Venting/Ranting....

:dunno: I always thought that venting out was a good thing, because it's not good to hold things in, as they eat us up inside. When a person (s) vent out in a forum like this one. Would it be wrong to assume that the venting is placed without getting all the facts first? I maybe naive here, when someone has something to "get off their chest", and we as members are reading into what is being said during this venting out period, isn't it our right as members to be supportive, discuss the issue more positively, and if any one person feels that this venting is directed at them? Can this person PM the ventor, discuss the issue and clear the air so bygones will be bygones?
If more people did vent out, and get things "off their chest" as we all have the right to do, then imagine how much better we could be to each other, because we are not harboring all the anger and anguish from a previous hurt, but, instead, get it out of our system, discuss it, clear the air and then move on, and the past stays in the past, not to be brought up again. Then we would all feel much better.
If someone is venting out, let us open our eyes, see if there is a way this problem can be solved, not sweep it under the rug for the anger to build up where it will be too late to do anything about.
 
CODAchild said:
:dunno: I always thought that venting out was a good thing, because it's not good to hold things in, as they eat us up inside. When a person (s) vent out in a forum like this one. Would it be wrong to assume that the venting is placed without getting all the facts first? I maybe naive here, when someone has something to "get off their chest", and we as members are reading into what is being said during this venting out period, isn't it our right as members to be supportive, discuss the issue more positively, and if any one person feels that this venting is directed at them? Can this person PM the ventor, discuss the issue and clear the air so bygones will be bygones?
If more people did vent out, and get things "off their chest" as we all have the right to do, then imagine how much better we could be to each other, because we are not harboring all the anger and anguish from a previous hurt, but, instead, get it out of our system, discuss it, clear the air and then move on, and the past stays in the past, not to be brought up again. Then we would all feel much better.
If someone is venting out, let us open our eyes, see if there is a way this problem can be solved, not sweep it under the rug for the anger to build up where it will be too late to do anything about.
very good anology donna ! :)

I will vent with you this coming Saturday. :hug:
 
good thread ^Angel^ yea u can venting anytime u wanna to... no one stop u for this.. allright honey! :hug:
 
Sometimes venting/rantings are good but depends on what issues in here..

its your own risk.. to post thread... if deep or too personal.. you have to expect someone will bash or give shit about it..

we all people in world have many different invidual opnions or thoughts on others...

thats why i dont post or make thread about my deep personal vent/rant.. which i need the most.. I rather collect my own mind and share the trust one.. or counselor.. which i dont need extra fuming or steam from others' neative comments or statements..

:) throws:: my 2 cents..
 
All you have to do is to type in your venting/ranting issues, print it and burn it....
 
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^Angel^'s wrote:
I'm not going to " name " who this person who's been doing this to me for so long, but I want to be left alone and that's all I ever asked for....

I understand your main concern issues your vent/ranting.. No problem I've done re-read your situation and also you did right thing "didn't bring anyone members' name on this forum".
I'm here say... "No prejuice or favoursitm".
Now I like to say below.....for my answer to you some of members...

CyberRed's wrote:
Well, I would like to ask you a question : How come you let it bother you ? I thought you said in your post in another thread that your goin' to have a " thick skin " ?

My answer:
Waving CR, Excuse moi, I see you're jump colusion and decide throw your bad breath to her.. no no.. errr.. DID SHE MENTIONED NAMING YOU YET on this thread?? Why you care asking her ", How come you let it bother you?
Made my mind say.. whoa, wait minutes, She wasn't even asking YOU!! Mentioned she asking ANYONE general opinion feedbacks..
I wasn't expecting you're say that..
R u sure , you determinded that she is "favoruistim twist sumth'n with another members?" No... Dead Wrong.. I'm expecting you open heart and UNDERSTAND what she really trying to say clairfity to everyone open door and speak it out your minds not in your bad breath.. That's all, wanted to carried postive as condiser pro vs con.. Can We?
*hmmmm*~
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JavaPride's wrote:
having a thick skin also means learning to accept evreryone has a right to speak thier mind, so maybe u need to relize every one can do what they want and if u don t like it then don t talk to that person and reveal ur bs life in it .... sorry im a blunt person and i have a right to be blunt....
and in conculsion.... i support cyber red.. cuz we do have the right to speak our minds.

My answer:

err, Hold yer horse, Out of loud mouth! Isn't proprite you're say that..
I believe possiblly, r u part of CR's side.. Yeah, You did already posted your vent/Rant about few months ago or a year ago wha..ever They did understand your situation but you didn't NAMED anyone members.. Now r u bring *throw stones to her* Honestly, I'm
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totally confused... You have to RIGHTS blunt her ... She didn't asking you for welcomed bash or blunt..
I'm getting know you more... isn't same your past old yourself being changed after a year.. I understand r u being BITCHY.. who cares.. rest of everyone women who bitchy.. So What! What do you expecting her... SHUT UP? Are you? I wud say... :nono:
I'm getting little
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step back away... but.... little bit more to read your comment...
 
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CyberRed's wrote:
No, you don't get an attack from me. I asked you a question WHY you let it BOTHER you ? I thought YOU said in your post in another THREAD that your goin' to have a THICK SKIN. You said so in your own post in another thread.

My answer:
Not necessary repeatly... She already stated answer to you done...
Yes, Main concern as everyones members might think other members who willing open venting/ranting "naming them" another fourm.. That reason being some of other members who become "THICK skin" reason members who not being honestly as condiser 2 faces.. I believe YES... I'm speaking straightenfroward w/you..
I've seen other fourms.. My answer...
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~*nodding no* That wrong.. None of respect privacy their naming.. Is okay for other members doesn't care and decide naming coming from another forum..
You or other members may broke oath under this forum's rules and other forum's rules are totally DIFFERENT.. As for me, I'm kinda not pleasant... Anyway... *sigh*~
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JavaPride's wrote:
ts because you are whining abt us venting in other forums u got a plm vent all u want i dont give s frig, just stop whining abt others venting abt certain issues in this forum if we see fit to vent we cna do so, we're not attacking u we're proving u its bothering u that we can vent and u don't like what we are venting out about. maybe its because we are tired of repeating ourselves to you. have u even noticed ur a broken record?
and MODS this is NOT a bashing this is a fact!
u want to vent be my guest but dont rant abt the rant and venting plms. its everyones rights.

My answer:
Hey :nono: JavaPride,
you threw mixed signals again...
Insulting her being "whining" Excuse me, you knew AD's rules not allowed point finger or bad mouth(naming), or else.. but you did already opened mouth and spill bad beans...
me looks~ :ugh:
Yes, Honestly...
Now you're saying "U want to be my guest but don't rant about the rant and venting plms. Its everyones rights.. " EXCUSE ME, you've done already your breath VENT/RANT while long ago.. now changed your soap mouth again..
*puzzled*~ :dunno:
Isn't allowed Rant/Venting here.. errr.. Is that your thread..*ahem* forum?
My eyes turns into
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^Angel^'s wrote:
Believe what you want, you have that right, but like for myself, I have the right to vent my feelings about a certain person who likes to twist words all around or getting attention and creating vent threads elsewhere.....

I don't feel that I'm whinning here, I am only venting something here and it has nothing to do with having a thick skin, so please leave that out as this isn't what this thread is about.....

My answer:
That correct, you did right answer explain to them, they can vent and rant anything want but no naming!
Espically Your feelings... whining or tiredsome or else.. That's okay your feelings towards into SOUR SECTION.. Hell no way you're not part of whine but still you have to say it.. I don't care if r u whining or tiredsome or digustion hearing being....
I'm speaking straigtenforward w/you... HONESTLY THAT'S OKAY your feelings towards to other members or here.. doesn't matter how much r u whine or else.. U're fine anyway... Which your heart needs open door and speak it out.. There's no prejuice or favorsitim because all you want hear their speak out pro vs con... without naming.. which it's GOOD..
I'm speaking... no prejuice or favoristim... ok..
 
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JavaPride's wrote:
will NOT allow poeple voilating the rights to thier privacy... i will not allow them to be degraded. and ever since angel and cr joined this forum they have been butting heads ever since, and i have to agree with a person i talked to the other day its getting old, CR has tried very hard to leave u guys alone but do post in some threads expressing her thoughts which i thought she had the right to do so, but yet, i see u all downplaying her like she is nothing, well from what i am seeing here, this forum is a great forum and i try very hard to communicate and listen to everyone, guess what this stops now.

My answer Can I jump bangwagon again...
Excuse me, r u refering about their past and trying to remind them.. Really not necessary!! And also you already knew what going on every dirt details..Can you mind please step back little bit.. don't paint their faces... Ohh that person is WRONG.. don't! Let it be!
That okay, you want listening communicate to everyone, guess what this stop now.. Why you're here and reading ^Angel^'s creater thread.. and decide to *paint her face*.
Hold your horse.. Did SHE SAY NAMING YOU OR ANYONE lately this thread right here... ? My question ask you... *hmmmmm*~
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Aren't you ?

JavaPride wrote:
life's too short to dwell on the past and too short to bitch cuz u know im a shortty bitchy here

My answer YEAH RIGHT.. if r u bitching.. that okay.. so am I bitching.. likely everyones who bastard or bitchy "just human being". So What~
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Cheri's wrote:
Interesting, I see nothing but bashing onto a creator of this thread, That's a shame because she has a right to vent out her feelings in fact without even naming a person, and she gets bashed on because she is whinny? Isn't it the same when everyone else vent out their feelings consider whinning too? There's is no differences. The problem is when someone has a issue with someone from another forum, I think that the person needs to resolved any issues that she or he may have with a person, going on another forum venting out feelings is nothing but consider drama seeking, trying to get people on one person side without two stories being heard. It's like hidden away from problems faced in another forum. I'll say it is pretty much a sticky situation. There is always two sides to every story, but it should be done in a forum where it happened at not on another forum which has no related to what happened in there. So I would say to ^Angel^ good venting!

Just my two cents.

My answer
I'm speaking netural ok...
I wud say.. Yes.. Indeed but... The members whoever can say that espically shoud use proprite word or langauge without foul insulting!
Yes, Pretty sticky but their choice and want to asking anyone postive or negivate as condiser pro vs con.. That's okay.. I understand r u "twinie" No problem.. You love her.. no problem.. That okay!
I do not think so this thread isn't "Drama". Sort of.. "asking"


Katisa's wrote:
You make a good point ! I second with cyber red and you.

Hooooo, Excuse me... Katisa..
My eyes really
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I smell you're sort of... FAVORISTIM and jump CR and Java's bandwagon side..
Ohhh shush~ :nono:
Be try remmy that you throw as your concern prevouis other your creater... They did moral support you and EVERYTHING.. you did right thing but now changed your attudie suddendly...
By the way, Wha.. am I thinking.. :ugh:
*sticky now* I lurv your humour EVERYTHING.. but I'm not here for prejuice or favoristim.. all I love to hear all everyones as condiser part of AD as "Deaf Family together" Now r u decide pull their hair, "I do not like you" then jump another group, Now I like you... "
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~Okay, go figures!

AJ's wrote:
Angel u have a good point about going to the person u have a problem with....
BUT
what if that person only wants to talk in to public eye, and not in private, then what do u do? the problem still remains and nothing is resolved

my answer:
Still no difference IL(INTERNET LIFE) AND RL (REAL LIFE) always same..
:dunno:~Pretty quite krazy glued...

My combine answer: Not necessary paint their faces again!
I'm speaking honestly w/you all members... Please no prejuice or favoristim.. whatever if you want to throw stones member's face that's fine by me. You decide! Part of white sheppard group or black sheppard your choice!
Wait and see what you'll become being NICE in real life meeting w/other AD'ers whoever will come. Isn't being YOU as IL compare RL? :dunno:
I'm not here combing their hair, Ohhh you're my lovely hair...If r u want to talk pointing finger use your privacy pm or instant messager... Ain't my business your business RIGHT? but HERE... always not allowed naming here as you knew! why do you care bash member's face,
"boo, you're DUMB" Hold yer horse.. I recommend you re-read again carefully than jump colusion here. If r u not understand their grammer or ASL wha..ever , can you pleasaned ask member repeat clarify out loud clean nose again until you UNDERSTAND.. Get it? Of course I'm not scolding you..
Just My pennies throw into AD's suggestion box!


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~waving hands up.. ~done!
 
DoofusMama said:
Sometimes venting/rantings are good but depends on what issues in here..

its your own risk.. to post thread... if deep or too personal.. you have to expect someone will bash or give shit about it..

we all people in world have many different invidual opnions or thoughts on others...

thats why i dont post or make thread about my deep personal vent/rant.. which i need the most.. I rather collect my own mind and share the trust one.. or counselor.. which i dont need extra fuming or steam from others' neative comments or statements..

:) throws:: my 2 cents..

u have a valid point DoofusMama! some people are able to handle it while others may not -- i guess it all depends on the person(s)
 
It is just AMAZING of what people tell you to do...they tell you to practice what you preach, when in fact, they don't apply it to themselves...*smh*
 
DreamDeaf said:
Great vent, ^Angel^!!

I do understand where you're coming from, I've been the subject of a few rants/vents myself and in each instance, the person did not tell the whole story, but instead twisted the facts and made up some statments in order to make it look like it was all my fault, that I was an AWFUL person to be around.

I have seen what you've talking about, and it's sad - because I HAVE seen the threads where it was conveniently overlooked by the person in the twisting the truth and making up untrue statements - all in the good fun of making you look bad.

Ive also seen posts where you were attacked outright - period. And now you're being told that you need to grow a thick skin??

Oh please. This is the first time I've seen you VENT in this forum, state exactly how you feel, and present it as a thread in where we could all discuss of ways to present an solution...great going, girl!!! You've come a long way, baby.

In this matter, I think it's gone on for so long, just gone too far now. It is apparent that this matter will probably never go away - and the only way you can do anything about it is to utilize the bad post button and call it harrassment. Or you can post and state your opinion about the thread discussion and let it go wherever it may go.

I just think some people are so ... confident in their own opinion that no one can tell them what to do, but that they can tell others what to do.

Word.

Read Angel's # 65 what she wrote in her post :

" For now on, I'm going to grow a thicker skin, and I'm going to start standing up for myself more , and stop being soo darn nice, cause I can see it very clearly now and I know who are my friends are and who isn't....."

http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=24558&page=4&highlight=thick+skin

*closin' the door* :bye:
 
CyberRed said:
Read Angel's # 65 what she wrote in her post :

" For now on, I'm going to grow a thicker skin, and I'm going to start standing up for myself more , and stop being soo darn nice, cause I can see it very clearly now and I know who are my friends are and who isn't....."

http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=24558&page=4&highlight=thick+skin

*closin' the door* :bye:


Eh? What does it have to do with the thread here? Did she or not go in another forum and bashed onto the creator of venting? No she did not, so therefore she did builded a thicker skin, Right here she is only venting out her feelings regarding about venting and ranting about members from here in another forum. Why take problems out of this forum into another forum, It only creates more problems and more drama. It's better to resolve problems that happened where it took place at. ;)
 
CyberRed's wrote:
Read Angel's # 65 what she wrote in her post :

" For now on, I'm going to grow a thicker skin, and I'm going to start standing up for myself more , and stop being soo darn nice, cause I can see it very clearly now and I know who are my friends are and who isn't....."

http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.p...ight=thick+skin

*closin' the door*

I've read hers... ahh..
I believe they already MET EACH TOGETHER..
She stated IL how much she emotions feelings towards to her...
What do you expect that , Ohh she is WRONG not supposed be best friend..
Excuse me.. ain't your choice.. HERS CHOICE.. whatever she want say it..
"Best friend" because already met real life and become attached closer more than friendship as condiser Best friend. What wrong that? *hmmmm*
Aren't you saying anything more..
I know you're not going close the door.. You're still lurking here again and decide bash them again... Looping again!
I ain't stupid..
This thread still open door whatever you want say it.. Not necessary pointing finger again!
**I'm here talk no favoristim and prejuice too**
((washing my hand soap done))
 
Then God spake and said to get a ferkin' grip.
:hug: Angel

No doubt there will be another religious thread now.
;)
 
GalaxyAngel said:
My answer:
Waving CR, Excuse moi, I see you're jump colusion and decide throw your bad breath to her.. no no.. errr.. DID SHE MENTIONED NAMING YOU YET on this thread?? Why you care asking her ", How come you let it bother you?
Made my mind say.. whoa, wait minutes, She wasn't even asking YOU!! Mentioned she asking ANYONE general opinion feedbacks
..
I wasn't expecting you're say that..
R u sure , you determinded that she is "favoruistim twist sumth'n with another members?" No... Dead Wrong.. I'm expecting you open heart and UNDERSTAND what she really trying to say clairfity to everyone open door and speak it out your minds not in your bad breath.. That's all, wanted to carried postive as condiser pro vs con.. Can We?
*hmmmm*~
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:gpost:
*nodding agreement*
 
We are here to support ^Angel^´s venting thread, don´t we?
 
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