Who does NOT want to have children ?

I don't want to have kids-bioglically. (sp?) i want to adopt. this way, i don't have to put up with waking up every 2 hours to feed them... just get them at a cute age. rofl :)
 
Most children are CUTE - yes. But I don't want own of mine.

Rather to have my pets.

Also, not realize about not much mothering in my inner for watch the children for 18 years or more.

If I have my children in my life, have to give up my pleasure time like Darts, playing billards, go out for blast time, and more more. Not like to depend on babysitting all the time.

Last thing, the world is getting worst. there is no way to be safe and protection.
 
I have two cats. I got them both when they where Kittens... And I enjoy them so much! Except when they want to bad.. Then I think about Kidds. Right now I would a bad mother... I want to have a house first.. then I will think about kidds. Maybe 2 in the future
 
i myself do not want children biologically but would consider adoption at some point -- if my partner wants to become preggy and have children, i will give her all my support and share with the childraising responsibilities -- i agree with Lasza ref to today's society and how bad it is now and i do get a bit nervous abt the thought of raising a child in today's society
 
I don't want kids either so I'll need someone to take the 3 I have now
 
I didnt want to have any kids until there was an accident by that lady (long story). But I realized after being a father of a 9 yr old i wanted to have another one.
 
Castleman said:
I didnt want to have any kids until there was an accident by that lady (long story). But I realized after being a father of a 9 yr old i wanted to have another one.
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Having a kid does that to you... heh!
 
lilredridinhood said:
I don't want to have kids-bioglically. (sp?) i want to adopt. this way, i don't have to put up with waking up every 2 hours to feed them... just get them at a cute age. rofl :)
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Lazy? or because of your squirell?
 
bbnt said:
I don't want kids either so I'll need someone to take the 3 I have now
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i would take your 3 kids.. me me a good father.. i'll train good manners :)
 
when I was kid, I used to think of future to be parents that I don't want to have kids. I thought it would be more fun for myself. Until not many years ago, I realized that I really want to have kids.

It's very important to have family on my own. It's more like reach to the true biggest victory for myself.
 
DeafSCUBA98 said:
well steel.. If you're crazy about sex.. then why no children? suffer with B/C all the time?
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:muffled laughter: You're so hilarious! :o
 
i want kids. lot of them =)
When you are deeply in love with your significant other it is only a matter of time when both of you decide to get married, settle down, and have a family. Families are the nucleus of social structure and children are an important part of the family. It may be a conventional belief and not suitable for everybody, but we can not negate the importance of families in the society.

I can understand that some of you may not ready to take the responsible to raise kids or simply do not believe yourselves will be good parents. But the majority of us are still pretty young to settle down and have kids, wait for a couple of more years, and your beliefs will change.
 
Banjo said:
:)
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according to your quote "You were once a child and probably a pain in the butt" it began to hit me very hard thinking
about it I'm gonna call my Mom and ask her
if I was a pain in the butt when I was a little girl... (haha)

and I will get back to this thread and let you know
about her response to this damn good question/quotation.... :)
 
pinkster said:
I grew up not wanting to have children, and slowly does it break down. More and more of my friends have children, and i enjoy them. But for the time being I do not want any. I have kittens, thats sZDJKGhslkfjg a bit of work. I'll settle for OPK for now - other people's kids. :D
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good idea to have fun with OPK :)..... yeah, that's why I do not
have any pets anymore... too much hassle for me I love the
peace and freedom to go out and in out in out in out in out in.....
 
ChelEler said:
Before I had my boys, I felt that we (me and my husband) were financially stable until we got my firstborn, our financial level changed. I feel that we won't be financially stable anymore, it doesn't matter if you have children or not. I feel that we won't be financially stable at all until we die, due to modified incomes and modified bills. That's just my opinion. (We don't do "employment jumping around.") That's just my opinion. Thank you.

If you are financially stable, that is great and good luck!
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there seem to be a conflict in your paragraph... you
said that this does not matter with financially stable
if we have children or not..... but then how come
you just mentioned that you were having
financially stable UNTIL you got your firstborn.
it sound as if you lost the stablity due to
your firstborn because you just said it
"UNTIL we got my firstborn..." Bit confusing here...

On the other hand, I think I understand
what you're trying to say that it does not matter
about children..it depends on the person himself
and/or herself how much did he/she spend...

My hearing brother is a CFP (Corporate Finance Planner) working
with many corporates and individuals for
making Wills and/or investments... He always
advised me "This does NOT matter how much
your salary is, as long as you spend less
than what you actually earn"..... Does this
make any sense ?
 
lilredridinhood said:
I don't want to have kids-bioglically. (sp?) i want to adopt. this way, i don't have to put up with waking up every 2 hours to feed them... just get them at a cute age. rofl :)
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cute age, ha... funny, someone just told me that
when you adopt your kids you still have to wake up
being very alert to them anyway...
 
Lasza said:
Most children are CUTE - yes. But I don't want own of mine.

Rather to have my pets.

Also, not realize about not much mothering in my inner for watch the children for 18 years or more.

If I have my children in my life, have to give up my pleasure time like Darts, playing billards, go out for blast time, and more more. Not like to depend on babysitting all the time.

Last thing, the world is getting worst. there is no way to be safe and protection.
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Hmmm.... i think i found a perfect guy for you
somewhere here on AD... i forgot his sn but
i recalled his avatar photo of himself from
Colorado and he loves to play dart games...
i think both of you are a perfect match :)

sorry i cannot remmy his sn and i haven't been
looking at this AD for a long time....
 
girlygti said:
I have two cats. I got them both when they where Kittens... And I enjoy them so much! Except when they want to bad.. Then I think about Kidds. Right now I would a bad mother... I want to have a house first.. then I will think about kidds. Maybe 2 in the future
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Hey, what made you think that you'd be a bad mother ?
 
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