Boys: At What Age Would You Consider....

Jiro said:
this thread is getting uncomfortably awkward...... now I just don't feel like laughing anymore....
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me neither
 
you guys should open up more. the world be safer if you all talked about on proper use of condom.
 
Dr. Ruth was so popular because she was so non-threatening. Having a grandma give advice and giggle about sex appealed to people. She was great. She took questions on her show and never rejected any question no matter how strange it was. I gave my teen her book when he was younger. It's a good read for middle school aged kids.
 
My son is 12, and is just realizing the effect he has on girls. He stands at around 5'5" and 130lbs with my Irish blue eyes and his father's Greek complexion. It's a dangerous combo.

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I have talked to him about girls (mostly cause his father isn't interested in doing so) and I hope that is he has any questions that I will be able to answer them. And I am perfectly willing to give him condoms, though I might have a fight one my hands with my ex-husband.
 
When I was a teenager I often brought girlfriends home. My father would always pull me aside and say "She's a nice girl son" then wave his finger and say "Don't you dare get her into trouble!!" :lol:

I have a 7 year old daughter, I dread the the day when I have to worry about that!:shock:

And I know in todays world it will come sooner rather than later:roll:
 
rockdrummer said:
I know that when I was growing up some kids were sexually active as early as 7th grade.
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Sexually active at 7th grade..man! My daughter is in 7th grade. I do not want to face it yet. lol
 
Anyways, Rockin Robin, I think you are doing a great job. I told my daughter that she can come to me regarding sex and that I hope she makes wise choices. I told her that I am fearful of her making bad decisions that can affect the rest of her life and she asked me what were they. I said, sex without protection, drinking, drinking and drivng, drugs, failing out of school, getting involved with someone who is abusive, and a few others.

we talk about all of those things, not just about sex only.

Man, I am so nervous about her these days although she seems to have a good head on her shoulders.
 
You definitely did the right thing RR! You had helped them understand the importance of safe sex, it's better than lecturing them to not have sex, because normally it doesn't help much. ;)
 
shel90 said:
Anyways, Rockin Robin, I think you are doing a great job. I told my daughter that she can come to me regarding sex and that I hope she makes wise choices. I told her that I am fearful of her making bad decisions that can affect the rest of her life and she asked me what were they. I said, sex without protection, drinking, drinking and drivng, drugs, failing out of school, getting involved with someone who is abusive, and a few others.

we talk about all of those things, not just about sex only.

Man, I am so nervous about her these days although she seems to have a good head on her shoulders.
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It's a never-ending cycle...our parents worried about us, now we're worried about our kids....I have no girls, but if I did, boy...I would watch her 24/7! And chaperone her everywhere! Maybe even buy a chastity belt for her! (HAHA). I think the key is to keep them "super busy", and keep the door open like you're doing for her.....
My oldest boy (18) has just broken up with another girl, and she was on the BC shot....so I knew they both were protected. Seems the girl's mother was smart, as she knew her daughter was "crazy" about my son, and my son is not an "angel".
As for my 15 yr. old, he came thru the door the other day, and he looked just like "a man"! He was going out with friends, and I reminded him, "do you have ur wallet"? He knew what I meant, and said, "Oh, yeah".
Good thing ur daughter doesn't live on our block! HAHA! J/K.....Got one more coming up, the 13 yr. old....But right now, girls' are "yukky" to him, but next year, the cycle repeats and repeats.......And my prayers remain the same...."Good Lord, keep the girls' safe from my boys....I'm not ready to raise another child, or a "shotgun wedding".
 
I agree sex education regardless is the best way to go..


Kids can walk into any Health dept and get free condoms.
 
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