Heath's dating situation ? Help please ? Advice ?

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Whenever I am dating a girl then people get extremely jealous angry and backstab and try to do horrible things to my girlfriend and me to get us to break up then they wonder why she does not break up with me ??? They just increase their anger and frustration in trying to break us up and guess what when my girlfriend and I are all alone, we just laugh at the false and wild accusations that are thrown to her or to me or to the both of us, they tell the girl I beat up her or ugly things but all my girlfriends that I have had know I do none of those things at all, even those who have mental health issues know that I do not hit or abuse her at all so she knows those false and wild accusations means nothing to her and that just makes all of those who are mad, jealous angry want to do even more worse to my girlfriend or me or the both of us. It actually is sad because you put all this time, effort and enegry into something that does not exist and you become more enraged because you have lied to her and to me and to anothers as well as to yourself and you find that very hard to admit your mistakes and those girls remember I did nothing like that to them at all and they are grateful for that and you just become even more enraged once you find out that we stay friends and you guys explode in anger, fercority and intensity because you know you have found yourselves to not be true. It really is sad and go ahead, be content in your wild imaginations, false accusations, backstabbings and trying to get somebody to break up something that was supposed to be beautiful and good.
 
deafsqrrl said:
Just another advice:

there are too many groupies - Try not to be so close to anyone for next first month or so, then you will not regret for joining in a wrong groupie.



O I am talking about NTID - its not much different than Gally anyway.

Deaf Sqrrl.
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Thank you Deafsqrrl and I am not much of a follower and I always think for myself while anothers let anothers do the thinking for them which becomes a source of problems for them.
 
Heath said:
Whenever I am dating a girl then people get extremely jealous angry and backstab and try to do horrible things to my girlfriend and me to get us to break up then they wonder why she does not break up with me ??? They just increase their anger and frustration in trying to break us up...
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Who tries to do that? Why do they do that?

I'm sorry but it seems that you hang with some mighty strange people.
 
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Another whacko thread!!! From what I see here, seems that there is somebody who is truly having mental problem, yet refused to accept the fact that this person isn't perfect and EXPECT to find somebody perfect for himself. This is not going to happen, not even in our generation!

From my experience, when I look too hard, I get screwed up. So, I quit looking too hard and I ended up find somebody better.

Ain't gonna give anymore suggestion cause I already left good inputs and these inputs were never used. sigh!
 
diehardbiker65 said:
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Another whacko thread!!! From what I see here, seems that there is somebody who is truly having mental problem, yet refused to accept the fact that this person isn't perfect and EXPECT to find somebody perfect for himself. This is not going to happen, not even in our generation!

It is the people who are whacko and I am trying to find a good woman and yes good women still can be found. I am not going to settle for less and yes in this generation, women still can be found. I have seen it myself.

From my experience, when I look too hard, I get screwed up. So, I quit looking too hard and I ended up find somebody better.

I already did stop looking too hard and that still did not work because I still ended up with a girl who had mental health issues which is something I do not want.

Ain't gonna give anymore suggestion cause I already left good inputs and these inputs were never used. sigh!
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I have already used every advice, suggestion and inputs from anothers and just because you gave up on me does not mean I am giving up then settle for less with a woman who I would be un-happy with a woman, which is exactly what anothers want to see me un-happy with another woman and then they can laugh about it so I am not going to give them that and I am going to come out the victor with my girlfriend who I am marrying and she will be my wife and we will have a beautiful family together.
 
Hey Heath, you will never find one you want for lady like this ... if you carry on then you will END UP TO BE LONELY OLD MAN !! it is true to be the fact ...

Or if you did find one then your life will become boring because no challenge or be smart with ... very sad for waste time .

Let it happen to be in the natural way, Nothing to be shame if you met someone that was not to be suitable so we all does have make mistake but have to accept it to face the fact .

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Heath, you sure have high hopes for what you expect in a woman. It's NEVER gonna work. You need to go with the flow and let her come to you. Most of the time women who come to you means they're really interested in you, like for example sweetheart came to me and that's how relationship goes.

There's no such thing as a perfect woman. Example: What if a large woman with sweet personality comes to you and likes you a lot. What will you do? Run away because she's big? Think about it!
 
sequoias said:
Heath, you sure have high hopes for what you expect in a woman. It's NEVER gonna work. You need to go with the flow and let her come to you. Most of the time women who come to you means they're really interested in you, like for example sweetheart came to me and that's how relationship goes.

There's no such thing as a perfect woman. Example: What if a large woman with sweet personality comes to you and likes you a lot. What will you do? Run away because she's big? Think about it!
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I would tell her we can be friends if she is big, no offense I prefer women who are normal to slim and that is my personal preference. That is all and there are guys out there that like big women. I am sure there are big women with friendly personalites but they just are not for me.

I am not looking for somebody who is perfect which is what AllDeaf readers are thinking and they missed the whole point is that I am very, very tired of dating girlfriends who at first are normal then turn out to be real mental cases etc. Just no more women who are mental cases period. No More.

A man is to come to a woman if he is interested and not the another way around. I know this because I have tried that approach to let women come to me and it does not work that way. When I take the initative then women are interested. I have seen this with my own eyes. To sit around and let the women come to me is never gonna work. A man has to take charge and the women really appreciate the initative that I take when I am really interested in her.
 
IcedTeaRulz said:
Yes, I see that but u still read porn and drink.
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I am showing you the mirror of yourself and not me. Understand ? Get it ? You demand me to be perfect christian, well I am a Christian and I am not perfect either but I do have faith in God, I work hard and I don't read porn hardly if anything at all then there is a good moral point to the story when I post in the pensarium forum and it usually is clean with a good moral point to the story.

I only have a cold one every night after dinner and there are millions of another Christian men that drink beer and still are Christians, hard working and honest. I am not going to live up to your excepations at all and I am just myself and I have faith in God. That is something you probably won't understand, anyways as I excepted which comes to be no surprise. You don't know the depth and how much faith I have in God and work hard, things like that.
 
Oh YER! ofc we probably don't understand what situation you are in ..

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Heath

I suggest that you pray and surrender this issue to God. Let God take care of it. God will have you find your Ms Right when He thinks you are ready.

But you need to examine your expectations. Your expectations seems awfully high - it will be almost impossible to find that one if you expect so much from love.

Maybe you attracted these mental case types because you love to help and offer advice, etc. Next time dont give so much of yourself and see true colors as it is.
 
I find it interesting that not one person mentioned finding a girl at church. I'm not into church myself, but if you are Heath, then look there. I know how small towns are so if there is no one in your church then try a similar faith or go to a nearby bigger town. I'm sorry that so many people in here would rather attack you than try to help. Leave the internet alone it's full of loonies. My brother is really into church and wanted a christian wife and there was a girl I had gone to school with that was looking for a christian man. I ran into her dad at my office and we hooked them up. They've been together for years and have 2 kids. Start with some sane friends and have them help you look. Good luck.
 
Heath, who would want to date you? You are a racist, gay basher, and your attitude stinks most of the times. All I can say is good luck in finding a woman whose personality is exactly the same as yours.
 
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