Empress i am sorry you have had so much trouble. I see what you have said here and i hate to hear it. But here is the thing. You went into the roomate situation KNOWING they would be mean to you, people you have never met. If you felt this prior to meeting these people you may have already set in your mind looking for them to do that. Then no matter what they did you would say Oh see they are mean just like i thought. You don't think that affected your attitude in any way towards them? If you had that in your mind you don't think it would change how you treated them?
Also i used to work with a woman who said every where she worked people were mean to her. They always treated her so bad. This woman was a B*TCH!! she cause drama everywhere and was a trouble maker and back stabber. But it was the other people who were mean. she never saw what she did to get that reaction from them. She was just an awful person. she never messed with me thought (i think she was scared of the gay man! LOL) although during one of her particularly bad times when she was being a real hag and complaining how everyone at every job has always been so mean to here. I stopped her right there and said you know what? I am through hearing you say that. All these jobs (she job hopped a lot) with all the different people and no one knew you from the job before. Different cities and so forth. Yet everyone treats you mean. The only thing in all of these places that is the same is YOU. Maybe the problem is not these other people maybe the problem is you. You do nothing but cause problems here, obviously you have done so everywhere you have worked since we treat you the same as everywhere else.
Empress you may want to look deep inside yourself to see how you treat people. If everyone is mean to you what do you do that would cause that? I know that there are mean people all over the world but i find it hard to believe that you have some magic thing about you that pulls all of them all of the time to you. I have read some of your posts here and you can be mean in threads when no one has said anything to you. You seem bitter, and things in your life i understand can cause that. Just let it go, resolve in yourself that you will be a happy person. Don't let people get to you so much. If you think those two you previously mentioned are out to get you.... you are letting them. It is a control thing. You give them the power. If they try to make you mad and you jump, they have controled you. Be a strong woman and don't let anything people who try to hurt you get to you. Don't give your power away. Treat people with respect and kindness. People will try to walk over you, identify those people and don't waste your time on them.
Also i used to work with a woman who said every where she worked people were mean to her. They always treated her so bad. This woman was a B*TCH!! she cause drama everywhere and was a trouble maker and back stabber. But it was the other people who were mean. she never saw what she did to get that reaction from them. She was just an awful person. she never messed with me thought (i think she was scared of the gay man! LOL) although during one of her particularly bad times when she was being a real hag and complaining how everyone at every job has always been so mean to here. I stopped her right there and said you know what? I am through hearing you say that. All these jobs (she job hopped a lot) with all the different people and no one knew you from the job before. Different cities and so forth. Yet everyone treats you mean. The only thing in all of these places that is the same is YOU. Maybe the problem is not these other people maybe the problem is you. You do nothing but cause problems here, obviously you have done so everywhere you have worked since we treat you the same as everywhere else.
Empress you may want to look deep inside yourself to see how you treat people. If everyone is mean to you what do you do that would cause that? I know that there are mean people all over the world but i find it hard to believe that you have some magic thing about you that pulls all of them all of the time to you. I have read some of your posts here and you can be mean in threads when no one has said anything to you. You seem bitter, and things in your life i understand can cause that. Just let it go, resolve in yourself that you will be a happy person. Don't let people get to you so much. If you think those two you previously mentioned are out to get you.... you are letting them. It is a control thing. You give them the power. If they try to make you mad and you jump, they have controled you. Be a strong woman and don't let anything people who try to hurt you get to you. Don't give your power away. Treat people with respect and kindness. People will try to walk over you, identify those people and don't waste your time on them.