will. My father says I shouldn't need to have back ups but for those with ADD related organizal problems, backs up are are a necessisty. I always have a copy of my bank statement or other official document ready if I should misplace my driver's id nor do I keep all of my important papers together because losing all of them will make it difficult to prove that I actually exist!
This year I haven't lost my ATM card once. However, I doubt that my card will make it to the expiration date. I tend to lose such cards before before they expire. One year I lost my ATM card 13 times a year; I remember nearly losing my temper when the banker wanted to know how I could lose it so often.
Well, your father can't compare your behavior with him or other children with no ADD... because they are different... All what we want to help ADD children is change their diet... more sports... time and patience with them...
All what I help my son with therapy is:
Change his diet
Need more sport to get aggressive out
Need to have time and patience with him
Sugar (sweets, soda, sweetner, additives, etc) should not give to ADD children after 2 pm. (Junk foods should be cut)...
They need sports instead of watch on TV or play computer... play with him... - turn TV off one hour before his bedtime... it help to reduce his wild and hyper. It work hard on my son when he was a little... Now he is teenager... didn't show his ADD behavior very much.