What's with MEN??

ButterflyGirl said:
I want to say something else besides the overweight.
I remember a good friend of mine whose boyfriend didn't like to see her wearing glasses and he never wanted her to be seen with glasses on so she had to put on contact lenses for his sake. He even wanted her to get the laser surgery to correct her eyes. He even buys her sexy and skimpy clothes for her to wear which she didn't feel comfortable with. I told her if he really loved her from his heart then he wouldn't have said or do these kind of things to her. That is not a true love at all.
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RIGHT ON!!! He even sounds like a pimp. *no offense*
 
We live in an 'image is everything' society and people pay a lot of attention to themselves and who theyre with.

Its sad fact these days.

Richard
 
Yeah I agree ButterflyGirl , GeorgiaLady and Richard.....
 
It is no wonder that men are bunches of idiots to watch porn and drooling over skinny, ugly women. Men out there dont know what they are missing anyways.
 
Well...Before I gained a lot of weight, I had a long light brown hair, tan, had a big butt that some guys LOVED it. But I wouldn't date them just because of my looks. After I gained a lot of weight, I cutted my hair shorter just because I got tired of a long hair and then didn't get any tan...Guys didn't like it so what I don't care because I don't need guys who would go for my looks. I need someone who would go with my personality. Now I'm losing some weights, guys came back up to me. I still ignored them :giggle:
 
I might admit I am as below 130 as skinny for my age and tall, not all skinny with lame personality :ty:
 
Some men don't know how to DAMN TREAT women's RESPECT or FEEL *smh* cuz all of them think if their body are prefect oh plsshhh!!! but very important is ONLY HEART are coming FRIST than Body *smh* MEN MEN MEN MEN!!!
 
I'm kind of overweight and my girlfriend which is very thin and very beautiful loves me :) I'm glad she does though.
 
I go for personality over looks. My gal sweetheart is overweight and I love who she is, not what her weight is. She's beautiful even she's overweight. It doesn't bother me at all. She also wants to lose some weight just to be healthy, that's all. :) The love is a beautiful thing. ;)

I have dated women who are skinny, overweight or obese. It's a interesting experience, personality are the "same", no matter how much a person weighs. It's who they are.

To be honest, I'm more attracted to overweight women.
 
^Angel^ said:
Liebling dear,

I know there may be some women out there who are quite picky with men being overweight, but this thread is about some men, if man want to complain about women picking on them, they can create their own thread....

But right now I'm sticking with what the thread is about " What's with Men? "

:hug:
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Okay.... I am only trying to be neutral and fair to anyone because I don´t want men offend and ruin your thread after see "MEN". You just explained clear that it´s okay to us (women) if any men create their thread about women...
 
Endymion said:
I love Lord Leighton's Flaming June:

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It is clear that this pre-Raphaelite-influenced painting (Lord Leighton is more properly considered a neo-classicist, though) exemplifies the curves that people found beautiful in his time.

I have to say, I think the woman looks gorgeous too.
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beeeaaauuuutifffuuullll picture... I love it... Thank you for share your picture here with us... I LOVE it... I save it in my file... Thank you again.. :thumb:
 
I think I've mentioned some in one of the threads about the weight. I was very skinny growing up, all the guys were like, damn girl, you look sexy, beautiful, pretty, you name it. I was like.. Is that all you're looking for? They would tell me straight up in my face that they like skinny girls. I was skinny myself but I got offended. So, I never let them have me as for my looks soooo fook them.. then I gained weight after my daughter was born. I would say about 3 guys are crazy about me now even i was skinny or overweight. I'm impressed with that! on the other hand, those guys that used to know me as skinny are like.. what the hell happened to you!!?? You used to be sooo sexy and beautiful! I'll ask them.. "am I not beautiful to you now?" one of the guys gulped. So i told them, Now I know who you are, glad I got to you know more before we went any further! ciao!" it disgust me!
but you know what.. i kinda like the way i am maybe just need to lose a tiny bit more.. and lose my baby fat!!!! then i'm satisfied and i don't give a damn if a guy don't like how i look..
 
This is for men... I would say the same if men create their own thread about women.

I´m agree that it´s horrible feeling to know that men pick their partner´s overweight for the fun... They take their partner´s self-confidence away... It´s terrible because it could make partner seek for chocolate to sataisfy their esteem... It makes them gain more weight. Those people who make fun of your weight is low self-esteem and loser.

But... but... but... there´re difference between "make fun of their partner´s weight" and "support their partner with health and diet".

I beleive it´s important to have open communication between the partners. Its about open mind and honest. It´s great to have friends or partner who support you with health and diets. I can tell that some people misunderstand the difference. It doesn´t mean that they judge you but support you with feedback. It´s important for partner to motivate each other to improve their health what they knows about right foods etc...

I HATE when anyone say to me: "You are beautiful........." because it sounds flattery (2 faced) to me. I rather to have their honest about me. I have friends who are honest each other about our health issues and how to improve health, weight loss, etc. It´s cool to listen and reassure each other because it helps weight loss easily. Example: It depress you more to deal with your diet problems, then I would listen you and advise you something... OR we do that together. It develop good esteem when you praise your partner & friends about weight....It make her feel good...... It won´t hurt if your partner want to have ice cream sometimes.

I don´t understand why people offend easily when men honset with them about their weight because I know the difference between make fun of overweight and help/suggest you...

If I am happy with my weight then I would tell my partner that I´m sataisfy with my weight. If he tried to convince me then I will tell him that I´m sorry if you don´t agree with me over my weight but I´m happy with it... If he can´t accept to this which it mean that he care about my look and weight more than ME then I will know that he´s not right for me.

I don´t care either you are fat, thin, slim, clabby, or whatever but your beautiful personality... I would be honest with you if you ASK me for my opinion about you and your size because you deserve my honestly. It shows that I´m your true friend.
 
As a man, I want to meet a girl or woman whom I will love for her own personality..in addition, I want to be loved for who I am.. I'm very good looking due to my green looks but I want PERSONALITY.. It wouldn't make any difference if the woman of my dreams would be overweight or slim.. In the end, we are humans whom have personality..
 
DeafGeorgiaLady said:
It is no wonder that men are bunches of idiots to watch porn and drooling over skinny, ugly women. Men out there dont know what they are missing anyways.
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hey...i only watch porn when im by myself and im in the mood. its a tool.
 
lol I dont mean you. I mean other men who are bunches of idiots. I dont mean you. lol you are silly.
 
Liebling:-))) said:
This is for men... I would say the same if men create their own thread about women.

I´m agree that it´s horrible feeling to know that men pick their partner´s overweight for the fun... They take their partner´s self-confidence away... It´s terrible because it could make partner seek for chocolate to sataisfy their esteem... It makes them gain more weight. Those people who make fun of your weight is low self-esteem and loser.

But... but... but... there´re difference between "make fun of their partner´s weight" and "support their partner with health and diet".

I beleive it´s important to have open communication between the partners. Its about open mind and honest. It´s great to have friends or partner who support you with health and diets. I can tell that some people misunderstand the difference. It doesn´t mean that they judge you but support you with feedback. It´s important for partner to motivate each other to improve their health what they knows about right foods etc...

I HATE when anyone say to me: "You are beautiful........." because it sounds flattery (2 faced) to me. I rather to have their honest about me. I have friends who are honest each other about our health issues and how to improve health, weight loss, etc. It´s cool to listen and reassure each other because it helps weight loss easily. Example: It depress you more to deal with your diet problems, then I would listen you and advise you something... OR we do that together. It develop good esteem when you praise your partner & friends about weight....It make her feel good...... It won´t hurt if your partner want to have ice cream sometimes.

I don´t understand why people offend easily when men honset with them about their weight because I know the difference between make fun of overweight and help/suggest you...

If I am happy with my weight then I would tell my partner that I´m sataisfy with my weight. If he tried to convince me then I will tell him that I´m sorry if you don´t agree with me over my weight but I´m happy with it... If he can´t accept to this which it mean that he care about my look and weight more than ME then I will know that he´s not right for me.

I don´t care either you are fat, thin, slim, clabby, or whatever but your beautiful personality... I would be honest with you if you ASK me for my opinion about you and your size because you deserve my honestly. It shows that I´m your true friend.
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Well said!!!

I hate when someone tells me I'm beautiful too.. I'll just roll my eyes :roll:
 
RebelGirl said:
Well said!!!

I hate when someone tells me I'm beautiful too.. I'll just roll my eyes :roll:
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well i do think ur beautiful. i love ur hair and eyes.
 
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