HEY! If you are using Alldeaf to stalk your ex...

[sallylou]

Yes, start gathering evidence. For every contact document the date, exact times, place, method of communication, etc. You need to save texts, emails, handwritten letters, etc. Also, have a neutral 3rd party around as a witness whenever possible. Basically, that's someone who doesn't have a grudge against the ex. Best friends who are familiar with your conflicts aren't as credible. Stay safe and good luck.

 

[posts from hell]

ok i'll stop stalking.

 

[sheila022]

aww, I'm sorry to everyone who was stalked! I never had the problem of being stalked and I hope it keeps that way xD

I stalk people daily.....though Facebook! LOL! :P :P :P :P

 

[posts from hell]

aww, I'm sorry to everyone who was stalked! I never had the problem of being stalked and I hope it keeps that way xD

I stalk people daily.....though Facebook! LOL! :P :P :P :P

wow you didnt know you were stalked! Damn, im good.. oh wait

 

[Frisky Feline]

duh, pfh. lol

 

[KristinaB]

Got a call from the Ex's mother, then verified it with both the Sherrif's office and the prison. Ex died today. He was 37. (yes, I was 10 years older than him) There was a fight in the prison yard and he was unlucky enough to be in the wrong place and the wrong time. At least he is no longer suffering from his mental issues.

 

[deafbajagal]

I'm sorry, K.

 

[jillio]

Got a call from the Ex's mother, then verified it with both the Sherrif's office and the prison. Ex died today. He was 37. (yes, I was 10 years older than him) There was a fight in the prison yard and he was unlucky enough to be in the wrong place and the wrong time. At least he is no longer suffering from his mental issues.

I am truly sorry to hear that. Hugs.

 

[KristinaB]

At least he doesn't have to deal with things anymore. I know he screwed up, but he should have gotten better care from his mother and the mental health professionals he saw. They just gave him medicine and had his mother in charge of it. There was no counseling offered. His mother didn't believe he was sick.

 

[jillio]

At least he doesn't have to deal with things anymore. I know he screwed up, but he should have gotten better care from his mother and the mental health professionals he saw. They just gave him medicine and had his mother in charge of it. There was no counseling offered. His mother didn't believe he was sick.

That is truly a shame. But, unfortunately, that happens all too often. The prisons are full of people just like him, and that is the last place they need to be.

But you are right. He has at least found peace.

 

[Bebonang]

That's unbelievable!

+1

 

[Dixie]

Got a call from the Ex's mother, then verified it with both the Sherrif's office and the prison. Ex died today. He was 37. (yes, I was 10 years older than him) There was a fight in the prison yard and he was unlucky enough to be in the wrong place and the wrong time. At least he is no longer suffering from his mental issues.

I am sorry to hear that Kristina. I don't know all of the details surrounding his situation but as others have stated people will resort to drastic measures to get the help that he needs and often these people don't even belong in a prison.

I have heard of people who were jobless and homeless committing crimes just so they could go to jail where they know they will be fed and clothed. I wish the system were set up to better help those in need. Sadly we have a one-size fits all approach in America.

 

[Rio]

Got a call from the Ex's mother, then verified it with both the Sherrif's office and the prison. Ex died today. He was 37. (yes, I was 10 years older than him) There was a fight in the prison yard and he was unlucky enough to be in the wrong place and the wrong time. At least he is no longer suffering from his mental issues.

Kristina,

 

[femme Fatale]

stop stalking me

Surprise! ! not done with you!

 

[Jiro]

:-o

 

[Dixie]

Oh damn.

 

[MidnightSun]

so very sorry aboyt your ex K. and I agree with Dixie, there are so many homeless and people in need od meds and mental health counseling..but they are happy to get a place to sleep and eat...it is truly a shameful thing to be happening in this country, at this time. Too many children are either ignored cause mam and dad are so busy..hmmm or the act out and are stamped trouble makers..now thats gonna really improve their self esteem.
I pray for the children , they are truly our future, if we are to live on as a civilized society..but things are not looking so good....I wish you all peace

 

[Sosie]

I am sorry to hear that, KristinaB. Hugs..

 

[Steinhauer]

I had a stalker for a short time, but he really screwed up. I had forgotten about it (not sure how, but maybe it's because it wasn't considered to be major at the time. It was in 1989 or 1990. He got caught and is still in jail but for a laundry list of things. He was sentenced to 150 years with no parole. After getting caught spray-painting my car with obscenities, he admitted to killing 7 people and stealing 5 cars and took the police to the burial site of the bodies and the lakes where he ditched the cars. He had been diagnosed as manic depressive and his mother never gave him his meds. He wanted to go back to jail since he knew his head would be better on a routine and with his meds. Sad way to live, but he's somewhat happy. He was 24 when sentenced.

That is some serious f#^ked up shit!!!

About 2 years ago, I was driving home from work when I saw a woman running along the side of the street trying to frantically flag people down. No one pulled over, so naturally, I did. I thought maybe her car broke down. She came screaming into my truck and started sobbing uncontrollably and asked me to take her to the nearest medical emergency facility. There was a fire department just down the road, so I figured I needed to get her there as any medical emergency facility was miles away.

On the way there, I learned that her BF had gotten into an argument with her father and her BF killed her father right in front of her. I got to the fire department and started banging on the doors, an EMT came out and took over.

 

[Dixie]

That is some serious f#^ked up shit!!!

About 2 years ago, I was driving home from work when I saw a woman running along the side of the street trying to frantically flag people down. No one pulled over, so naturally, I did. I thought maybe her car broke down. She came screaming into my truck and started sobbing uncontrollably and asked me to take her to the nearest medical emergency facility. There was a fire department just down the road, so I figured I needed to get her there as any medical emergency facility was miles away.

On the way there, I learned that her BF had gotten into an argument with her father and her BF killed her father right in front of her. I got to the fire department and started banging on the doors, an EMT came out and took over.

Damn that is fucked up!