That took quite a while to finally get an answer. Since I've joined AD, I have come to appreciate ASL's power in giving a wonderful education to deaf children at an early age. However, it's hard to be convinced that just because the general population is hearing, a deaf child surrounded in an ASL environment is forced to learn effective communication with the hearing population. Why? Because people here are so focused on convincing people why ASL is awesome, why speech therapy sucks, and belittling the need to be able to speak with the hearing world. Just see Jillio's responses to my questions, you'd think that she's against speech therapy, which in reality she is not at all. Because the medical community is promoting one extreme (oralism and/or CI) so the deaf community feels the need to respond with another extreme to compensate.
What does this have to do with hearing parents/deaf community? Well, if I were a parent, and I asked the question I asked earlier "Is speech therapy + English class + exposure to hearing world enough for effective communication?", do you think that what she said just now (after asking 3 times) will convince me that it is enough?