Hey:
Sorry about what you're going through. I'll be 60 later this year and began wearing hearing aids (HAs) in fifth grade. So, I think that was @1964 or 65. I have you beat wearing analog aids by closer to 20 years (so a little less than 50 years to your 30). Insofar as I know, the aids never changed my hearing. I was born with a loss that turned into bilateral otosclerosis. Earmolds no longer fit my ears due to surgeries and rebuilding of my ear canals. I tried a couple of digital aids when my hearing was likely in the severe range (not profound). They didn't work due to my ear canal issues - earmold+digital aid didn't work together. Digital aids are reversible
, CIs are not. Ironically, CIs may be covered by insurance but digital aids are typically not. It's so stupid and I don't know what drives this economically.
Honestly, I'd check with a dealer or audiologist (get a recommendation) and ensure they have a clean and clear return policy - try it for 30 days and return it undamaged if it doesn't work without charge. Get it in writing. Digital aids are so superior to analogs that you can't compare the two.
If you can get a copy of your current audiogram to Lloyd's Hearing Aids (am I allowed to do this I don't get kickbacks!) on the internet IF you don't have earmold issues, you can try them. For my Oticon analogs they were literally 1/2 the price but I don't know what happens with digitals. I contacted them for a friend to follow-up (who didn't ...). They said they use your audiogram to do the settings but my guess is you'd need someone local for the fine turning. So you'd have to ask them if you need them adjusted, how does that work. If it's over the internet, see if there's someone else out there who has lower prices with local dealers. With a now defunct internet company (ahearingaid.com), their aids were cheaper for a while. I would pay a local person $300 to do the fitting. It was refundable if it didn't work and that's who I used many years ago.
A CI is your last step and potentially very expensive one. I figured at my age and a useless ear, what have I got to lose. It sounds weird but I didn't realize I'd lose bone conduction - only in my right ear. I'm dealing with it and the conduction was good. Now, however, I can eat pickles and kimchi without being driven up the wall. Sounds odd but it is a small advantage. Here's how Reba responded to my question about processing music and it's a great article.
Questions on the Host's Hearing - The Rush Limbaugh Show
I'm having adjustment issues to the CI and music isn't there (that's when Reba responded with the fabulous link). I won't get into my own experience because I've only had it since 10/24/13 and Limbaugh speaks to much of what I'm going through.
If you research CIs on the internet, try to stay away from the three FDA-allowed CI-controlled sites. Cochlear (65% of the market), Advanced Bionics (15%), and Med-El (15%)-ish
. Where alldeaf doesn't allow us to talk about certain issues
, my CI company's site with a nice name (it's not obvious who owns it) does ensure information is only positive. Therefore, comments remotely pushing people away from their product will be deleted. It happened to me. Some people don't care. I do. I need the truth and that's why I'm sticking with this forum. The big business CI companies have a product to sell. It makes sense but is deceitful. Just be careful.
Best of luck to you.
-- Sheri