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I learned this Wednesday night and it has really shocked me.
Seems that we have a lady at our Deaf church that is jealous of me. First, she does not think I am really deaf. She is jealous that I can speak clearly. She is jealous that I am making more and more friends at church and currently more people sign with me than with her. She is jealous that the small children seem to like me. She resents the fact that her hubby (who is one of the 2 who does the lessons) will ask me for clarification at times, or ask if I can understand when the terp is not there. She complained to the general board meeting of the Deaf Club that is was not fair to the other members that I ask that people let me know, on potluck lunch days, if something has dairy in it. The board took offense since there is one diabetic and two Orthodox Jewish people on the board and that she just needed to work with it. The church board has agreed to now make it a rule that special dietary needs must be worked with and there would be no exclusions.
I was advised by the terp who I was out to dinner with, that she and the other man who does the lessons think I should go totally voice off at the church. They have chatted with a bunch of the members who have all said they will help me with my ASL and all agree that I should be voice-off. The parents of the children still want their children to associate with me as I make them feel comfortable.
As far as the potluck lunches, I am not asking them to fix specific foods, just to let me know if there is anything dairy in it. I don't think that's too much. We already have to proved unsweetened things for our diabetics (7 in the church), what's so hard about 1 dairy-free person?
Seems that we have a lady at our Deaf church that is jealous of me. First, she does not think I am really deaf. She is jealous that I can speak clearly. She is jealous that I am making more and more friends at church and currently more people sign with me than with her. She is jealous that the small children seem to like me. She resents the fact that her hubby (who is one of the 2 who does the lessons) will ask me for clarification at times, or ask if I can understand when the terp is not there. She complained to the general board meeting of the Deaf Club that is was not fair to the other members that I ask that people let me know, on potluck lunch days, if something has dairy in it. The board took offense since there is one diabetic and two Orthodox Jewish people on the board and that she just needed to work with it. The church board has agreed to now make it a rule that special dietary needs must be worked with and there would be no exclusions.
I was advised by the terp who I was out to dinner with, that she and the other man who does the lessons think I should go totally voice off at the church. They have chatted with a bunch of the members who have all said they will help me with my ASL and all agree that I should be voice-off. The parents of the children still want their children to associate with me as I make them feel comfortable.
As far as the potluck lunches, I am not asking them to fix specific foods, just to let me know if there is anything dairy in it. I don't think that's too much. We already have to proved unsweetened things for our diabetics (7 in the church), what's so hard about 1 dairy-free person?