No, let's not be "general", let's be specific.
Specifically, tell me, who raised a profoundly deaf child who is oral and a graduate of mainstream schools, exactly how I am being "disrespectful" and exactly to whom I am being "disrespectful".
Since you are a noted authority who can speak on behalf of ALL deaf individuals or according to Flip, millions of deaf individuals, it should be so simple for you to provide specific examples of the "disrespect".
I await your learned and fact filled response.