Nic
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You read and answered very litterally (most of those were just rhetorical questions), but missed the key word in there "absolutely". Absolutely would mean that an answer exists that would apply to all people. The vast majority (any sane person who isn't lying) would look at the answer and go "oh, ya, that's definitely true". Such an example might be is it ok to steal a baby from a parent and murder it for fun? I don't think any sane person who isn't lying would say that's ok. So there's a universally accepted answer, an absolute answer. No it's not ok to kill babies for fun.Nope.... ask yourself, can you deafen the cats and conduct experiments on them knowing the two hearing systems are different...can you cause the pain and suffering on another living thing with this same understanding? Ethics and morals are personal and society influanced... people are okay with it until they are faced with the reality of somwthing...
Anything outside of those straight forward black and white questions doesn't have an absolute answer. If you and I disagree that killing 15 kittens to bring 200k people out of poverty is wrong or right, then there's no absolute answer (unless everyone else sides with one of us, or one of us is lying).
At the core, we're all most concerned with our own happiness. We don't do things that make ourselves unhappy, unless we think they will increase our happiness later, or that unhappiness has an instant happy outcome that is stronger than the unhappiness.Whose happiness are you more concerned with though?
But most of us derive happiness from at least a few others, so we become concerned with their happiness as well. Parents become very concerned with their offspring's happiness. Some end up doing more harm than good in that regard.
For me, seeing any people happy makes me happy, I don't care who they are. I tend to defend and fight for the ones who are least likely to bring an increase to their own happiness at any given time, but doing this makes me happy, so in a way it's just me acting on my own desire for happiness. But if I'm already happy, does that still count?
I also typically side with anyone who is having their happiness suppressed by someone else, this also makes me happy. I'll even do something like sacrifice my own happiness to make everyone else happy, but really it's just because it makes me happy. Making other people happy, makes me happy, so I'm not really just making other people happy, I'm really just making myself happy. But if there were other ways to make myself happy instead, does that count?
Overall, I still naively think that the entire world can be happy at the same time and stay that way. I still don't know how to make that happen, though I'm slowly working on it.