This is what I am like pre-ci in 1999 I was anti-CI over at DN
see how mean I was back then eh..
then Wake's reply was this
After that I said nothing... then I started researching... and learned that it does not require their daughter's college money to cover the surgery. I learned that it can be done with insurance. Or even by charities.
Then I went from there for 2 years and in 2001-2 I decided to go for it then in 2003 I made history.
Now here I am saying my surgery is covered by insurance.
I know I said "I would rather let Nature take course than alter it. " I figure if I did that, I would not be enjoying more as I am today. So I alter so I can enjoy more. It's been wonderful so far!
Boult
Senior Member posted 07-25-1999 03:34 AM
Wake,
I am curious how much does it cost to have C.I. on your daughter? I believe you have wasted your daughter's college funds. since I assume it cost over ten thousands to have those device, operations, training programs and etc. Whereas your daughter could have gone to either hearing with special program for deaf or deaf school (day school or residental school). They are cheaper without C.I. And when your daughter graduate, then you could send her to a expensive college with that funds you spents into C.I. operations.
OR
You should have saved those money for her graduation gift! not C.I.
My Belief is that C.I. is great for hearing who suddenly lost their hearing from accident or from combat since they are hearing and not born deaf.
Your Daughter may be happy with it because she cannot think absract yet. She is too young to defend herself. I wondered if you have asked her if she wants one. You are lucky that she is still alive. If anything goes wrong.. you lose her and your money.
Communication requires loves and understanding not altering them to make them understand. If you both are very patient people then you should have taken your time to learn sign language and communicate with her and when she get older, she will learn speech no matter how deaf your daughter is. When she is adult, she would be speaking to you after all without a C.I.
I would rather let Nature take course than alter it.
Good Luck in future for your daughter.
Boult
see how mean I was back then eh..
then Wake's reply was this
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Boult posted 07-25-1999 03:34 AM
" Wake,
I am curious how much does it cost to have C.I. on
your daughter? I believe you have wasted your
daughter's college funds. since I assume it cost over
ten thousands to have those device, operations,
training programs and etc. Whereas your daughter
could have gone to either hearing with special
program for deaf or deaf school (day school or
residental school). They are cheaper without C.I."
reply: With the ci, our daughter will start out in the classroom
f for the deaf in the neighborhood school. She will
have instruction during part of the day in a special
auditory setting and another part of the day will
be voice off ASL. Probably by first grade she will be able t
to be fully mainstreamed. She will have a
desktop speaker FM system for listening to the teacher
and most likely a language facilatator or someone who can answer any questions that she may have. This person could even be someone who could use ASL to explain something
Gradually, she would end up with just a notetaker or
maybe she would not need any support in the classroom.
We are keeping all options open because we are unsure
what the distant future holds for her. Right now, we
know that she is a successful ci user. She can understand
what is being said to her on the phone if you use words
that are familiar to her, like "I love you." or "Are you
' having a happy day?" She was in a pre-school with hearing
children part time and did well. She was also in an ASL pre-school the other part of the week. We would like her to appreciate that we have continued learning ASL and will keep that door open for her, too.
Also,we have not spent her college money. We have dreams
of having her graduate from college. She could decide what
type of college to go to.
Some said that maybe parents want to give their children
all the tools available to be successful in life. That is
probably true. We want our child to be happy with all the
doors that we are leaving open for her.
" My Belief is that C.I. is great for hearing who
suddenly lost their hearing from accident or from
combat since they are hearing and not born deaf."
reply: Yes it is probably easier to make the decision
for someone to have a ci in the situations you
described.
"You are lucky that she is still alive. If
anything goes wrong.. you lose her and your money."
Reply: I am not sure if you mean that she could die because
of the ci. I never heard of that.
" Communication requires loves and understanding
not altering them to make them understand. If you
both are very patient people then you should have
taken your time to learn sign language and
communicate with her and when she get older, she
will learn speech no matter how deaf your daughter
is. When she is adult, she would be speaking to you
after all without a C.I. "
From what I understand, it is very difficult for a
deaf person to learn to talk unless they have enough
residual hearing... I met a girl with about the same
decibel level as my daughter and it took 4 years to
learn to say about 4 words.
"I would rather let Nature take course than alter it."
I respect you view!
Sorry for the long post.
After that I said nothing... then I started researching... and learned that it does not require their daughter's college money to cover the surgery. I learned that it can be done with insurance. Or even by charities.
Then I went from there for 2 years and in 2001-2 I decided to go for it then in 2003 I made history.
Now here I am saying my surgery is covered by insurance.
I know I said "I would rather let Nature take course than alter it. " I figure if I did that, I would not be enjoying more as I am today. So I alter so I can enjoy more. It's been wonderful so far!