faire_jour
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There's a huge difference between the two. My parents encouraged me to learn music but never forced me to. If I made clear I didn't want to, they would have let me find another hobby. Likewise, parents can say "if you want to use your voice, go ahead. But if not that's okay too."
Right. And every single (reasonable) parent say that to their children. They give them the skills they need and when they are old enough to make the decision, they do.