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I am a hearing parent of 2 deaf oral teenagers.
I think that ASL would not interfer with their learning academics. In the early years say below 8 years old if they are being raised orally and are being successful in developing oral language, I would not introduce any sign language. I do think that if a deaf child is above the age of 4 or 5 years and has been raised orally and is not having much success then parents need to switch to ASL or a form of sign language.
I dont agree with that because that means the chidlren were deprived of full access to language and then switching to ASL, have to learn a new language, and try to read and write when they dont have a strong L1 foundation. That makes them language delayed and it is not right at all. I dont see the justification for putting deaf children at risk for being language delayed just to see if they develop oral skills or not. I see that too many times with my students after years of struggling with oral language. finally, they get full acess to a language which is ASL but because they are past the critical years of language development, it is tough for them and not to mention they have to learn to read and write in another language. I am sorry...I strongly stand by my opinion that both should be exposed right from the start not one language later and have the children play catch up. It is not right because that gives them a lifetime of struggles with literacy skills.
My children are now teenagers and have been very successful in using oral language. They have learn sign language more socially. I think sign language is a positive for my chldren now.
Knowing what I know now I wouldn't change a thing in my children's education.
But I have seen childrens being raised orally that do need to change and parents are just no open to it.
I think partly because we oral parents have heard so much about how the Deaf culture thinks we are wrong. I think both sides needs to listen each otehr and respect each other more.
For me, literacy skills comes first than oral skills. I would rather see a deaf person who is a signer only with literacy skills at a Harvard level than see a deaf person who can speak and hear so well but read at an 8th grade level. By telling Deaf children that being oral is better is giving the wrong message (not that u are saying it but that's the general attitude out there). We should be sending a message of the importance of literacy skills. U mentioned in another thread that there are more opportunities if deaf people develop oral skills. I think we need to change that attitude cuz if the children were unable to develop oral skills and they get that message, that will make them feel like failures.