What are your views on cohabitating?

BradB08 said:
How about just calling them children? :roll:
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Aye -- that's much better than some man-made labels that are designed to devalue others. :ty:

Sin is a man-made concept to coerce the mass into accepting certain beliefs, akin to negative reinforcement where behavior is concerned. A divine, omnipresent creator would not have such need for such silly, psychological warfare to be convincing.

So, to cohabit or to not cohabit -- a very personal decision that lies in the heart of each adult. The only stipulation here is using common sense and sound judgment in these circumstances. Don't move in with someone you don't know that well -- you could be in danger of abuse or worse, ya know?? Take the time to know a person very, very well.

I have cohabited twice -- both instances went well with amicable partings. But this time, I'd rather live alone -- and carry on a dating life at the same time. I'm being very picky nowadays, and I won't settle for less than following my heart and sound judgment that is tempered by experience and common sense.

On the flipside, I also think it will delay a young person's personal development/growth if co-dependence exists in cohabitation. Is that worth saving the money on costs of living?
 
Liza said:
So, to cohabit or to not cohabit -- a very personal decision that lies in the heart of each adult. The only stipulation here is using common sense and sound judgment in these circumstances. Don't move in with someone you don't know that well -- you could be in danger of abuse or worse, ya know?? Take the time to know a person very, very well.
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I agree. You know, It is said that cohabitation could very well go against some people's moral values but on the other hand, it is very much a personal choice for one if they want to cohabit or not. As ambient as it sounds, cohabitation should not only be based on the dependency of saving the costs but it also should also include other prerogative aspects such as if both parties wants to do it together.
 
Well I would want to know what make a gal tick the right way and see how she does in life and she could see how I do in life and we could work out things and live together and if we indeed are in true love then possibly we could discuss marriage and etc... but I have to say this, as I havent done this before and yeah I have yet to have a girlfriend and I would love to have one.. I just want to be sure and learn everything (but I know that wont prepare me for uncalled things that happen in life with no warnings but that cant hurt to try and learn a bit??) and who knows if I find the gal I want to be together with for life and have kids with, them maybe it would be worth it or not? Hmm as for living together, good idea to see how each other do, and know what to do regarding others and more... hmm
 
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