Who does NOT want to have children ?

Depends on men or women who have problem....

Depends on men who have low sperm counts...
Depends on women who have problem ovary isn't proprite cycle...

Not only ones.. be blamed on men or women have problems..

Some may have miracle too!
 
Y , i predict that you will have 6 kids by 6 different fathers.
 
Bullym0m said:
Depends on men or women who have problem....

Depends on men who have low sperm counts...
Depends on women who have problem ovary isn't proprite cycle...

Not only ones.. be blamed on men or women have problems..

Some may have miracle too!
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You could be right also there are some lists.

Why cant women get preggy --
-their hormones may not be balanced.
-they may have a tumor or a cyst in their ovaries (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome)
-They may have a problem with their thyroid or pituitary gland.
-their cycle may be too short
-they may be overweigh.
-they may have be losing too much body fat because you are exercising intensely (such as long distance running)
-they may be under too much stress and worry.
-they may use any kind of drugs or tobacco, or drink too much alcohols.

Anyway, I do love the kids. Even I do have a daughter who is 7 years old. I do enjoy to teach them some new things.

They do have their alternative to not have any kids at this time or don't even want to have any kids at all. And I do have my own choice.
 
eternity said:
You could be right also there are some lists.

Why cant women get preggy --
-their hormones may not be balanced.
-they may have a tumor or a cyst in their ovaries (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome)
-They may have a problem with their thyroid or pituitary gland.
-their cycle may be too short
-they may be overweigh.
-they may have be losing too much body fat because you are exercising intensely (such as long distance running)
-they may be under too much stress and worry.
-they may use any kind of drugs or tobacco, or drink too much alcohols.

Anyway, I do love the kids. Even I do have a daughter who is 7 years old. I do enjoy to teach them some new things.

They do have their alternative to not have any kids at this time or don't even want to have any kids at all. And I do have my own choice.
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Eternity,

But... I have thyroid. I have wonderful 3 children. Not that reason who have problem.. Depends on their health.
Your listed written.. some of not happend.. There have mircale come true.

yeah, I agreed some of what..
Their choice not ours or you..

One of my friend who struggle have a baby for 5 years until finally got new baby boy. She has probelm her health but her doctor was told she cannot have baby. Full of B.S. She was so happy and have one son.. Her son almost turned one year old soon.
 
Bullym0m said:
Eternity,

But... I have thyroid. I have wonderful 3 children. Not that reason who have problem.. Depends on their health.
Your listed written.. some of not happend.. There have mircale come true.

yeah, I agreed some of what..
Their choice not ours or you..

One of my friend who struggle have a baby for 5 years until finally got new baby boy. She has probelm her health but her doctor was told she cannot have baby. Full of B.S. She was so happy and have one son.. Her son almost turned one year old soon.
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It all depends what problem you have with your thyroid condition. I know a lady who had some kinda of grow on it (non-cancer) and they said she did not need to have them removed unless she wanted to have a child. So it depends if is is active or inactive or has some kind of grow on it.... As far as I know....
 
girlygti said:
It all depends what problem you have with your thyroid condition. I know a lady who had some kinda of grow on it (non-cancer) and they said she did not need to have them removed unless she wanted to have a child. So it depends if is is active or inactive or has some kind of grow on it.... As far as I know....
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Yeah depends on women who have thyroid.
Just hope there have mircale too.. :)

I had been awful thinking about plan remove my thyroid but hasn't decide to do it yet. My sister in law who has thyroid and has removed it. Her weight went back normal and nice shape body. I felt really want that way but my feeling really scared being looks "SCAR" on my neck. Looks like murder scar left on my neck. That made me feel goosebumps! Will think about it later on..
 
Their choice not ours or you..
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Your point? I think you don't get what Im saying in here. I only gave some lists. Y was posting who doesnt want to have any child(ren)? I just added some comments in here.

Some people are making their decision not to have their own child(ren) due some reasons like financial, health problem (risk) and some other kinds.
 
eternity said:
Your point? I think you don't get what Im saying in here. I only gave some lists. Y was posting who doesnt want to have any child(ren)? I just added some comments in here.

Some people are making their decision not to have their own child(ren) due some reasons like financial, health problem (risk) and some other kinds.
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Of course, we must respect each other's preferences/choices... but
that's really sad that some people who really want and
choose to have their own children but they're not able to
have them... that must be very frustrating for them.
 
Y said:
we are really looking forward to hearing from both of you
about what happen between you Lasza and Knightwolf
on Monday night, ha ha




My gosh, you're a big flirt :) hey what made you
think that i was trying to pick you up ? I was trying
to fix you up together since both of you are from
Colorado playing darts ..... Cupid angels love
to throw darts to their little hearts.
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LOL i just give u hard times.... I usually teasing ppl who talk about me ... so i put it up with it for fun ...
 
knightwolf68 said:
LOL i just give u hard times.... I usually teasing ppl who talk about me ... so i put it up with it for fun ...
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ha understood.. it's also fun for me to find out
about both of you tonite !!! i cannot wait to hear
some stories afterward ha
 
Y said:
ha understood.. it's also fun for me to find out
about both of you tonite !!! i cannot wait to hear
some stories afterward ha
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*rub my hand * and thinking what i can do for Lasza for tonight .,...... I will make sure that she would be regret for call me pain in ass sometimes.. hehehe but I had to say I disagree with her that i am being pain in ass to her ... since I do know that I treat her so well ... lol
 
bbnt said:
Y , i predict that you will have 6 kids by 6 different fathers.
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Wow, IF that happens to me, then i would go insane and
go crazy !!! and i'll probably feel lousy or something....


maybe i'll be 6 times richer having 6 different monthly payments
from 6 different father, and 6 different houses
and 6 different bank accounts haha
JUST KIDDING ha
 
knightwolf68 said:
*rub my hand * and thinking what i can do for Lasza for tonight .,...... I will make sure that she would be regret for call me pain in ass sometimes.. hehehe but I had to say I disagree with her that i am being pain in ass to her ... since I do know that I treat her so well ... lol
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ha oh really ? hmm what makes you think
that you treat her so well ? example ?
 
Y said:
ha oh really ? hmm what makes you think
that you treat her so well ? example ?
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start think that u and i are getting off topic here .. hehe but for once ... I always being friendly with her and she is so neat lady ... no nag or yell at her zero ... whenever she try her best as i always give her the praise as she just try her best as she can...
 
Y said:
okay, what about men and their vastecomy ?
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haha u are funny that what i am wonder about that too my almost male freind won't have vastecomy cuz they don't wants to lost thirs sex dive
 
when i got a graduate in high school i prefer dont want to having a kids my owns because I was too afraid to having a many things i have a reason !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

when i got married 22 year old and my ex husband beggg and naggg on me for having a kids....... i refused for a couple months , finally i willed to let him have a kids........ when i become a pregnant and look so cute belly stomach.... then the baby were born and i started fell in love with my oldest daughter and one months later i got another pregnant again and born another second daughter .... i have a tube ties and no more baby for me

when i got divorced my ex husband , i feel good and i love to become single and cares of my kids ..... the kids make me real busy and love to watch my kids active sport , strongest church active, busy with my sew machine, garden, etc.....

i never talk a bad words front of my kids but i did say a bad word for a accident....

i do love to dirty joking and make me laugh so hard .... right now, i realize about having a children
yes , it is hard to control with children and it is not easy at all because when my kids learn from another kids and they complained about everything.... but i told them i dont like to spend lots of money on my kids things ( clothes, etc....) i know my kids are dreaming about everything and i told my kids that when my kids will be 18 year old ( after graduate high school only ) they can pick whatever they want to put stomach pierece or tattoo ....... I am very strict mother and i am old fashion lady but i do talk with a dirty joking !
when my kids came home from school and my kids always talk talk about blah blah in school problems and BOYS.......
THE MOST TIME WHEN I HEAR MY KIDS TELL ME ABOUT STUFF AND I TEACH THEM RIGHT OR WRONG THINGS !
it is lots of fun with kids !

i know i hear lots of peoples dont want to have a kids because you feel not ready for become motherhood or fatherhoods. i dont blame on them and make sure it is right thing in your own future !
there are hiding for like a abuse, verbal abused, etc.... you dont know what husband or wife has a background that they grew up with ! sometime i am scares of the stranger friends who has a bad experices in their background and i wont let my kids involved with a stranger friend who has bad troublemaker or abused ........... i know it is hard to trust them !
i mostly i never trust anyone in world because i have lots of experices in my own lifes from my ex husband and another friends........

good luck in your lifes and think about having your kids or not !!!!!!! it is your choices !
 
Your not alone! I don't want to have any children, and it does not make me any less of a woman. There are so many people have kid after kid these days no one will even notices us. If anything when we tell "mothers" we don't have kids they probably get jealous! Thinking of there bad ass kids at home. Some feel a need to be loved or they want to attend to their motherly calling. But you do what feels good to you, you don't want to bring a child into this world your recent.
 
OhioCincinn said:
Your not alone! I don't want to have any children, and it does not make me any less of a woman. There are so many people have kid after kid these days no one will even notices us. If anything when we tell "mothers" we don't have kids they probably get jealous! Thinking of there bad ass kids at home. Some feel a need to be loved or they want to attend to their motherly calling. But you do what feels good to you, you don't want to bring a child into this world your recent.
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Oh great ! This msg and other msgs above made
me feel better !

I should have mentioned when I was only a little girl,
my parents already gave me a major responsibilty
to babysit and watch my younger brothers and
sisters at a very early age. That's why I felt as
if I'm always the Mother to one of my younger brothers
even now.

Looks like that's my Mother's biggest mistake
for giving me that kind of responsiblity too early.

Even though I still do LOVE my own mother
very much. Everyone seem to fall in love with her
she's such a Beautiful and remarkable woman.
She's already over 72 years old, very very
very Blonde with lots of tan plays tennis
almost every day !! She always smiles
and have fun with everyone and life....
 
I definitely do NOT want kids with my exwife! I'm damn happy I got no kids with her!
 
Deaf258 said:
I definitely do NOT want kids with my exwife! I'm damn happy I got no kids with her!
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Wow, you're damn lucky !! You got away without
having to make monthly payments.

I realize how important about looking at
wife/mother first before having kids, you know...

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