Attn: Eve

[kuifje75]

Eve would add much diversity to the mix in this team of moderators, in my opinion. She's very strong minded - you've seen that. She's not afraid of saying what's on her mind. You saw that. She's not afraid of offending people... WHEN she needs to get things said or done. You saw that. She has integrity.

LizzieChickie, I do have troubles with your statements:

Granted she is not afraid of offending people, however, it is my belief that as a moderator, ones own beliefs must be restrained and separated from the role of being a moderator. A moderator must be quite diplomatic to EVERYONE, and that means saying things in such terms that will not offend other people. If a person is a moderator, I do not believe that gives him the carte blanche to offend people nor to penalise people for random silliness that can happen from time to time. I have noticed myself that when I was a moderator here for AD, I had to try to the best of my ability to not to judge people and to keep my mouth shut. Now that I am no longer a mod, it gives me a bigger opportunity to tell people what I REALLY think. I don't think one can really continue to do that once he/she becomes a moderator. That would most definite compromise with his/her own integrity. Maintaining ones own integrity is finding the moderation in his/her own diplomatic means of controling the situations if they should need it. In other words, one would have to also moderate oneself.

 

[Cheri]

Ummmm... I am one of the person that did not get a private message from Eve, However I am not too surprised either. In case you know I'm also a female so she did not send it to all females here in AllDeaf for all that matters. And there's evidences that shows you that she isn't the mature one to become a moderator because of her dislikes to some members here, When a moderator is choosen, The moderator has to keep natural and be fair to everyone even if she/he doesn't like this member.

I also agrees with some peeps here such as kuifje75, MsGirlz, and others as well.

As I recalling remembering that Alex used to posted a poll asking for members to vote for a new moderators, When the moderators were chosen by members a couple weeks or months later those moderators backstabbed Alex and that I don't want to see it happen again. I trust Alex will choose the right one who would be a moderator of his forum if he felt there is a needed to add moderators on the board. I don't think voting would do best because friends can vote for friends and that's not the best choice. And to be honest, I would not vote for Oceanbreeze or Eve, reason why? based on how they posted. I honestly think they are not mature, fair, kind, and caring enough to be moderators and I have seen them offensed some members here, That doesn't sound like it's the best choice for AllDeaf expectly becoming a moderator.

Just my two cent.

 

[Liebling:-)))]

Yes, I has to agree with K75´s & DD´s post here.

Yes, I´m agree that we need more moderators around here to support AllDeaf but I think it´s up to Alex decision either he want to have more moderators or not... It´s his decision which moderators he want to pick us here.

If it´s hard for Alex to decide which moderators he want to pick then he himself create a thread with poll...???????


What do you think?

 

[Angel]

Same here sis....That's shows a sign of favortism too....

Now it's my turn to speak up *putting my golden halo down and rubbing my hands*...

I have my reasons for NOT voting for Eve or Oceanbreeze as a moderators for AD...Liza is right for one thing Eve isn't afaird to speak up and voice her own opinion no matter how rude, insulting, or using any types of languages such as namecalling etc. toward any members here in AD...I've seen how she is in several forums, and how she loves to be above anyone meaning more power than others, takes control over any types of situations the way she would like it going and always get what she wants and doesnt give up without a fight, and she cyberbullies the ones she dislike and still doing it here in the open forum as always..I don't believe in my heart that Eve will be the perfect fit as a moderator here in AD, Alldeaf is a friendly and peaceful forum and I rather to keep it that way as long as Alex is the owner of this forum....As for Oceanbreeze, I have seen her posts from time to time, her attitude has changed, she isn't afaird to speak up either, and I don't believe she is fit to be a moderator either....I'm sorry but no offense here...

I could say so many things that Eve has done but I won't go there, I don't want to look back at those things and bring people down as likely Eve and Oceanbreeze would do and had done so for quite a while now.....

As I remember you once had posted that " if anyone ever hurt my friends I would hurt them back." Isn't that what you said on your post in the past Oceanbreeze or do you want me to find it for ya?...How can you prove to us members that there will not be a favorium on your part once you become a moderator?... now if you said you wouldn't then I don't believe you likewise you don't believe Roadrunner either..

For myself, IF I had to choose someone else to become a moderator here in AD, I would choose someone who is very kind, respectful, keep an open mind on BOTH sides, and trying to bring peace on both sides as well not only their friends but for ALL members here.....I can't picture Eve and Oceanbreeze being a moderators here in AD....

I won't be no part of this voting as a moderators, if Alex feels that he needs more moderators, I would rather him to choose, and I trust him fully he would pick the right one....God I hope so....If I have to pray harder I will....

I'm sorry if you feel I offense you both....I wanted to be able to speak out and be honest how I feel about you two as being a moderator, no hard feelings here....Peace!

 

[RedheadGrrl]

Cheri and Angel!! I agree with u both! 110%

 

[Kalista]

I agree with Ms Giglz, that u should not post to emails, its UP to Alex, it makes me feel pressure and not comfortable. and i think that Oceanbreeze should not be Mods cuz she is hearing and yes she is welcome to post here on Alldeaf

I do not see anything wrong with hearing moderator. Oceanbreeze is more than welcome to become our female moderator.

It is time to change to have more moderator to treat as equal for every members in this form.

No more favoristism !!!

 

[Kalista]

thats my point.. why not RR? I have noticed that RR work so hard to be around at the most of times.. he deserve to be heard or PM...
its more like they are judging others.. :/

Miss giglz You missed whole thing in several months. You do not know what was going on with Roadrunner.

 

[Liebling:-)))]

thats my point.. why not RR? I have noticed that RR work so hard to be around at the most of times.. he deserve to be heard or PM...
its more like they are judging others.. :/

*nodding agreement*

RR should not left out after what he have done with many threads here ALONE to take care of.

I created a good thread last week but my good thread turn into ugliest thread, then gone... I doubt either you see it or not. I am hoping to have my thread back.

P.S. I PMed my suggestion to Alex, Vampy & RR together today.

 

[Liebling:-)))]

I have thought that oceanbreeze should not be Mods because shes hearing, and yes she is welcome to post here on Alldeaf

It doesn´t matter either any members are hearing or not... They are STILL welcome as moderator if they want to apply to.

 

[TongueOnFire]

i am not vote anyone who to be a mod. i dont like to see hurting their feelin if i vote wrong person or whatever it is.. so good luck ladies if one of you wins as a mod!

TOF

 

[Liebling:-)))]

Good point, Cheri and ^Angel^

That´s why I do not involve with those vote issues but give my suggestion to Alex, Vampy & RR today and leave them alone with their decision either they (Admin. & moderators) need more moderators or not.

For myself, IF I had to choose someone else to become a moderator here in AD, I would choose someone who is very kind, respectful, keep an open mind on BOTH sides, and trying to bring peace on both sides as well not only their friends but for ALL members here

That´s important to have moderator who take BOTH sides, friendly, respectful and peace maker.

Yes, I´m agree that we need more moderators but we should leave Alex alone with his decison either he want to pick which moderators he trust to in his forum.

 

[MsGiglz]

You are entitled to ask to be considered as part of the "Moderator" selection process however I only ask you politely if you are selected as Moderator not to call your fellow ADers as "brainless twits".

I agreed.. LOL.. i was like.. Uhmm.. calling us ADers names..

it seems to getting new Mods and makes us :Ohno:

LOL

 

[MsGiglz]

heres the information in the forum rule # 2 and u all just broke it, those three have been spamming it... so shows me one thing.. u guys have no respect for rules!

i wuoldn't vote for any of u .....

2.) NO SPAMMING. Members may not use the forums (PM, signature, etc.) to solicit users for private, public or commercial gain. This also includes advertising other forums of the same nature.

Ahhh.. you beat me to it.. I should have bring it up.. I was too busy bitching yesterday .. on phone and on emails.. lol..

well thanks for mention... SPAM or PM goes to Alex.. not us..

 

[MsGiglz]

Miss giglz You missed whole thing in several months. You do not know what was going on with Roadrunner.

Sabrina... I didnt missed whole thing, I have been lurking in and out all those months.. I have read .. sometimes I replied.. but I noticed that RR have been did pretty much lately last several months.. for example.. he warned or.. closed threads or PM'ed us to warn for breaking forum's rules.. But I do noticed Vampy and Alex did some work.....mostly in fall-winter-spring.. but RR has been around at the most of times...

 

[MsGiglz]

Javapride, PurrMeow, RedHeadGirl, Cheri, Liebling)), ^Angel^ and others...


I agreed some of you.. About Eve... I am sorry that if you feel I offense some of you too.. Becoming Mods.. shouldnt be a bullyhead or namecalling or favourisum... Good example.. Vampy and RR and Alex.. they are general minds ... control themselves.. know what to say before they speak..

Like I said many times.. Its Alex's forum... It's his decisions.. even Vampy or RR or anyone else bring up about more mods.. they should go to Alex first.. then Let Alex post about mods for hire...

 

[Kalista]

Javapride, PurrMeow, RedHeadGirl, Cheri, Liebling)), ^Angel^ and others...


I agreed some of you.. About Eve... I am sorry that if you feel I offense some of you too.. Becoming Mods.. shouldnt be a bullyhead or namecalling or favourisum... Good example.. Vampy and RR and Alex.. they are general minds ... control themselves.. know what to say before they speak..

Like I said many times.. Its Alex's forum... It's his decisions.. even Vampy or RR or anyone else bring up about more mods.. they should go to Alex first.. then Let Alex post about mods for hire...

Sorry.. MsGiglz.. I have disagree with you. RR should not be the moderator. We need to have some new moderators to extra help while Alex has overwhelm other things to do on his life. We can't depend on Vampy all the times. They do have their lives. We can't be on the internet 24/7 in our life.

 

[MsGiglz]

Sorry.. MsGiglz.. I have disagree with you. RR should not be the moderator. We need to have some new moderators to extra help while Alex has overwhelm other things to do on his life. We can't depend on Vampy all the times. They do have their lives. We can't be on the internet 24/7 in our life.

its ok Sabrina to disagree with me.. its people's opinions.. we have all the differences..

hehe have good day then!

 

[Liza]

I understand your position, Ms Giglz, Kuifje, Angel, Cheri, and everybody. No worries. I think it is good that you are making questions.

And yes, it is up to Alex, I agree... it won't hurt to hear others out about being moderators either. I just think it'll be a good balance and if they are horrible, they can be shot (bullymom, still want to be a mod?) LOL... My point is, you never know until you see how that person does in that position. That is why I have benefit of the doubt. I will always have that for everyone, too.


As for the favoritisms, one has to admit that there's always some sort of prejudice driving our opinions and positions. You can't say that you haven't judged these people without taking a position on them being scary and terrible moderators. This point I have on about favoritisms.. is that everyone will always have positions fueled by their own preferences. We all have proved that in this thread, with all due respect.

 

[Cookie Monster]

Everyone has their own opinions on how to operate a forum, eh?

Everyone has their opinions on how a moderator should operate a forum, "this" and "that" way. Sometimes when you feel you are getting too involved in this, it is wonderful to sit back & sit on your hands and view the threads with an impartial perspective. You can really learn more about your ADers. This is how I have really learned more and more about toxicity and negativity.

People do post harshly or react so quickly and the next day they don't realise the magnitude of their post.

If I may point out, Ms.Giglz brought up several good points. If Eve were to become moderator, some of us would walk on eggshells. I know I wouldn't because I am used to Eve. Heck, I would congratulate Eve on becoming moderator.

Like Liza mentioned, Eve is such a strong character, so strong enough she does rub some members the very wrong way. Get to know her and you will look past the strong exterior. (Maybe it is because I am tired of the toxicity and negativity....) One can only do so much.

Bullymom would make a wonderful moderator. She'd input such good advice, she would rein those tempers in as she does have those young kids at home! "Down kids!"

OceanBreeze has as much right to moderate this forum, regardless her hearing ability.

I suspect some members are harbouring personal agendas towards "potential moderators" because of recent actions and their personality clashes.

Take a good look at me. Take a good look at my previous screennames and what I did before, if I can own up to my mistakes and be a better person now. These ladies didn't do much harm to the rest of youses. I'll be honest.. even I had my doubts about those ladies becoming moderators because of recent events but I will give them the benefit of the doubt. It's best to be fair.

P.S. You don't have to take my "sage" advice to heart. (As someone calls it!) :P

 

[Oceanbreeze]

As I remember you once had posted that " if anyone ever hurt my friends I would hurt them back." Isn't that what you said on your post in the past Oceanbreeze or do you want me to find it for ya?...How can you prove to us members that there will not be a favorium on your part once you become a moderator?... now if you said you wouldn't then I don't believe you likewise you don't believe Roadrunner either..
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I know what post you are speaking of, so you don't need to find it. You are also taking my words out of context. I stand up for what I believe in. This is what I meant. If you want to take my statement to mean I would use the position to get back at people, then fine. It just shows that you have no idea what kind of person I really am, and that I would never do that. Quite frankly, I resent the implication. As for proving anything, I have nothing to prove to you or anyone else. I also resent that as well.

Let me say this about the moderator position... I'm not looking to become a moderator. If I decide to, I might ask Alex to consider me. Then again, I may not. The purpose of this was to get people thinking about the need for more of them. As for now, we have one or two active moderators, and that is not enough considering how busy this forum is. It's your perogative to disagree with me on this if you so choose.