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Not always. Some women and men are allergic to them.
Plus they can break which happened with me.
Indeed. That is why there are more BCs. Not just condoms.
Not always. Some women and men are allergic to them.
Plus they can break which happened with me.
You are mistaken to think that a fetus is not a baby. It's a baby albiet not born yet.
To say that 8 weeks fetus is just a blob is inaccurate. It's clearly distinctively human.
Abortion is gore but it doesn't mean it's always wrong.
Slaughter of animals is always gore but it doesn't mean we are not allowed to slaughter them.
Yes... women have fun having sex. Sex, if you're wondering, is a natural urge that most of the planet feels.
The whole "women should TAKE RESPONSIBILITY if they SPREAD THEIR LEGS" spiel that pro-lifers or so called "pro choice, BUT"-ers spew is horrible in so many ways. It demonizes women for having sex (which is what people are, largely, wired to do) and negates the fact that abortion IS taking responsibility for the pregnancy.
It isn't about -taking responsibility- to you people, its about punishing women for being sexual beings, whether you admit it or not.
Indeed. That is why there are more BCs. Not just condoms.
Have you seen an eight-week embryo? I have. It doesn't look anything like a human. Have you studied the embryonic human brain? I have. I don't think basic neural tube closure can amount to calling a creature the most profound and holy thing we can call them: human.
Its a good thing that even two forms of birth control can fail, right?
Again, you're going back to "women should only have sex certain ways or in certain conditions or else they got what was coming to them!" - and that's so much more wrong than just being "pro life" in itself. Like women are "at fault" if they don't have safer sex, or heck, if they have sex at all, and they're "innocent" if they get raped in the right circumstances- no drinking or short skirts, girls, because you probably deserve to get raped and pregnant then. :roll:
It isn't your place to decide what level of risk of pregnancy is acceptable for any woman, or to decide they "ought" to be punished with carrying a pregnancy to term if they can't/dont want to use BC, or BC fails for them.
DISCLAIMER: This essay is in no way telling you what you can or can't do with your life. I'm just sharing my view on how certain things need to be encouraged more and certain other things need to be controlled more. If you don't want to be one of those people, THAT IS PURELY YOUR CHOICE.
Just like I would warn people of the dangers of smoking but still not force anyone to stop smoking, nor would I ban it. This is pretty much the same here.
I pretty much already addressed this in the essay itself, but you know, some people and their ability to miss the point once their emotions get stirred the wrong way.
"If it's not your life, it's not your business!"
I am not here to impose my views or my way of living on anyone else. Everybody is still free to make their own personal choices. I'm merely here to show how dangerous and damaging oversexualization can be, and I believe there needs to be some change. Although viewing sex as a negative thing is not a good thing, viewing sex as too much of a good thing is equally harmful. The best option for us is to view sexuality in a neutral light.
No, that's more rhetorical slop. A fetus is not an "unborn baby" any more than an egg is an "unseminated unborn baby".
Well, what about male victims of rape? I keep seeing pro-choice people throw the rape arguments at pro-lifers, yet I see no one stand up for male victims. But it is still his fault, right?
Not true. At that stage, anyone can identify that fetus as a human.
Er, I've worked with male victims of domestic violence and human trafficking as part of my job, in one of only a handful of shelters and DV services in the US that serve male victims. I'm among one of perhaps, pushing it, a thousand people in the US who has provided direct services (other than therapy or legal aid) to male victims of DV and trafficking. What have you done to stop violence?
I never claimed, or implied, or vaguely suggested that men cannot get raped. Of freaking course they can. But that is not the topic at hand: we're talking about women and pregnancy right now.
Again, have you -physically seen- one in person? Not seen a shopped picture produced by a pro-life propaganda site, or seen a drawing with the human-like-cheeks emphasized. Have you seen a one-to-two-gram, not vaguely human 8 week -embyro-. It is not even a fetus yet.
Graphic, but this should give you some idea. Again, 1-2 grams:
this
This
or this
I don't see people there darn anywhere.
Then please tell to Bethany that she is wrong and to convience her that she is BIG lair.
But she miscarried her baby at 6-7 weeks of pregnancy...
Not true. At that stage, anyone can identify that fetus as a human.
Oh golly, you're so wrong.
Life begins at conception. It doesn't matter how it begin - it's human with the DNA blueprint for human life.
It's a biological fact.
Yea and good riddance to men who stick their dicks to as many holes as they want to boost their egos. Good for them!
Why do you say that? If she was self-supporting before she got pregnant, that doesn't necessarily mean she can afford to raise a child all by herself. Even if a woman is married, has a child, and later divorces, she is entitled to child support in all states, I believe, but only rarely will be entitled to alimony.
The costs of raising a child, ideally, should be split between the man and the woman in some way that is fair, but of course out-of-wedlock pregnancies rarely have the financial arrangements tied up quite that neatly.
I often question those kind of motives. like some women who get pregnant on purpose to collect welfare.
Condom is answer.
Welfare in my state will not pay for a second child any more!