What's with MEN??

^Angel^ said:
I see nothing wrong with her and I don't see why she can't become a model....She looks beautiful to me....:dunno:
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Right , nothing wrong with her and I am not trying to say that she can't be a model or a bimbo. what I am trying to say is that she doesn't looks like a model or bimbo. She was on the way home to Fla from her family reunion visiting me for few hours. that's when those pixs was taken. I was surprised that she and her parent stopped by. I saw her again 4/5 yrs later and ended up going out together when I was in Fla. She had a crush on me back in elementary school but I avoided her cuz she was "4 eyed" tomboy (which I like tomboy type now lol ) but she's lot different now. I haven't seen her since our last relationship back then because I was going back to college thou. she did get hold of me via email and heard that she was married. congrats to her! I told myself "your loss!" we were immature back then eh.


anyway, like I said in my previous post that one of many reason is that men are looking for woman who care about health and this article just came out today..
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/story?id=1572824&CMP=OTC-RSSFeeds0312
Could be the reason why they want healthy woman to have kids with than go thru all the craps like huge bills due to her health. *shrug*
 
Some of men may also leave not only overweighted even some're skinny, sex-addicted :aw:
 
Seq - Your girlfriend is a lucky gal to be with you after all you do admire her for who she is, not for who she looks. Kudos to you! :thumb:
 
Boult said:
Right , nothing wrong with her and I am not trying to say that she can't be a model or a bimbo. what I am trying to say is that she doesn't looks like a model or bimbo. She was on the way home to Fla from her family reunion visiting me for few hours. that's when those pixs was taken. I was surprised that she and her parent stopped by. I saw her again 4/5 yrs later and ended up going out together when I was in Fla. She had a crush on me back in elementary school but I avoided her cuz she was "4 eyed" tomboy (which I like tomboy type now lol ) but she's lot different now. I haven't seen her since our last relationship back then because I was going back to college thou. she did get hold of me via email and heard that she was married. congrats to her! I told myself "your loss!" we were immature back then eh.


anyway, like I said in my previous post that one of many reason is that men are looking for woman who care about health and this article just came out today..
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/story?id=1572824&CMP=OTC-RSSFeeds0312
Could be the reason why they want healthy woman to have kids with than go thru all the craps like huge bills due to her health. *shrug*
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I understand Boult, it not only that some men wants their women's healthy, but some men do see it as being gross on the outside to the point where he wanted to call his woman a bunch of names and that's not helping or encourage her to lose the weight.....

If some men really care about their women's health, then he should show his lovely support to help her lose the weight rather than putting them down in a harsh or cruel way....


Another thing is, some men worried about what others say when they date an overweight woman, why is it important what others thinks, if you love someone so much then it shouldn't matter what others thinks...


And I think the only reason some men want a good looking woman with a nice body because most men are addict to sex..... :-/ ....And they might say " blame it on the porno movies "....
 
^Angel^ said:
Maybe it explain why some men and women are still single as today cause they are quite too picky on what others look like from the outside instead of really looking at the inner beauty of each person....

umm, Endymion is quite too picky on women, correct me if i m wrong he has a g/f, doesn't he :D

That also explain why most women get turn off when men can be really picky on how their woman should dress, the way her hair should be, have to look really good from below the neck to down etc....
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yea, I was controlled not to wear shirt w/deep V or U, must be covered.. u know, :crazy: he's been jealious, all i was polite :ugh2:
 
FreeWoman77 said:
yea, I was controlled not to wear shirt w/deep V or U, must be covered.. u know, :crazy: he's been jealious, all i was polite :ugh2:
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You have a right to wear whatever you want, no man should control you by telling you what you shouldn't wear.... Yeah it looks like to me hes being jealous cause he don't want no man looking at you....

Remind me to buy you a T-shirt with V on it ;)


Edit: I didnt see your message about Endymion until now, maybe he's waiting for the right woman to come along...:dunno:
 
^Angel^ said:
You have a right to wear whatever you want, no man should control you by telling you what you shouldn't wear.... Yeah it looks like to me hes being jealous cause he don't want no man looking at you....

Remind me to buy you a T-shirt with V on it ;)
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:ty: i have some havent wore before but now, and i m glad u made this thread I have been asking what's with man? :ugh:
 
FreeWoman77 said:
:ty: i have some havent wore before but now, and i m glad u made this thread I have been asking what's with man? :ugh:
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Aww really? well Thank you it means alot that you say that :hug:

You can say anything you want about men, it's helps getting a few things off your chest! ;)
 
^Angel^ said:
I understand Boult, it not only that some men wants their women's healthy, but some men do see it as being gross on the outside to the point where he wanted to call his woman a bunch of names and that's not helping or encourage her to lose the weight.....

If some men really care about their women's health, then he should show his lovely support to help her lose the weight rather than putting them down in a harsh or cruel way....


Another thing is, some men worried about what others say when they date an overweight woman, why is it important what others thinks, if you love someone so much then it shouldn't matter what others thinks...


And I think the only reason some men want a good looking woman with a nice body because most men are addict to sex..... :-/ ....And they might say " blame it on the porno movies "....
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Keep that in mind, not all men are like that. Some men are more considerate than others. My bf is very considerate person and he don't watch movies that show naked or make out in bed. He mostly watched Sci-Fi. He even don't have any preference whose an actress is more prettier - Nada, to be frank. He is very hard workin' man - workaholic, I would say.
 
Jolie_77 said:
Seq - Your girlfriend is a lucky gal to be with you after all you do admire her for who she is, not for who she looks. Kudos to you! :thumb:
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Thanks, Jo! Your lucky to have a boyfriend who accepts who you are, too! :thumb: :hug:
 
CyberRed said:
Keep that in mind, not all men are like that. Some men are more considerate than others. My bf is very considerate person and he don't watch movies that show naked or make out in bed. He mostly watched Sci-Fi. He even don't have any preference whose an actress is more prettier - Nada, to be frank. He is very hard workin' man - workaholic, I would say.
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But ^Angel^ didn´t say all men but "most men" or "some men".

^Angel^´s post.
And I think the only reason some men want a good looking woman with a nice body because most men are addict to sex..... :-/ ....And they might say " blame it on the porno movies "....
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^Angel^ said:
I understand Boult, it not only that some men wants their women's healthy, but some men do see it as being gross on the outside to the point where he wanted to call his woman a bunch of names and that's not helping or encourage her to lose the weight.....

If some men really care about their women's health, then he should show his lovely support to help her lose the weight rather than putting them down in a harsh or cruel way....

Another thing is, some men worried about what others say when they date an overweight woman, why is it important what others thinks, if you love someone so much then it shouldn't matter what others thinks...


And I think the only reason some men want a good looking woman with a nice body because most men are addict to sex..... :-/ ....And they might say " blame it on the porno movies "....
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That´s exactly what I´m trying to explain in my previous posts and try to help men to understand how women feeling.

All what you say is very true... That´s what women needs their partner´s support to make them feel good and wiling to lose their weight for them...
 
CyberRed said:
Keep that in mind, not all men are like that. Some men are more considerate than others. My bf is very considerate person and he don't watch movies that show naked or make out in bed. He mostly watched Sci-Fi. He even don't have any preference whose an actress is more prettier - Nada, to be frank. He is very hard workin' man - workaholic, I would say.
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Read again I said SOME men.....
 
Liebling:-))) said:
That´s exactly what I´m trying to explain in my previous posts and try to help men to understand how women feeling.

All what you say is very true... That´s what women needs their partner´s support to make them feel good and wiling to lose their weight for them...
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Yes and you did gave out a great advice too as well which I agree :hug:
 
DreamDeaf said:
*sigh* After reading the posts made after I left work, I saw it went off track again...

Let me say something here.

I am OVERWEIGHT, yet I dont have any health problems, other than arthritis in my knee. And when I say OVERWEIGHT, I'm saying, WHOA!!!

However - I do not have diabetes, heart problems, high blood pressure, and other aliments that often hits overweight PEOPLE (not just women, but MEN, too.) and my doctor is often constantly amazed that the only serious problem I have is the arthritis in my knee.

Many of the men who've insulted me over the years, have had problems - you name it. Makes you wonder, huh? I will probably outlive many of them, too, and worse yet, many of them are younger than I!!

I have been working on losing weight so I can continue to KEEP my good health, lessen pressure on my knee, and to feel better about myself. I do not care what others think of me anymore, because they have gone too far in abusing my self-esteem over the years. The only people that I do care about this situation are myself, MizzDeaf, my family and my close friends (including those on AD, you know who you are).

It's sad though, that I've become so selective over the years about who I choose for my friends, because I've been told I'm very open, very friendly, warm and welcoming to people, both friends, acquantiances and strangers.

I've also culivated an attitude to those people who would be "potty-mouthed" towards me - and I have never liked this side of myself at all.

If it were not for people that make snap judgements about a person's appearance, I'm sure the world would have been a better place to live in.
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You described arthritis in your post is similar problem as my friend had few years ago. May I share something with you about her.

She said arthritis is very pain. She keep on going to doctor for injection to prevent pains until she was recommend to go Specialist for Osteoporosis. Specialist advised her to keep her weight down because of too much weight can make knee hurt. She took his advise and lost 20 pounds and notice that no arthritis pain more. She feel good after suffer pains... she described me how terrible it is.

Interesting to know that arthritis could be very pain... How do you feel like this?

As what anyone make the fun of your weight then is their immature loser... It´s them, I feel sorry because they didn´t know what really you are...

If you are happy that way you are, then stay what you are... You don´t have to change because of them... but if you are not happy with your weight then have your partner to loving support. It´s wonderful.
 
^Angel^ said:
Read again I said SOME men.....
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Ok, I just want to be sure that you are aware of that not all men are like that. Ok, no problem. Thanks ....
 
Liebling:-))) said:
She keep on going to doctor for injection to prevent pains until she was recommend to go Specialist for Osteoporosis.
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What is injection?....I thought they usually give them pills to help the pains..
 
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