Venting/Ranting....

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First I would like to thanks those of you who shows their kindness supports and the nice comments that were being posted in this thread, I really do appreciate it, so Thank you my friends! :grouphug:....


Honestly, I didn't expect everyone to agree on how I feel here, I'm not trying to tell anyone what to do, more of trying to find a soluation to deal with the problem rather than taking it elsewhere, where people will more likely get involved and not being honest about the whole situation or trying to stir up more drama just to get attention or pity, I don't think it's neccessary to get all fussed up over it by trying to hurt the person's feelings and that's not nice at all....
 
^Angel^ said:
Aww it's nice to see you laugh TB, :hug:
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oh yea i need that... cuz of i was bad mood, got sick today.. now i feel better i hate weather! ugh! :hug:
 
Don't worry about it, my dear Tweetybird...everyone has bad day too and bad mood...I get that too once in a while! :hug: Still wanna keep ur feather to keep u warm and fluffy? wink
 
I have read those posts and heard from others that states me about ^angel^'s thread. This morning, I have seriuosly chance look before it would be locks. I wonder why anyone want to choke ^angel^'s thread for WHAT ??? I do not see why. :dunno:

You know I am admin and Alex is admin... so you are admin on your own. We did not share this to others forum because it is our opinions over forum and what we want to allow them venting/renting or whatever. I and my MODS always check on their behaviors and attitude user id. We uses to PM them and ask them be nice or kick out. I not want that happen to my forum.... so everyone know that.

^angel^..... you have right to vent here and nothing wrong with that. All people are so paranoiac! I do not see anything against.... just venting. :) alright ?
 
See now, ^Angel^ that you are not only one who vent your feeling out but other members as well, too... like Rebelgirl, DeafMonkey, etc. etc. Of course me, too...

The members are supposing to support venter who create the thread to vent their feeling out instead of choke and upset venter.

It's mature way to support venter and solve this issue with venter... Like what I did with a person who vent her feeling out against me but her thread was locked so I created a new thread to give venter the positive.



Occccpppp :Oops: Sorry ^Angel^, I forget to post "Great Venting" in my earlier posts....

*Great Venting, ^Angel^*
 
Aww Thanks girls.... :grouphug:


No worries here Liebling :giggle:
 
Peachy Lady said:
Don't worry about it, my dear Tweetybird...everyone has bad day too and bad mood...I get that too once in a while! :hug: Still wanna keep ur feather to keep u warm and fluffy? wink
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oh yea i need keep my feather warm and fluffy! hehehe.. thanks honey for uddy! :hug:
 
^Angel^, you did a good job with venting it out in here.

I don't see this as a stupid thread. All I see was ^Angel^ was trying to get some things off her chest and to shed some light in order to establish the truth.
 
angel have right to post anything about her feelings and stuff

sometimes i feel depressed over things it is not people fault that they feel about it
it just me that i feel that way
 
Thanks Moonflower, I agree it helps others to get a few things off their chests but at the same time being able to respect those who are involved in the ranting...

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^Angel^, It was a good thread!! I agree with you. You have every right to vent or rant in here. We are here for you to listen. ;) hugs my friend
 
Aww you're so sweet, Thank you my dear friend RedheadGrrl :hug:
 
^Angel^ said:
Aww you're so sweet, Thank you my dear friend RedheadGrrl :hug:
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My pleasure my friend!!!! You are sweet lady too!! Don't ya forget! smile :hug:
 
It honestly doesnt matter to me if someone is ranting or not. But... this is in a forum, not covered by the administration due to choice or lack of time or something else (gotta ask Alex and other mods on this one!)... the truth is unless this is done in a safe environment (special forum, blogs, etc), one can expect all kinds of advice, ideas, opinions, etc etc.. and yeah, even the attitude.. unfortunately. In Alldeaf, I don't see there is any boundaries regarding the posted vents/rants. Until that is erected, there is a risk in getting the negative feedback as well as the positive feedback. Of course, you can always post threads on this to get an open discussion like this thread too. Cool. Have you considered having your own blog or other types of journals to do all the ranting? At least you can control the kind of comments that might get posted there. Just a thought :)

A quote by Thich Nhat Hanh comes to mind regarding this thread:

When we are mindful, we notice that another person suffers. If one person suffers, that person needs to talk to someone in order to get relief. We have to offer our presence, and we have to listen deeply to the other person who is suffering. That is the practice of love-deep listening. But if we are full of anger, irritation, and prejudices, we don't have the capcity to listen deeply to the people we love. If people we love cannot communicate with us, then they will suffer more. Learning how to listen deeply is our responsibility. We are motivated by the desire to relieve suffering. That is why we listen. We need to listen with all our heart, without intention to judge, condemn, or criticize. And if we listen in that way for one hour, we are practicing true love. We don't need to say anything; we just need to listen.
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Keep in mind my intention is not to direct this to anyone.. only for anyone who is interested :)
 
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