Heath's dating situation ? Help please ? Advice ?

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Reba said:
I don't mean that they are "not allowed". There is no "law" against Christians doing those things. Most Baptist churches make abstinance a requirement for membership but no one is forced to join a church.

Drinking alcoholic beverages, and going to bars are bad testimonies for Christians. It makes them look like hypocrites, and destroys their witness to unsaved people.
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Drinking alcoholic beverages doesn´t mean to look bad and hypocrites because they only drink one to two glass of alcoholic moderately and chat with their friends or family. It´s same as Cafe, you go to cafe to have a cup of coffee to chat with your family.

I used to work Pub "The Green Man" every weekends. I met Jehovah Witness people there. They drink only one beer and use sign language with me. I know it´s not just Jehovah Witness but other beliefs as well. I beleive that Christians goes to bar to have a drink.

Remember, Jesus drank a glass of wine.
 
I agree with those who say Heath is the one with the problem that most women are not interested to date him.
 
CutePommie said:
Ya ya ya !! that's right that what i said up there that Heath will end up to be LONELY OL'E MAN .. so let him be . How so sad because he is also the CONTROL FREAK too.
Also agree with someone up there said heath should go visit the AMISH country because the ladies over there are so clean as the Amish men want them be.. Once he gone there to married the lady of his dream. ( excuse me being bad). :D Then we all can having party here as like Roman's time lol ...... I'm just being feeling so goofy today :giggle:
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I agree!
 
U need to grow up first and learn how to treat your wife alike a queen, if u complain about her being this or that then ur no good husband. Many Christian men are selfish and self-center, only think of themselves not want to understand or support their wives when they go thru dark moment of life. I already proved to my husband that I am more loyal to him than him to me and will support him anything. He was not much support when I went thru my moments till now he is improving and learn to be a husband I am looking for. I took that vow for better or worst, now my husband is going thru depression because of injuries. Will u do same for your wife, married her then deal with her problems down the road? Your not ready for relationship.
 
Liebling:-))) said:
Drinking alcoholic beverages doesn´t mean to look bad and hypocrites because they only drink one to two glass of alcoholic moderately and chat with their friends or family. It´s same as Cafe, you go to cafe to have a cup of coffee to chat with your family.

I used to work Pub "The Green Man" every weekends. I met Jehovah Witness people there. They drink only one beer and use sign language with me. I know it´s not just Jehovah Witness but other beliefs as well. I beleive that Christians goes to bar to have a drink.

Remember, Jesus drank a glass of wine.
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What she was trying to tell u, Christians should not go to bar ( I mean real bar, not restuarant bar) to hang around unchristian way alike getting drunk, or fliriting with married women. I have seen too many of them do that and it is not Christian's way. It is ok to drink wine for health reason but to drink to get drunk, it is not okay.
 
jazzy said:
U need to grow up first and learn how to treat your wife alike a queen, if u complain about her being this or that then ur no good husband. Many Christian men are selfish and self-center, only think of themselves not want to understand or support their wives when they go thru dark moment of life. I already proved to my husband that I am more loyal to him than him to me and will support him anything. He was not much support when I went thru my moments till now he is improving and learn to be a husband I am looking for. I took that vow for better or worst, now my husband is going thru depression because of injuries. Will u do same for your wife, married her then deal with her problems down the road? Your not ready for relationship.
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:h5: :rofl:
 
Liebling:-))) said:
Drinking alcoholic beverages doesn´t mean to look bad and hypocrites because they only drink one to two glass of alcoholic moderately and chat with their friends or family. It´s same as Cafe, you go to cafe to have a cup of coffee to chat with your family.

I used to work Pub "The Green Man" every weekends. I met Jehovah Witness people there. They drink only one beer and use sign language with me. I know it´s not just Jehovah Witness but other beliefs as well. I beleive that Christians goes to bar to have a drink.

Remember, Jesus drank a glass of wine.
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I'm giving you the Christian perspective of drinking and bars. What other people do is their business.

Wine in ancient Israel was produced and used differently than it is now.

The Bible does condemn strong drink and drunkeness.

Who really knows where the line is between "moderate" drinking and "too much"? The only way to truly not cross that line is to abstain from all alcoholic drinks.

Our church's constitution requires that members agree to not buy, sell, make, or drink alcoholic beverages.

No one really needs alcohol so what's the big deal to not drink it? Before I was saved by Jesus I used to drink. After I became saved I quit drinking. I don't miss it one bit.

Anyway, back on topic. If Heath wants a Christian wife, he needs to behave as a Christian husband. That's the bottom line.
 
Reba said:
I'm giving you the Christian perspective of drinking and bars. What other people do is their business.

Wine in ancient Israel was produced and used differently than it is now.

The Bible does condemn strong drink and drunkeness.

Who really knows where the line is between "moderate" drinking and "too much"? The only way to truly not cross that line is to abstain from all alcoholic drinks.

Our church's constitution requires that members agree to not buy, sell, make, or drink alcoholic beverages.

No one really needs alcohol so what's the big deal to not drink it? Before I was saved by Jesus I used to drink. After I became saved I quit drinking. I don't miss it one bit.

Anyway, back on topic. If Heath wants a Christian wife, he needs to behave as a Christian husband. That's the bottom line.
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Have you checked his post in Pets claiming it iis clean.. it was not...
 
jazzy said:
What she was trying to tell u, Christians should not go to bar ( I mean real bar, not restuarant bar) to hang around unchristian way alike getting drunk, or fliriting with married women. I have seen too many of them do that and it is not Christian's way. It is ok to drink wine for health reason but to drink to get drunk, it is not okay.
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Oh I got it.

I´m not Christians but I don´t drink to get drunk or flirting anyone. Can you please picture the difference between real bar and resturant bar in America?...

I guess what you talking about "real bar" mean is including disco... Right?

There´re popular pubs around England without disco which different as "real bar". They also have "real bar" with disco as well. We rather to go Pub than visit to disco.

Do there have any pubs around America? If yes, it´s not same as "real bar". That´s Pub, I´m talking about.
 
If that is so true, and your now 30 yrs old... You should be having a woman of your own by now ALREADY, howcome you don't have one yet?

Heath said:
You would be surprised how many women would like to date me.
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SxyPorkie said:
Have you checked his post in Pets claiming it iis clean.. it was not...
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It is clean and it does have a good moral point to the story. You just want to jump all over me because anothers are doing it does not mean you can jump on the bandwagon.
 
diehardbiker65 said:
If that is so true, and your now 30 yrs old... You should be having a woman of your own by now ALREADY, howcome you don't have one yet?
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You clearly don't get it. Most of the women that I date seem normal at first but turn out to be major mental nutcases.
 
You dont get it...... no one wants to date you.....
SxyPorkie
 
Your clearly in denial! If I am a woman, your gonna be on the real bottom list of wanted guy! I wouldn't want guy like you!!!! Your just outta of mind and I don't want a man who don't have brain of his own to understand women.

Secondly I do NOT want any controlling freako as my mate! If the person is controlling and running my life, I'd call my divorce attorney.

Heath said:
You clearly don't get it. Most of the women that I date seem normal at first but turn out to be major mental nutcases.
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Heath said:
You clearly don't get it. Most of the women that I date seem normal at first but turn out to be major mental nutcases.
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Could be you that made them become nutcases when they met you that shocked them see what the real person you are !! . I can not to blames on them that they need get help wanted to keep away from you!! :D
 
diehardbiker65 said:
Your clearly in denial! If I am a woman, your gonna be on the real bottom list of wanted guy! I wouldn't want guy like you!!!! Your just outta of mind and I don't want a man who don't have brain of his own to understand women.

Secondly I do NOT want any controlling freako as my mate! If the person is controlling and running my life, I'd call my divorce attorney.
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Hey wanna share this Cava wine with me ? :giggle:
 
Heath said:
You clearly don't get it. Most of the women that I date seem normal at first but turn out to be major mental nutcases.
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Don't blame them, I would have turned into a mental nutcase too if I stayed with you :whistle:
 
CutePommie said:
Could be you that made them become nutcases when they met you that shocked them see what the real person you are !! . I can not to blames on them that they need get help wanted to keep away from you!! :D
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No and you are not paying attention. They had existing mental problems before I met them. I am a normal guy and I tired to help them the best I could and they just don't want to be helped and enjoy being mentally ill which is something I do not want nor need for a future wife to start a family with. No Thanks, I prefer a good , stable and normal woman to get married to.
 
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