Not letting deaf people join the military because of their hearing loss is a form of audism as well as discrimination.
Is it dangerous? Let us choose what we are capable of doing. Don't choose for me.
^^^^^^ Yeah that!
Not letting deaf people join the military because of their hearing loss is a form of audism as well as discrimination.
Is it dangerous? Let us choose what we are capable of doing. Don't choose for me.
Allowing people to talk on the phone, but disallowing them to text on the phone because they might fall in a water foundation is audism.
Why give a negative label to someone that is "ignorant" of the issues? IMO the negative labels should be saved for people who KNOWINGLY hold negative views. I don't see how anyone is served by labeling people .
I remember someone saying to me on a different forum that deaf shouldn't get terps or note takers if they can talk but refuse to speak and refuse to get a CI. :roll:
Well, there is a difference between audism and an audist. Personally, I believe that all hearing people will, from time to time say something or do something that would be considered audism, simply because it is natural to think from one's own perspective. However, the person that is then educated regarding the practice of audism, and continues to behave and think in that vein is an audist. They have had the opportunity to learn and to change what it offensive, but refuse to do so because they refuse to validate any perspective other than their own. Audism labels the mind set that leads to the behavior of seeing things as a hearing person would. Audist labels the person who refuses to consider that they may have unintentionally offended and chooses to continue offending.
The problem I have with that is when I've listened to degrading comments for 40 years, it gets old. Fast.
I've had the same -- people that are amazed I can even speak, even drive, even do anything. It seems like they think I should be a simpering idiot for being deaf. And, after 40 years of listening to that ... ugh.
No,
IMO it would be better to focus on what is harmful or unfair, and stop being offended by questions and phrases. For example when someone asks "Why don't you get a CI?" One has a choice......they can explain why realizing this person is actually asking with good intentions.....or they can choose to be offended by the question. To me answering the question seems more productive. I believe the deaf need to realize that we have something that is different, for better or worse, and people are going to be naturally curious about that. I tend to believe polite conversation is much more productive than choosing to be offended. Which is more beneficial.....that person leaving the conversation thinking "wow I never thought of it like that" or thinking "wow, what a jerk, I guess they are bitter" Then again, maybe they leave the conversation without an understanding.....at least you tried.
I'm sorry but that just cracked me up. I got this image in my head of hearing people at a formal party:
Man: "Look at me. I can articulate each word perfectly."
Woman: "Wow. You sure can. I want to improve my intonations. Do you have a speech therapist you could recommend?"
Man: "Oh, your intonation is just fine."
Woman: "Aww, thanks. Perhaps after this party, I can show you how good my intonations can get."
(Sorry, off topic. Couldn't resist)
There's a difference between feeling offended and feeling oppressed.
Audism is the belief that the hearing view is superior than the deaf view. Thus, it is the trigger for oppression.
When I feel oppressed, it's because I'm experiencing oppression.
There is a large group of people who makes decisions about me and for me in regards to deafness without ever considering asking me as a deaf person for input. They even define me for me. That's audism.
True, no doubt. But it doesn't change my opinion that by showing up, doing great work and maintaining a positive attitude I had a more positive effect on this person than if I had gently corrected her. I could be wrong but I don't think so.
Another example (I have mentioned this before).....One of the insurance companies once pulled me off of a job because the homeowner was uncomfortable with the limited ways to contact me with questions. See now that IS harmful and I dealt with that in a different manner.
I wonder if Beethoven wished he could hear his own music?
From the OP
Just attempting to clear up the misunderstandings.
I can see where you are coming from TXgolfer....it is actually drawing out some very valid points in a non-directly 'defining' way (your preference is it not )
If the word "superior" is taken out and "alternate" inserted does "audism" collapsed? Is it reality if the same "words" are spoken VS signed can "classified to show differences"? Isn't it the "belief that ASL et al" is equal to English et al? How can the users of ASL et al believe it is "inferior"?
How was it determined if the underlying supposition is in fact true? Random sample? Google search?
Some thoughts on a snowy night.
Implanted Advanced Bionics-Harmony activated Aug/07
Daredevel7 said:To me, audist view is simply the definition as stated in the OP:
Audism: The notion that one is superior based on one’s ability to hear or behave in the manner of one who hears.
Nothing more, nothing less. I don't really agree with the most of comments made in this thread. A lot of them simply comes from the idea that ASL is superior to English.
Which is fine by me. It's okay to think that ASL is superior to English, but it's obvious that some people mask it with that label "audist". It seems like a few people are combining anything that isn't pro-ASL with audism.
Deaf people dont go around bragging about their ASL skills at Deaf socials, to their friends, and etc. That's stupid.
We do compliment each other on good analogies, ideas, and etc, not on ASL skills. I have never met a Deaf parent bragging to others about their children's ASL skills. Maybe about good grades, creativiness, and science projects but about speaking skills? Not that I have seen and it would have been a turn off.
I dont think hearing people go around bragging about each other speech's skills, do they?
I'm sorry but that just cracked me up. I got this image in my head of hearing people at a formal party:
Man: "Look at me. I can articulate each word perfectly."
Woman: "Wow. You sure can. I want to improve my intonations. Do you have a speech therapist you could recommend?"
Man: "Oh, your intonation is just fine."
Woman: "Aww, thanks. Perhaps after this party, I can show you how good my intonations can get."
(Sorry, off topic. Couldn't resist)
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i'm gonna disagree with this. I have seen LOTS of Deaf people notice and complement childrens' ASL skills. Both deaf children and CODAs.
-equating sound with "opportunity"
- that the deaf person is "missing out"[/QUOT