Dating Before a Divorce

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What do you think about dating before a divorce?
 
either mate would feel betray of beyond.

Don't do that.
 
You mean during separation? if so, I don't see a problem with it. ;)
 
If you are separated and not living with your husband/wife- i dont see nothing wrong with dating someone.. but i was told it was big NO NO? some said its alrighty.... some said its better to wait till your divorce is final.. but i have seen LOT of people dating.. so i guess it s not a big deal?? hmm... oh well.. if u met someone you liked and he/she asked u out.. go for it... just take your time and HAVE fun.. :)
 
Freaky Cat said:
If you are separated and not living with your husband/wife- i dont see nothing wrong with dating someone.. but i was told it was big NO NO? some said its alrighty.... some said its better to wait till your divorce is final.. but i have seen LOT of people dating.. so i guess it s not a big deal?? hmm... oh well.. if u met someone you liked and he/she asked u out.. go for it... just take your time and HAVE fun.. :)
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it's 21st century with a new social trend. everything's ok anyway lol :cool2:
 
It seems to me folks in the middle of a divorce would be so busy attending to that, to bring closure and take a deep breath before going ahead with something new and major in their life. :dunno: So what's the rush, anyway?
 
You mean... you both plan on getting a divorce, so you date other people?

If so, I wouldn't recommend it. It only makes things worse than it is.

What if a couple were planning on getting a divorce, so the guy starts dating another woman. The wife could use that against him when it comes to settlements. :roll:
 
I knew quite a few people who were separated, go out on dates. It seems to be accepted in our society.

But if you are still living in the same house with hubby even though you're getting a divorce, don't go dating yet otherwise it would be awkward and jealousy issues would arise.
 
Matilda said:
I knew quite a few people who were separated, go out on dates. It seems to be accepted in our society.

But if you are still living in the same house with hubby even though you're getting a divorce, don't go dating yet otherwise it would be awkward and jealousy issues would arise.
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Mathilda, just for the sake of argument, what would be the point of jealousy raising it's ugly head between two people in the process of divorcing one another?
 
If you are independent from any living arrangements with him and separated, its fine. However, be prepared for any reactions if your to be ex sees you in another relationship, especially considering the timing, he may get pretty jealous feeling dropped on the spot and easily replaced. If you like the drama, it won't matter even if you flaunt your new love interest in front of him, otherwise, if you cant handle it, keep it on the sidelines.
 
Maria said:
Your thread stated " Dating before a divorce " -- which one issue this thread is talking about ?
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When I say the marriage is over I mean that there is no saving it.
 
My husband can see who he wants and I can see who I want,we both agree to a divorce.Want to hear something funny? I made this thread after midnight and today I been marry 28 years.
 
SCBassist said:
If you are independent from any living arrangements with him and separated, its fine. However, be prepared for any reactions if your to be ex sees you in another relationship, especially considering the timing, he may get pretty jealous feeling dropped on the spot and easily replaced. If you like the drama, it won't matter even if you flaunt your new love interest in front of him, otherwise, if you cant handle it, keep it on the sidelines.
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I am moving out,as far as jealous and hurt feeling there is none.
 
VamPyroX said:
You mean... you both plan on getting a divorce, so you date other people?

If so, I wouldn't recommend it. It only makes things worse than it is.

What if a couple were planning on getting a divorce, so the guy starts dating another woman. The wife could use that against him when it comes to settlements. :roll:
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I will be nice about it because my children ask me not to hurt their father as long as there is no BS I just want the divorce.
 
VamPyroX said:
You mean... you both plan on getting a divorce, so you date other people?

If so, I wouldn't recommend it. It only makes things worse than it is.

What if a couple were planning on getting a divorce, so the guy starts dating another woman. The wife could use that against him when it comes to settlements. :roll:
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That's one of reason, they shouldn't do that. It show message that either mate want to hurt each other.
 
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