a very serious question for men here...

SimpleMan said:
I wonder why this is directed at me. Yes I know there are battered men out there, but that has no bearing on this topic, and I didn't bring it up. I still won't hit a woman, and I ask you to please stay on topic for my friend.
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I don't think rockdrummer was intentionally directing this at you--.

Although, I believe what rockdrummer's is bringing up calls for a thread of its own as that is really an entirely different topic matter. Wouldn't you think so rockdrummer? ;)
 
SimpleMan said:
I wonder why this is directed at me. Yes I know there are battered men out there, but that has no bearing on this topic, and I didn't bring it up. I still won't hit a woman, and I ask you to please stay on topic for my friend.
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With all due respect, I don't think it was directed at you, since he didnt mention your name. and it could be for any poster in here. :)

I'm not defending anyone I'm just making a wee bit of a point. :)
 
Good question. I have been assult or hold on for no reason. Once time my exb was holding my wrist as I was pointing the door for him to leave. I had to tell him to let me go. I learn in karate class that no one should touch me even if this person holding my wrist. So he was lucky not getting any HYAH!! from me cuz he finally let go of me after I told him 3rd times.

If a man hit me then I would report it to the police cuz I dont want to hit him back unless my life is in danger.
 
WHY WHY man hit a woman.. cuz man alway think woman can't hit back, which isn't true.. I dont believe this shit but they have no right to put it up and hit!

Just face the person and said * you aren't worthless to me since u hit me so goodbye*
 
I don't think anyone should hit anyone, If you cannot control your temper, It's better go somewhere to cool it down alone.

It doesn't make it right for a woman to hit a guy, and for a guy to hit a woman, or a woman hit a woman, or a man hit a man. If someone doesn't know how to discuss any situation in a civil matter, then maybe it's best to walk away. ;)
 
SpiceHD said:
was the girl wrong for slap him?
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To me, yes I think it was wrong for the girl to slap him because she wouldn't like it if he slapped her..


The bottom line is to treat others the way you want to be treated...
 
CoolieFroggie said:
WHY WHY man hit a woman.. cuz man alway think woman can't hit back, which isn't true..
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Not quite true, some women don't hit back because of fear...
 
ecevit said:
Pomeranian, the question was to men :D
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IMO, I think this question should applied to both women and men
 
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Yes I did hit my hubby few times when I feel emotions and upset.. He always patient w/me.. I don't feel deserved being hit him but not easy somewhat situation...
He did hit me once.. afterall doesn't like strike me.. not comfortable.. He prefer punch bag his bed pillow.

Best for you get out til you need cool down then come back talk sort it out.. as same like us...

We are agreement important open communcation, than hit each together!
 
My mom NEVER really has the chance to hit her ex husband back when he was living with us...my ex step father was obviously a self centered selfish abuser and of course he would hit you back when you see him hit your own mother and he just thinks that your mother deserves it even it doesnt make sense so he has abused me, abused my brother, and abused my mother all of 10 years througout the tiolet and now its finally over because my mom finally had the guts to pull the plug.

Why do men hit women? because they do that to express their anger, sometimes even take it out when they aren't really mad at that person but mad at someone else or are just completely messed up for no reason. my ex stepfather had bipolar disorder so no wonder he was always messed up in the head. Most men who abuse women usually have serious issues from their past and should never even take it out on other people who dont even deserve it. especially children as well.

Why do women hit men? well it's pretty similar as to what happens to men also. Of course, I just hope I will never be in an abusive relationship with a girl someday since I remember my ex was kind of abusive on me but not by phyical...usually by emotional and mental abuse instead. So hitting, punching, kicking, pulling hair, etc...are all kinds of brutal and violent abuses that are deadly dangerous and are very against the law as well.

If you got hit by a girl, it's not good.

If you got hit by a guy, it's not good either.

So show some respect for eachother!
 
Women don't hit back because he will hit her SOME MORE, if women did - it could lead to bein' killed or end up in the hospital. It depends on how strong the hit/blow is.

Sometimes, women have the rights to hit men back to teach him a lesson to understand how women feel when he hit/slap women.

Hands fist are forbidden to punch - but, open hands ??? It depends on how hard you hit, then it is called abuse.

But, if it is like " pffft " just like " light " slap on the arm or leg - then, it means nuthin'. It's just for teasin' or play thing with each other.

Really, it depends on the situation and how you handle your emotions.
 
^Angel^ said:
Not quite true, some women don't hit back because of fear...
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They must overcome their fears in order to find a way to put a complete stop to the situation.
 
you dont hit women. u just dont hit women. i mean...i dont know how to say it any better. its as simple as breathing. no matter what she does, she could shoot u with a gun, it doesnt matter. u dont hit women. any man who hits a woman is a pussy, they arent man enough to deal with their own problems so they have to take it out on a woman. and any man that hits a woman deserves to be shot in the face. i know that sounds extreme but...i just strongly believe u do NOT hit women.
 
I remember when I was about 18 years old and my girlfriend was sitting next to me in the car and her mother was next to the door (that was before seat belts were mandatory like they are now). Anyway, she and I were talking about something and disagreeing about it when she slapped me on the shoulder and said, "That's what I hate about you!" Shortly after that, we broke up because she was looking to meet a guy in a class she had at a different school than I attended. That was fine by me. However, when I found out that she never even introduced herself to him AND didn't even know his name, she wanted to get back together with me. I laughed at her, although we had remained friends up until 1984 when she moved with her family back to Oklahoma and my parents and I moved to Tacoma, Washington.

A few years ago, I had re-established contact with her parents and they were good friends of mine. Carla had a son years ago; the first marriage of hers, the guy used her as a battering ram, the second one was "you go to my church and only my church and your dad is wrong about the Bible..." (never mind the fact that her dad is one of the most godly men I knew). Her and husband #2, from the last I heard before her mom died, are divorced.

Now, the question: Would I date her now? Sure! Back then, after being hit, I don't think so.

Furthermore, a gentleman never hits a lady. A lady never hits a gentleman. If I was hit by my girlfriend, she would go to jail and I would press charges now. She is done and the buck stops here.


Pete
 
I too believe that a man should not hit a woman...under any circumstances. In my personal life, I would never hit a woman...I know women are supposed to be equal, but I'd hit a guy before a woman any day.

I have had to face this reality with work....what does a male officer do when a female attacks him? It happens frequently, and many male officers are seriously injured because they treat the attacker to gently. I have never had to punch a woman...and its rare that I actually punch a guy while working. I'm better at grappling than throwing fists. When it comes to a woman attacking me while working, I only see them as 'bad guy' and not just a woman...and it can and does get physical at times. I've tackled women...I've wrestled them and have gotten very rough with them. Please bear in mind, however, that these are people that have committed a serious crime and I will not let them go just because they are female.

With that said, I would never do the above to somebody I was in a relationship with. I also believe that violence does not solve anything and the woman would be wrong for striking the man, no matter what he did (such as cheating, etc). If he pisses you off enough that you feel you need to punch him, then its time for you pack your bags and move on to a man that will not piss you off that much ;)
 
It would depend. Normally, I wouldn't hit a woman. But, if she was getting extremely violent and the only way I can get her off or escape myself was to hit her back, then I would. Other than that, I wouldn't.

I've been there. I've got scars to prove it. Ugh!
 
THis is what I would do- **do not click on if easly offended!!!!! has slight nudity as well. Not frontal though

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Nah, just kidding. Yeah, like everyone else has said, its stupid to hit a woman. I farking hate it when guys hit women (have 3 sisters). However, if she is batshit crazy and she has a bat or something, of course I will fight back. I mean, I m not going to stand there and let myself get beat up.
 
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