Why are you so threatened by someone who actually has the motivation and the will to change a situation? Not all of us sit and whine like you do...
On the contrary, looks like you are extremely threatend by me.
You can't let any single post directed at me without lenghty comments. Even teh silliest subject - you are there frothing at the mouth.
I wonder why do I threatend you so much. I already said "whatever decision you undertook about your son is fine with me". If he is blooming, happy - then what's the problem?
I would do differently, if I had deaf child, I would make sure he would also be able to use CI at its most optimal - and in addition to all your son have, my child would also hear with CI. But that's me.
Like I've said - if you are happy, then all is fine. You know how a lot of deaf people here without CI and HAs reassure you that living like that is good - so believe it, finally, to stop the gnawing doubts that still ooze out of you. JUST BELIEVE IT. YOU CHOSE WELL. YOU DID.
As for whining, you stop whining how hard it was with loans etc. Everybody have all sorts of loans and huge debts to pay. I have to.
And while you are at it, you take out loans to attend medical school and then to open a practice, and tell me how long it takes to you pay off that thousands of dollars in debt. Oh,
medical school is not the only are where large loans are to be paid. And after medical school you at least have solid salary at the start. learn to budget, and it can be well balanced. I have physician in the family, too.
And as you've called it -for "fucking not having ideas how it is", yes it is very sad to have a new husband and a young father die, and I am very sorry about that. Truly and very very sorry. If I could bring him back for you, I would.
Now you, YOU try to immigrate by SELF to a foreign country, where you know no people, find a job without speaking a language AND being HoH, immigrate to yet another country with different language where you have to start anew, then at one point in life try to be a single DEAF mother, hon. that's just a few.
And since you apparently know sh*t about me, I would suggest ONCE AND FOR ALL please stop making unfounded
in fact any assumption about me. as I asked you many times before.
Shel just proved you just missed quite and important fact in this about me (something I have already stated, btw selective reading, huh) - I did was 4 years single mother).
And thank you SHEL. Yes, you remembered well.
Fuzzy
And I'm not whining. Simply stating facts. That's the way it was and I dealt with it. Got on with my life. You would do well to try to do the same. I never even mentioned my circumstances until you brought it up. Whatsa matta, fuzzy? Trying to make yourself feel better for your perceived inadequacies?