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matajan said:
When I was in elementary school and csun, I was happy with mainstream classes and made lot.

I was at csdf and gallaudet I don't really make much hearing friends cuz I was in csdf like island for deaf. It is hard for go out and see hearing friends.
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no it is not hard. I make many deaf and hearing friends every year. You made it hard for yourself to make friend with people because you asked too many questions and you make people uncomfortable. stop! stop!
 
NorCal20 said:
because youre scared to step out.


and...."It is hard for go out and see hearing friends".. lemme do something: "It is hard for me to go out and see hearing friends"


fixed. your welcome.
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Staying in cottage is not normal was told by dr. Thomas holcomb

If I want go out w hearing friends free to go every night

Only I see friends at bay area league school game...
 
matajan said:
I am shocked that former special need guy from school deaf into harvard law school. He is graduated from cornell university last spring.

How could he do that?

I remmy he cannot go by hearing friends who made fun of him six years ago.
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I think you need to quit worrying about how other people did things and focus on the things that YOU need to do for yourself.

Your circumstances are unique; whatever works for others might not work for you.
 
Reba said:
I think you need to quit worrying about how other people did things and focus on the things that YOU need to do for yourself.

Your circumstances are unique; whatever works for others might not work for you.
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okay, all right.
 
listen to this quote from my good friend, Dmitri

"You do whatever you want, kid. If you attempt to do whatever that helps, bravo. If you didnt make this successful attempt, try again in different way, kid. If you give up, youre coward. If you fight harder than anyone and leads you to successful attempt, you can have gold star sticker on your head and keep that way, kid."
 
NorCal20 said:
listen to this quote from my good friend, Dmitri

"You do whatever you want, kid. If you attempt to do whatever that helps, bravo. If you didnt make this successful attempt, try again in different way, kid. If you give up, youre coward. If you fight harder than anyone and leads you to successful attempt, you can have gold star sticker on your head and keep that way, kid."
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yes, i listen to this quote.
 
matajan said:
my family would be happy if I met someone from prestigous college
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why should your family be the only entity to approve of the woman you want to marry?

shouldn't you ask yourself what you want to live the rest of life with?

I'm white and grew up in a very white region with upper class money. When I got to UC Davis, I was kinda surprised that women faced a lot of pressure from their parents to meet the "right" guy. If you're in that sort of situation where the incentive is to please your family and not your parents, that's too bad, because it makes it that much tougher to convince your future partner that she's "right" for you and her.

People change, so be aware of how that can change your relationship.
 
whatdidyousay! said:
You did not want to be in a special need class as you did not want to get stuck with a label on all your school records saying you are a special need student. My niece felt the same way she hated being labeled disabled .
She has asperger and took her a long time to get a boyfriend. She has one now. I really think you should try to find a place to meet people , you will have a better chance finding a woman than on line.
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I got placed in the "special" class room, stuck in the back of elementary school campus and adjacent to a middle school campus. I hated being separated from my mainstream classes and having a teacher shadow some of my classes. I wasn't like the other special needs kids. I wanted to stay with the main group and socialize as needed. Didn't have many behavioral, academic problems- just that those days educators believed in what they believed. Eventually, they granted complete freedom (beginning of high school) from anything "special" or outside the mainstream classes.

I do display some traits (comfort in repetition and crowds with intense focus on problem-solving) of Asperger's but never really consulted with anyone about that. (I lied to psychiatrists when I was 12-probably not the best idea since that time period was very intense and affected my social life greatly later).

The special needs label is terrible and was counter-productive to my social and intellectual development.

It's definitely much better to meet people in person and not dependent on online- though, if you're like me, I don't live in an area with a lot of deaf people.
 
How come you focus on Harvard girl, is that your type of woman or what?
 
Matajan,

there are MILLION of ladies are different types that you might like, not just on harvard girl. ONE of them are WAY WAY better than harvard girl and youre wasting your time to look specific one.

Dont waste your time to find a specific lady, Do worth of your time to explore with different ladies to discover one.
 
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matajan said:
Oceanblue7 said:
How come you focus on Harvard girl, is that your type of woman or what?
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Harvard girl shall be smart and rich...my dad expect me marry harvard girl.

Yes, my type...not city college.
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You are doing this to make your dad happy for you to marry Harvard girl?
 
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When would your asking questionss end?
 
This is what it feels like.... he's asking like an advanced 5 year old boy.

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