What HAPPENED TO ALL OF YOU!!!!?????

jazzy said:
I do not know what was going on yesterday while I was out of town. Truthfully many time I get bashed and not many of you feel bad for me cuz I am not exactly popular person here. I am fine with it and I do not complain about it. But when I read here, I see one side of group here, inner circle friends to stand up for others and protect them. I first came here Ad here because it was alike everyone is everyone, no one side group but now I was wrong. Now I begin to see one side of group here. Anyway I am sorry anyone get their feeling hurt and we all need to remind oursleves once awhile we are no different from them. After all we only are human being with weak heart.
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:gpost: jazzy!
 
jazzy said:
I do not know what was going on yesterday while I was out of town. Truthfully many time I get bashed and not many of you feel bad for me cuz I am not exactly popular person here. I am fine with it and I do not complain about it. But when I read here, I see one side of group here, inner circle friends to stand up for others and protect them. I first came here Ad here because it was alike everyone is everyone, no one side group but now I was wrong. Now I begin to see one side of group here. Anyway I am sorry anyone get their feeling hurt and we all need to remind oursleves once awhile we are no different from them. After all we only are human being with weak heart.
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Very true. Exactly the same way I see, too. :gpost:
 
Jazzy said:
I see one side of group here, inner circle friends to stand up for others and protect them
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I'm sorry but unfortunately, I disagree with you, there are more than one side of a group of friends, just like how Rebelgirl explained it on her very first post, if one person doesn't like the other person, this person would slide into another group and jumped on this person who already been personal attacked. I've seen it happened many times. There are favoritism every where, every forum you haven't touched or touched. It's the truth. ;)
 
Cheri said:
I'm sorry but unfortunately, I disagree with you, there are more than one side of a group of friends, just like how Rebelgirl explained it on her very first post, if one person doesn't like the other person, this person would slide into another group and jumped on this person who already been personal attacked. I've seen it happened many times. There are favoritism every where, every forum you haven't touched or touched. It's the truth. ;)
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U know u do have your own inner circle friend here on AD so it is easy for u to have many supporters but there is many outsiders here do not have any supporters or friends, just being themselves alike me and others. U know I have been on other forums too and I chose this AD because it was best so far compare to others till now, it is same as other forums. I once was been attacked by other forum real bad so I do know what it is feel alike when I was only one stood by bashers and no one stood by for me. I believe in my own words and they do not like what I said about it before. I deal with it and move on.
 
I have seen SO many dramas in here that its SUCH a turn off, i have a life than to watch you all get bitchy about people, seeing you judge them doesn't make yuo any better as well

I totally agree with rebel. knock it off with disrespect and start showing one unity in this forum this is for EVERYONE weather you like it or not, u need to show some consideration ( AND IM NOT POINTING OUT AT ANYONE JUST EVERYONE IN GENERAL) This is why i don't post much in here anymore, its not abou the posting numbers its about living life not dealing with everyone's bullshit. u got issues u don't like with others learn to take it out of the forum, alex paid for this board so we all can post and learn from one another but u chose to bash and bitch abt every little problem that life throws in your way, learn to adapt to the issues don't be crapping on someone's posts and if u don't agree with thier issues or thier theory show some friggin consideration for others. i'm so appalled at some of you that just don't see straigiht, again its an issue that STILL is around. AGE OLD FAVORITSM is not tolerated here nor is it respected. talk to each other and learn from one another don't bring them down based on what they think! SHeesh

Rebel u go gurl u did a good job this is not the only thread that was created several other people posted thier feelings about it and got ingored. i hope this thread will wake poeple up.
 
Well well, well....Rebel thats a good rant and you said it good just as good as anybody could and you can go on and on until you are blue in the face but! you think it will DO any good? I mean you think anybody will LISTEN? i DOUBT it! as i have seen it..people still do it again and again..maybe people will stop bashing and hating on others for a bit then it will start all over again..sorry but thats LIFE! That is way it is in this world..right now, my best friend will not speak to me at all cuz i did not take the time to see her before i moved. I have reasons for not doing so.
I think Alex is doing great job by closing threads when bashing gets out of hand as i have seen one thread when there was some bad mouthing going on and he closed that thread..so i think that is the best way is that is to have the moderator to close the threads. People will ALWAYS be mean to others no matter what...that is a sad fact of life!
I realize that im guilty too but hey, im human too!
 
jazzy said:
I do not know what was going on yesterday while I was out of town. Truthfully many time I get bashed and not many of you feel bad for me cuz I am not exactly popular person here. I am fine with it and I do not complain about it. But when I read here, I see one side of group here, inner circle friends to stand up for others and protect them. I first came here Ad here because it was alike everyone is everyone, no one side group but now I was wrong. Now I begin to see one side of group here. Anyway I am sorry anyone get their feeling hurt and we all need to remind oursleves once awhile we are no different from them. After all we only are human being with weak heart.
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Amen!
 
jazzy said:
U know u do have your own inner circle friend here on AD so it is easy for u to have many supporters but there is many outsiders here do not have any supporters or friends, just being themselves alike me and others. U know I have been on other forums too and I chose this AD because it was best so far compare to others till now, it is same as other forums. I once was been attacked by other forum real bad so I do know what it is feel alike when I was only one stood by bashers and no one stood by for me. I believe in my own words and they do not like what I said about it before. I deal with it and move on.
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Yes, it is true I do have a few friends that I've would trust my whole life with, Some of my friends hate to see someone they care about get attacked. I've stood up to those who (outsiders) were alone being personal attacked, You might haven't seen that yet.

I've stood up for Alex in another hate forum where his name was brought up so many times, Who got attacked? I did, I was the only one who stood up for Alex, not that Alex was my friend (during that time I didn't even know him that well), He was someone that did not even deserved to be talked about, when he doesn't know what was being said behind his back.

There are other groups in here who stood by their friends, not only mine. ;)
 
CutePommie said:
Welcome to the REAL WORLD ... !!

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Its not like I'm in a dream, cutiepommie.. this world with full of people has been the "REAL WORLD" since day one.. back in the B.C.

my point is....

WE CAN STOP IT.. ONLY IF WE WANT TO. WE CAN BE CIVIL AND JUST UNDERSTAND OTHERS INSTEAD OF YOURSELF.. LIKE I SAID.. EACH OF US ARE DEFENSIVE. AND ITS GOTTEN WORSE.


I know this isn't the first time someone had ranted or vented.. I'm not as popular as you guys think I am. but I'm not looking for popularity.. I came in here to get the "education" ... to be honest... the people in this forum are very intelligent and we all learn from it. I'm really impressed with you all. I love this forum because of all of you are in it.

I'm not looking for attention nor wanting attention.. i just want it to stop before it goes too far.
 
Cheri said:
Yes, it is true I do have a few friends that I've would trust my whole life with, Some of my friends hate to see someone they care about get attacked. I've stood up to those who (outsiders) were alone being personal attacked, You might haven't seen that yet.

I've stood up for Alex in another hate forum where his name was brought up so many times, Who got attacked? I did, I was the only one who stood up for Alex, not that Alex was my friend (during that time I didn't even know him that well), He was someone that did not even deserved to be talked about, when he doesn't know what was being said behind his back.

There are other groups in here who stood by their friends, not only mine. ;)
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Yeah I know. :) I have been there before.
 
Cheri said:
Yes, it is true I do have a few friends that I've would trust my whole life with, Some of my friends hate to see someone they care about get attacked. I've stood up to those who (outsiders) were alone being personal attacked, You might haven't seen that yet.

I've stood up for Alex in another hate forum where his name was brought up so many times, Who got attacked? I did, I was the only one who stood up for Alex, not that Alex was my friend (during that time I didn't even know him that well), He was someone that did not even deserved to be talked about, when he doesn't know what was being said behind his back.

There are other groups in here who stood by their friends, not only mine. ;)
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Yes, I remember... I was there... Alex was being insult by other bully crowds there... where there're no debate with agree/disagree or accept cons/pros but backstabbing, insult, bashing, immaturity talks... which not right that's why I join to support him... Insult, bashing, bullies etc are a different story. I had a bad experience there, too... Terrible one... It's not debate but bullies... I would consider other forum as bully forum.
 
Rebel .. I didn't say it dream .... It fact that what we are. We have to accept when the people does change even friends, nothing we can do about it. Just let it go and move on .. can not to expect us to be nice all the time which it doesn't to be normal ... It is normal for us to be act like it. just simple ignore then move on. So we all will know who the true friends are ..

I does to understand what you vented about but you can not to expect to us having be nice all time .. it would be strange to act like it ..
It would be boring if we does be nice all time. It nothing wrong to having challenge.
I wouldn't worry if they do not like me as i don't have any problem with it. As life is too short for it. :dunno:
I only say it because i mean well.
Have a nice day :wave:
 
i agree with you rebelgirl but... well this is all part of life. if not rumors/gossips in forum there will be in other places and what i learned is... rumors and gossips goes with drama which leads to disagreements which leads to mini war. its all part of life. it comes and goes. this too shall pass.
 
The saddest things is when some people criticize or put down others that they do not like and I guess it shows that some people prefer to live in the past and keep dragging it on and on in the open forum and it's just a matter of time before people start waking up and look at themselves first before pointing this out to a specific person or group of friends by trying to destory their reputation and that's not so nice at all...Respect is an attitude because it grows as you grow and it's works both ways, and respect doesn't mean that you have to agree with everything the person says but it does mean you respect them for how they see things or believe, as RebelGirl said in another thread that some people thinks differently, every individual is unique in every way, we ALL are just different period and learn to respect those differences too...I also think we should learn to be more self-awareness, when we make a mistake, ask yourself this question " What did I say wrong? am I doing the right thing? how do I fix this, how can I solve the problem and how can I become a better person? etc " since no one does their best behavior all the time and when we stop criticize others, it's changes into respect, so its up to each of us to make that move, so it's your call and respecting others will help you become a better person....

And I do agree that it's healthy to agree to disagree about things but in all honestly I can not tolerate those who passes judgment on others but I can accept the fact some people may see or believe things differently but does not mean they can be so bluntly about it, that not respect, not to me it isn't, all it does it put a person down by criticize them or hurting them, I didn't come here for that, I've seen many people from all walks of life in real life and on the internet everywhere and it's not about who's right or who's wrong , it's about understand people's feelings, their actions and thoughts ...I don't expect every issue or situation should be debates on, this is not a debates forum its forum for everyone to be able to express their opinion freely without being put down...There are going to be more people out there who is going to come in here and see it differently, there's nothing you , I or anyone can do to change that person's view, so got to learn to respect it by walking away from it ...

Lastly, Good vent RebelGirl, you go girl!!
 
^Angel^ said:
The saddest things is when some people criticize or put down others that they do not like and I guess it shows that some people prefer to live in the past and keep dragging it on and on in the open forum and it's just a matter of time before people start waking up and look at themselves first before pointing this out to a specific person or group of friends by trying to destory their reputation and that's not so nice at all...Respect is an attitude because it grows as you grow and it's works both ways, and respect doesn't mean that you have to agree with everything the person says but it does mean you respect them for how they see things or believe, as RebelGirl said in another thread that some people thinks differently, every individual is unique in every way, we ALL are just different period and learn to respect those differences too...I also think we should learn to be more self-awareness, when we make a mistake, ask yourself this question " What did I say wrong? am I doing the right thing? how do I fix this, how can I solve the problem and how can I become a better person? etc " since no one does their best behavior all the time and when we stop criticize others, it's changes into respect, so its up to each of us to make that move, so it's your call and respecting others will help you become a better person....

And I do agree that it's healthy to agree to disagree about things but in all honestly I can not tolerate those who passes judgment on others but I can accept the fact some people may see or believe things differently but does not mean they can be so bluntly about it, that not respect, not to me it isn't, all it does it put a person down by criticize them or hurting them, I didn't come here for that, I've seen many people from all walks of life in real life and on the internet everywhere and it's not about who's right or who's wrong , it's about understand people's feelings, their actions and thoughts ...I don't expect every issue or situation should be debates on, this is not a debates forum its forum for everyone to be able to express their opinion freely without being put down...There are going to be more people out there who is going to come in here and see it differently, there's nothing you , I or anyone can do to change that person's view, so got to learn to respect it by walking away from it ...
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:gpost: !! I am guilty of being blunt at times, I am not going to lie about that. I do have my faults, just like everyone else. ;)
 
Cheri said:
:gpost: !! I am guilty of being blunt at times, I am not going to lie about that. I do have my faults, just like everyone else. ;)
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Everyone can do so . I did ,too.

The main point that I shouldn't forget is that I am here for peace not fight.

Post here always, you have contributed this forum greatly.

Go ahead :hug:
 
I agreed with highland's statement about I should think twice before post. I should not join here. I made few big mistakes that us to break relationship. I was alseep and careless to post without think twice and then fell asleep. I woke up and saw something got my attention. i harmed someone feeling the mean of privacy value. image that i could not join AD that my relationship could stay. I lost everthing i love. :( i am trying to evlove myself better and should think harder. I have seen many drama here but missed most of time when i sleep and work. We should respect everyone here. I have seen someone saying where is my respect.

And also Rebel posts are good. I am trying my best. I never hurt anyone and never lie to here. I know we should not judge members. I am honest and good man. No one believe me. We are being human. I said I only want a friend. I never want them become enemy.

I learn much from here and know that AD is education forum we love to share with them something I don't know.
 
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