jillio
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Ah, I had been wondering where you stand. I agree with you on what you say about Cole'smom. Too many hearing parents seem more concerned about the child's speech when they should be concerned about their language skills. I remember one guy from my oral class who had excellent speech skills and he could hear on the phone. It was a shock reading one of his notes as it was clear his language skills weren't good. You'd think that*I* of all people would know better than to make an assumution about good speech being equal to good language skills. :P
I agree that CIs do not make you hearing. You're still deaf even if you sound hearing.
If I were to marry a Deaf man and we had a deaf child, I'd have it implanted only if the Dad agrees to it. It's a joint decision. BTW, I'm not so concerned about CI children of Deaf families as they're more likey to know what the child will face and that they will have normal language development. They'll not make the mistake of assuming that CIs make them hearing.
With the Hearing, it depends on their attiudes toward sign and the d/Deaf in general. Many tend to take those they deem experts a bit too uncritically - sometimes with unfortunate results.
I'd be careful about marrying a hearing man because it'll depend on his attiude toward my deafness; I hate the controlling type who think they know more than the Deaf do and discount 'em as a rule.
I think you did an excellent job of raising your son.
deafskeptic! I tried my best.