What is your opinions on Open Relationship ?

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whats does a open relationship mean?

It is when 2 people that are committed to each other emotionally and have a great deal of trust in one another have sex with other people or couples.

It's difficult to understand this lifestyle- obviously one or both partners aren't getting what they want sexually in the relationship, but are still emotionally attached to their partner. A woman on TV who was into this said she loved her husband but wasn't attracted to him sexually-Thats too bad, but what of all the jealousy that could arise, or the STDs she could bring home to him, or even meeting up with some perverted dangerous people in 'the scene'. I dont know if it's always selfish, but it seems that way; the question is do people really really really need sex to be happy or can they be happy without it in their relationship ?
 
I'm too selfish to have my hubby for myself, not share with others...
 
Adultery and such are BIG NO in my book!

I hope I won't be going through this with my future wife/girlfriend. Should she feel the need to do adultery, we could seek professional help but I won't force her. I would rather to be out of the relationship before she starts to shag with other people.
 
On Open Relationship

I agree with all of you, I wouldn't do such things like that where there's Aid, Hiv and Std are spreading, it is dirty and unclean to be sleeping with other people even strangers, scary.

I don't understand why a married couple or boy/girlfriend wants to have a open relationship and sleeps with other people, I thinks it is GROSS & NASTY.

Everybody has different germs in their body, even for the bloods and fluids, especially sleeping with people without protection is for Dummies.

Me and my fiance refused to have an open relationship, we're scare of nasty diseases goin' around, we say for get it!

We want to keeps our body clean and to protects our body from bad diseases, we want to be happy and free of nasty diseases, that many are livin' with it and are not happy.

Not many people here had much to say about this, interesting.
 
I know a few people with that kind of relationship.

I honestly don't see what's so good about it.

All it does is increase the risk of the other falling in love with someone else. :roll:
 
The open relationship is a no-no in my book.

Actually, I don't see what's special about having the open relationship. Some argue that it has no strings attached and it is only mutual but others argue that they cannot keep the emotions and logics separately when being involved in a open relationship.

If a couple were encountering an issue as to not being able to satisfy each other sexually, they can always go to a sex therapist or to a place where they can try to find different ways to romanticize each other. That is what it is for rather than going out to do a bam-bam session with someone else.
 
Will Smith and his wife, Jada, have an open relationship. I know this couple who has been married for almost 25 years who have an open relationship too. They said they dont indulge in it all the time..like once in a while. Interesting. Anyways, I am too chicken to do that! LOL!
 
An open relationship is a big NO-NO in my book. If I was married or dating guy its only me and him exclusively. I have to agree with norcal20" it makes so sick".
 
Like I have always said about gay/lesbain relationships, what people do in their private time is none of my business so if there are married people who have open relationships, it doesnt bother me. It doesnt affect me and none of my business. I am not the one to dictate on what people do behind closed doors. I have few friends who have open relationships and I accept them for their friendship not for their sex lives.
 
Well, I can tell you for sure that open relationship is a no no in my book also. I know lot of people are like that too. When I think about open marriages, I can only conjure a stereotype: deeply unsatisfied adults, most likely going through a mid-life crisis, pathetically searching for hot sex as a solution. It turns me off and it not right. It raise the red flag when I see this.
 
Open relationship is no-no in my book. If I was married or taken, I rather only me and him, no one else.
 
no i dont b elieve in open relationship due to std and etc.. I am too selfish to share my future man/future bf with other lady... :D
 
I wouldn't share my future husband with another woman or a gay man for that matters. Three is a crowd! No thanks ha.
 
I wouldn't want an open relationships, too much drama and screw-ups so I'll pass on that one there.
 
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