Betrayed By Friends?....

Amen Amen Amen DreamyDeafieee you hit the nail right on the head :smash:


Aww I'm sorry to hear that Alex, :hug:
 
Amen DreamDeaf! :thumb:

I've known a few people who actually had their own circle of friends, If one or two of their friends don't like this other person, they get dragged in the middle. It had nothing to do with this person to begin with, I like people who have their own mind who they want to talk to and who they don't want to talk to. I don't think anyone should be controlling anyone or influence anyone either. It's like these people doesn't have their own mind to make a decision on their own. There are some of my friends who aren't friends with who I am friends with, They never tell me not to be their friend, If they do I'll tell them that they're my friends just as much as you are my friend. ;)

Plus there are too much accusation Like, "Oh did you hear this, I saw it, he or she told me." It's like can't you use your brains and get proof of evidences instead of falling for rumors? :smash:
 
Yeah of course, thats why I turned my ex best friend down when I found out that she stabbed behind of my back with my another best friend and telling her the lie stories abt me and even she made too many rumors with alll of my friends and I heard it from them and got digust abt it and already turned her down for that.

Since, I dont hang out with my Fake Friends that much, just my true friends(I only hang out with same like less than 10 friends). I used to hang out toooo many friends same like 20 to 30 friends. But, right now nah... I rather to stick with true friends than having fake friends, yuck. :thumb:
 
been there done that, nothing new

yes it hurt and evenually get over it then move on to better path and finding new friends that may even be better than other. In real life, I knew one person I wouldnt even dare to see or talk to due to that I know this person done lot of bad things through life when I grew up (in school years). Only way is to find friend that may be good suitable to your socialization perferences that may last good friendship (not always). As for online friends, best way is to know them and talk for long time before you giving out more informations or get closer to them in friend's relations or even in relationship.

Now you see why i have few friends online that i have chat for over 5 years and havent meet them in person yet because ofc money issue and evenually feeling not ready enough to meet them until i feel secure enough.
 
Yeah I can understand that Shiva, whatever you feel ready to meet them in person....
 
Yes, I have been there too, i'm sure a lot of people have been there. Some of them I have made friends again but it wasn't the same as it used to be.

I've hurted one of my very good close friend during college years boy... long story about what had happened and it did taught me a big lesson and she refused to be friends with me again and i respected her wishes. It was hard for a long run until college is over and it got a lot better. If they don't want to be friends with you. just let them go until they feel ready maybe never. She'll always be missed but I've heard how she is very few times.

Other time, Many of my friends disliked my other friend and made me lost some of my friends cuz of this person until we were not friends anymore and some of my old friends came back to be friends with me but it's not the same as it used to be. It takes long time to regain the trust and such.

Sometimes it's frustrating when you get in the middle of two friends and didn't want you to be friend with this person. It's so tiresome too. I hate when that happens. Oh well, we learn everyday and moves on and such. you know what i meant ?

Yes its hard to trust everyone nowadays, I'm sure most of us have faced the truth or consequences when we hear something good or bad news. Life goes on.
 
Yes, I've been there a few times and got burnt badly. That's why I have a hard time getting close to people in real life and on-line. People do often wonder about me, but I am the way I am. Only few people got through to me, but it took me a long time to put my wall down. Most of the time I keep my wall up because I'm afraid of getting hurt and also I am fragile, but you're not supposed to know that. I'm just saying that just in case you wanted to know why I am the way I am. Oh yes I admit that I have betrayed some people only because I freak easily and decide not to get too close. It's very frustrating I'll say. Funny, my husband is the opposite of me. Thank goodness I have him in my life and the same goes to who got through to me.
 
I do not have any online friends so I am not worry about who backstab me. It does not bother me if my friends want to talk behind my back about me , really I don't care. I see them once awhile and let them gossip about me, hopefully good ones.
 
I have been hurt by a few people in my life that had backstabbed about me and told others about my secrets when I asked them not to tell anyone. Whenever that happens, I will still be nice to that person and talk with him/her but not say anything that I do not want him/her to tell anyone. I have several close friends in person and online that I totally trust to confide in. I do have a lot of friends, but I do not confide much to most of them. That way, I can ensure myself that I won't get hurt as much.

I agree with what DD said, "You want a true blue friend - be a true blue friend yourself to them, also." That is very, very true! Very good thread, Angel!
 
been there but I dont want to said in here :) no joking.

I would like to said but no thanks cause dont want someone read of my thread in here then later tell one person to get me into trouble or else I rather not to said in here .. hope you understand :) thanks
 
Who's Jennifer ?

Jennifer is not my name. Sorry, it did not say from my birth certificate.

Dear Attention seekers and believers,

I have to vent real BAD and I just learned from late afternoon. I am not glad to hear or read those via emails. It make me full of RED like crab! :o

Those people who are non true friends would be obession that has REAL serouis personal problem like someone just told. I would guarantee that to you!

Those people who should to be corperate or face the consequence that should be friends with but not kind of TRUST, yet.

Those people who are TRUE friends would sit down and listen those problem that everyone want to states.

Many things, I been seeing are JEALOUS of those people who are gift, patience or comforable. I do not care if you not agree with me. There is lot of different people has individual personal toward others friendship or relationship. I do have different personal and attitude with all of my friends.

I do see LOW and HIGH profiles here, not need to be involved unless you want to be involves with. I do see RICH and POOR lifestyle here, too. Of Course, there is lot of opinion about each other. I mean no one perfect.

I DO NOT like backstabbers or cussing those stuipd names. I conside they are NOT TRUE friends, period.

:::Okay::::

I do have friends here and in real life, too. There is judge on your OWN about ur friends or not.
 
TweetyBird said:
i uddy that.. dont have to.. :hug:
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Thanks :hug: it was which renctly arghh but thanks for understand :).. that is why I dont post in here alldeaf very much which make me overwhelmed :)
 
DeafMonkey said:
Thanks :hug: it was which renctly arghh but thanks for understand :).. that is why I dont post in here alldeaf very much which make me overwhelmed :)
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Aww how come?....I missed you in AD lately :(
 
MizzDeaf said:
Jennifer is not my name. Sorry, it did not say from my birth certificate.

Dear Attention seekers and believers,

I have to vent real BAD and I just learned from late afternoon. I am not glad to hear or read those via emails. It make me full of RED like crab! :o

Those people who are non true friends would be obession that has REAL serouis personal problem like someone just told. I would guarantee that to you!

Those people who should to be corperate or face the consequence that should be friends with but not kind of TRUST, yet.

Those people who are TRUE friends would sit down and listen those problem that everyone want to states.

Many things, I been seeing are JEALOUS of those people who are gift, patience or comforable. I do not care if you not agree with me. There is lot of different people has individual personal toward others friendship or relationship. I do have different personal and attitude with all of my friends.

I do see LOW and HIGH profiles here, not need to be involved unless you want to be involves with. I do see RICH and POOR lifestyle here, too. Of Course, there is lot of opinion about each other. I mean no one perfect.

I DO NOT like backstabbers or cussing those stuipd names. I conside they are NOT TRUE friends, period.

:::Okay::::

I do have friends here and in real life, too. There is judge on your OWN about ur friends or not.
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AMEN!!! u got good point here.. also i dont like BACKSTABBERS and they are immature..
 
DeafMonkey said:
Thanks :hug: it was which renctly arghh but thanks for understand :).. that is why I dont post in here alldeaf very much which make me overwhelmed :)
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yea i uddy.. smile.. dont have put in here that u dont comfortable.. dont force urself okay.. :hug:
 
DeafMonkey said:
been there but I dont want to said in here :) no joking.

I would like to said but no thanks cause dont want someone read of my thread in here then later tell one person to get me into trouble or else I rather not to said in here .. hope you understand :) thanks
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Yea, I do certinally respect you which your wishes prefer not release how much you've felt that way.. reason you doesn't want ot post here..That okay!

Keep in Touch w/me.. *wink* :hug:~Take care! :ily:
 
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