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if a girl hit you... not neccessary closed fist .. can be a slap on arm or on face... would u hit her back? if she hit u with closed fist... will u hit her back?

if yes.. why?

if no why not?

this question is very important to me so please... no flaming, no off topic, etc
 
SpiceHD said:
if a girl hit you... not neccessary closed fist .. can be a slap on arm or on face... would u hit her back? if she hit u with closed fist... will u hit her back?

if yes.. why?

if no why not?
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I don't think it's right to hit a woman. BUT.....it really depends on the circumstances. Weither a woman strikes first or a mans strikes first, it is still assualt and is against the law (unless you feel you are in danger of bodily harm). Believe it or not, there are men out there that are abused by women albiet not the norm. Then the saying an eye for an eye comes to mind. It's ok for someone to defend themself but responding with un-resonable force is not acceptable in either case. If a woman smacks me on the arm it's no big deal. If she smacks me in the face...hmmm.. did I deserve it... If so, it's no big deal. If she punches me....same thing.. did I deserve it.... If I didn't deserve it I would probably respond by walking away. If she pursued me with more violance....then I break out the whoop ass and it's GO TIME. Fortunatly I have never been in that situation and hope I never will be.
 
Well, I was taught, by a very good man himself, my father...to never hit a woman. I believe that speaks much for what you might be inquiring to know. ;)
 
okay i can understand waht ur saying... so its all depends on the reason why she hit u in first place right? what if it was not repeating thing and it was in angry manner? just one hit and what if u felt u dont deserve it?

also why would a man hit a girl?
 
Contact Police right away...

I don't give damn if she goes to jail for a simple slap.

Welcome to 21st Century. Women do have rights, too...
 
im not asking what to do abt it... im asking why and what would men do if she did that...
 
Well .... It doesn't matter which gender hit each other it is still wrong thing to do as it still called assailt or domotic volience .... There is law say no one is allow to hit other person no matter what kind of ciricutms (sp?) And can get ticket or end up in jail
 
I'm with Roadrunner. I was brought up with learning that you never hit a woman. I will however defend myself, such as grab her arm as she swings at me or blocking punch, but I would not hit her. Once she realizes striking me is worthless, she'll stop. If she doesnt, I'll hold her arms until she does. once she calms down, I'd leave.

So far, only woman I ever pissed off enough to hit me was my mom, only I didnt have chance for her to calm down.... my big stepfather came in while I was holding both her arms from hitting me, and he knocked me out of my chair. :wiggle: But that's another story. Anyways, to me, any guy who hits a woman deserves to have the crap beaten out of him.
 
Well, to what I would do supposedly if a 'woman' hit me, slap me--well, at first I would be > :-o < and then no matter what situation caused such drastic action...I would simply move to another area away from the woman to allow some 'cooling' time to take precedent and then being able to discuss rationally like two consenting adults and find ways to absolve the situation at hand peacefully. ;)
 
SimpleMan said:
I'm with Roadrunner. I was brought up with learning that you never hit a woman. I will however defend myself, such as grab her arm as she swings at me or blocking punch, but I would not hit her. Once she realizes striking me is worthless, she'll stop. If she doesnt, I'll hold her arms until she does. once she calms down, I'd leave.
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That is all good but what if the womam is stronger than you and able to hold you down and give you a beating... As funny as that may sound, it happens in reality all of the time.. What would you do then?
 
SpiceHD said:
so why would a man hit a girl?
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As you'll already by now notice that I'll not resort to that level....

...but, if a man does hit a woman, it is usually done out of anger, a sudden reaction to being 'hit' by the woman...there's so many variances and it all depends on the impending situation that led up to being hit.
 
rockdrummer said:
That is all good but what if the womam is stronger than you and able to hold you down and give you a beating... As funny as that may sound, it happens in reality all of the time.. What would you do then?
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Once again, like Roadrunner, I'd walk away. If, as you say she was bigger than me and holding me down, well I know how to get out of that situation..... nobody has ever been able to hold me down. If she was so big that I wasn't strong enough to get away, well I wouldnt have gotten in that situation in first place, but I would still do my best to block her punches. :dunno:
 
SimpleMan said:
Once again, like Roadrunner, I'd walk away. If, as you say she was bigger than me and holding me down, well I know how to get out of that situation..... nobody has ever been able to hold me down. If she was so big that I wasn't strong enough to get away, well I wouldnt have gotten in that situation in first place, but I would still do my best to block her punches. :dunno:
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Sometimes that is eaiser said than done. Here is some insight I would like to share with you. There are battered men out there too.

http://www.chebucto.ns.ca/communitysupport/Men4Change/steve.html
 
No man should ever hit a gal for any reason at all. The reason men hit ladies can vary...from anger and no patience and sometimes it can run in the family. It could be for any sort of reasons. I know Im not much of a help but i really hope the other posters helped u out. Whatever it is I hope everything is ok. Good luck.
 
SpiceHD said:
if a girl hit you... not neccessary closed fist .. can be a slap on arm or on face... would u hit her back? if she hit u with closed fist... will u hit her back?

if yes.. why?

if no why not?

this question is very important to me so please... no flaming, no off topic, etc
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I wouldn't hit her back.. it would be better to leave her alone for some time to cool down.. I don't like violence.
 
RR has it right. Never hit a woman, or another person. *clinks glass with RR*
 
depends on what situations.. agurements..
or.. out of frustrations..
 
rockdrummer said:
Sometimes that is eaiser said than done. Here is some insight I would like to share with you. There are battered men out there too.

http://www.chebucto.ns.ca/communitysupport/Men4Change/steve.html
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I wonder why this is directed at me. Yes I know there are battered men out there, but that has no bearing on this topic, and I didn't bring it up. I still won't hit a woman, and I ask you to please stay on topic for my friend.
 
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