Yes, I am open minded. If I were in your situation, I would do exactly as I did with my son. I realized that A) he was falling behind in elementary school, B) that you cannot rely on the public system of education to provide a deaf child with all that they need because deaf students are very, very misunderstood,
You are right you cannot depend soley on the public school system, this why my children are lucky to have to go help them where they need it.
C) just as you, I went to due process and won my case having him transferred to a school for the deaf where he did receive not only the educational support he needed, but the social support as well.
You see, we have both gone the route of the courts to demand services for our child. And I am open minded. Had you told me that your child was functioning at grade level,
But my children are functioning at grade level. I am not saying it has been easy but they are at grade levels and my son is actually function above grade level and this why he does not need direct services. and never used sign at all, then I would say that CART alone would probably provide an adequate solution. But because you have provided information contrary to that, then I see CART as possibly helpful, but not the only thing needed.
I am glad that if you were to do everything over again you make the same decision with your son. Just as I would. I am sure your decision were right for your son. Just I as I would also make the same decisions and I am happy overall with the progress of my chlldren. It has not been easy but we have made together.