Drug Addiction.....I've learned a lot in 25 years myself....Family members, several of them, even my Niece committed suicide last month, and called her Mom right before she died....My sister is devastated....she tried so hard to help and now having 4 grandkids to raise and she isn't in good health either....
Just what do we blame drug addiction on?...peer pressure....weakness...unable to face reality...not giving a damn....mental illness....low self-esteem....????
Drugs can and will ruin family lives.....But, I also learned for myself...that I had suffered enough....did all I could to help and support them....to no avail. We all have choices in Life....I made mine, and distanced myself from it....and my own mental health is much, much better!.....Tough Love is the only way to go when a drug addict will not listen.
Sorry about ur brother, Shel....dunno how long he has been addicted....There will always be a deep sadness within yourself, not being able to get through to him....If he has been in and out of Rehab many, many times....to no avail....then that is his choice.