Heath's dating situation ? Help please ? Advice ?

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Liebling:-))) said:
Do you mean that christians are not allow to visit bar for a glass of beer, wine or whatever?
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I don't mean that they are "not allowed". There is no "law" against Christians doing those things. Most Baptist churches make abstinance a requirement for membership but no one is forced to join a church.

Drinking alcoholic beverages, and going to bars are bad testimonies for Christians. It makes them look like hypocrites, and destroys their witness to unsaved people.
 
Liebling:-))) said:
I see nothing wrong if everyone read porn and drink moderately. Remember Heath is only human like everyone.
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But Heath professes to be a Christian, so he should live like a Christian. If he wants to attract a Christian wife, he needs to have Christian standards of conduct for himself, too.
 
Heath is just looking for advice on how to find a stable relationship.

I find these various posts with "what if" situations rather bizarre. "What if" his wife is abducted by space aliens and comes back to him implanted with an alien embryo? What if his wife confesses to being a secret agent for Hezbullah? What if his wife votes for Hillary? Good grief! Let's keep on a realistic track.

I don't think Heath expects to get a "perfect" wife but I don't think it's unreasonable to set some standards and have some expectations.
 
Sunshine1 said:
Sigh .... okay how's about this one.... your son has fallen in love with black lady and is planning to marry her. Would you respect his wife? How's about your daughter/son want to have same sex lover .. would you respect her/his wishes?
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My goodness! Poor Heath isn't even engaged yet and you want him to worry about a future not-yet-existing son and not-yet-existing-potential daughter-in-law.

Let's just take this one step at a time.
 
racheleggert said:
Here is other idea u can meet women. Since you are conservative, why not go to local Republican Party events, so you will be in luck finding woman there.
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That's a good idea. Going to places where people have similar interests is a good plan. Also, that way, even if he doesn't meet a girl there right away, he can still network with people who have common interests. Often they have relatives and friends who could be introduced to him.
 
Reba said:
Heath is just looking for advice on how to find a stable relationship.

I find these various posts with "what if" situations rather bizarre. "What if" his wife is abducted by space aliens and comes back to him implanted with an alien embryo? What if his wife confesses to being a secret agent for Hezbullah? What if his wife votes for Hillary? Good grief! Let's keep on a realistic track.

I don't think Heath expects to get a "perfect" wife but I don't think it's unreasonable to set some standards and have some expectations.
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Heath was not honest with himself,,, he kept insulting us... he is control freak.. he still goes to penisarium yesterday.. he lied... that is not christian way.... he needs to respect us allllll...
He even posted in pets video of dog humping on toy rocker... it is not clean
 
Geeze.... after reading this thread and some of Heath's other posts, I have concluded that Heath is the problem. Heath, you are way to extreme to find your perfect girl. In fact, it's a fantacy to think you (or anyone) will find what they envision to be the perfect match. Let me tell you some of what I personally know about love. Love by definition is not conditional. If you put conditions on it then it becomes nothing more than a business arrangement. That is not love. As you may know Love is God and God is love. So you have to expect (what you percieve to be) flaws in others and it's out of true love that you accept those flaws. Each of us has a different tolerance level for what we will accept as flaws. Have more of a "Live and let Live" attitude. Don't judge people. That is God's job. Don't force thie issue and let it happen naturally. Maybe the church is the best place for you to find love. Perhaps a dating service where you complete a profile and you must be honest about yourself in the profile. If all of that fails then perhaps its time that you look within yourself and accept the fact that maybe, ... just maybe... its you that needs to change....
 
I don't understand why Heath bashed at us. He wrote about his dating sitution? Help please? Advice? Huh?

I bet that he is so :crazy:!
 
Heath..... You made this thread asking us all for advises and help.... It seems that you are controlling all of us.... bashing on us... judging us all,,,, :fart: :pissed:
 
SxyPorkie said:
Heath..... You made this thread asking us all for advises and help.... It seems that you are controlling all of us.... bashing on us... judging us all,,,, :fart: :pissed:
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That's funny; I don't feel controlled, bashed or judged.

I don't give anyone at AD the power to control, bash or judge me. :D
 
SxyPorkie said:
Heath was not honest with himself... he still goes to penisarium yesterday.. he lied... that is not christian way....
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I agree that lying and posting in penisarium is NOT the Christian way.
 
Thank you to those who did give me good advice and tips. The another one of going to Republican party events would be another good idea too.

The reason some of you guys think this is a bizarre thread is because you made it that way and made fun of me.

If you had been more focused and really listened to what I had to say then you would have understood my problem.

FYI, I have already looked at myself and I am not the problem. It is the women who seem normal at first when I date them then I find out whoa, they have serious mental health issues and that is something I do not want in a woman to be my future wife.
 
Reba said:
I agree that lying and posting in penisarium is NOT the Christian way.
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Yeah.. he also posted in Pets... a dog humping on rocker toy.. it was not clean .... he judges on all women..... he acts like he is perfect....:pissed:
 
Stay away from online girls especially if they tell u they been in and out of hospitals for emotional management.

I'm paying a very high price for hitching one and dumping her. Takes two words to tie the knot and like a million words to untie it.

Try hooking up with an amish woman. More simple, loyal, and less influences by feminist groups.

Richard
 
Heath said:
FYI, I have already looked at myself and I am not the problem. It is the women who seem normal at first when I date them then I find out whoa, they have serious mental health issues and that is something I do not want in a woman to be my future wife.
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You said you are not the problem. You are wrong about it. You have hard time find a right women because of your personlity, etc. You are 30 years old now. No wife, No good job, etc. I don't want believe you anymore because you want make all fanstay dream that you really want.

You asked for help please, advice? I want tell you, It is okay if you dont like gay or lebrian but just keep your mouth quiet. Just respect them like human. They start say something like sex, then ask them to stop. Learn not control women what you really want! Learn how tell the truth and dont hide yourself. If you dont want tell anyone a truth then keep your mouth quiet instead lie.
 
You hit it right! Yup! and know what? I have known a woman in my area, herself is deaf and she wants everything in details out of man that she would date and marry. She wants everything PERFECT to her specification, guess what? she is now 56 yrs old and STILL haven't find a guy! She is uptight just like heath and the result would be pretty much the same for Heath. I wouldn't be surprise when he hits retirement and still no woman with him!

BTW, only fools who thinks there is NOTHING wrong with themselves!


ghsh1996 said:
You said you are not the problem. You are wrong about it. You have hard time find a right women because of your personlity, etc. You are 30 years old now. No wife, No good job, etc. I don't want believe you anymore because you want make all fanstay dream that you really want.

You asked for help please, advice? I want tell you, It is okay if you dont like gay or lebrian but just keep your mouth quiet. Just respect them like human. They start say something like sex, then ask them to stop. Learn not control women what you really want! Learn how tell the truth and dont hide yourself. If you dont want tell anyone a truth then keep your mouth quiet instead lie.
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Ya ya ya !! that's right that what i said up there that Heath will end up to be LONELY OL'E MAN .. so let him be . How so sad because he is also the CONTROL FREAK too.
Also agree with someone up there said heath should go visit the AMISH country because the ladies over there are so clean as the Amish men want them be.. Once he gone there to married the lady of his dream. ( excuse me being bad). :D Then we all can having party here as like Roman's time lol ...... I'm just being feeling so goofy today :giggle:
 
CutePommie said:
Ya ya ya !! that's right that what i said up there that Heath will end up to be LONELY OL'E MAN .. so let him be . How so sad because he is also the CONTROL FREAK too.
Also agree with someone up there said heath should go visit the AMISH country because the ladies over there are so clean as the Amish men want them be.. Once he gone there to married the lady of his dream. ( excuse me being bad). :D Then we all can having party here as like Roman's time lol ...... I'm just being feeling so goofy today :giggle:
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