Alright, you have a point. That times could be different nowadays
Hoh, things ARE different. I think too that you don't understand that if a kid isn't a superstar, they have to deal with the attitude that "oh they're one of those sped kids"
You had a great experiance mainstreaming, but what I think you don't understand is that you had a very extraordinary experiance. Yes, it's proof that when all the pieces of the mainstream puzzle are right, a kid can do very well. But mainstreaming is not right for everyone....and even hoh kids can benifit strongly from going to Deaf School or Deaf program! (and you were horrfied when you found out that there were hoh kids at deaf schools/programs. All I can say, is that if you were horrifed at that, I don't think you really have a realistic idea of what mainstreaming is like for a lot of dhh kids.
agree with you completely regarding the parents beliefs and attitudes and lack of knowledge regarding not just what is available, but the ways in which it would be a tremendous benefit to their own child. Far too often, the priority is mode of language, not quality of education.
What kind of articles would you like me to cite?
Tell me about it. I do have to say that there are THOSE types of parents....you know, the ones who scream and fight that their kid will NEVER EVER learn ASL, and all they need is to be put in an inclusive classroom, where they will end up going to a highly selective college and be popular and have NO problems (and granted you have a lot of those parents with all sorts of disabilties, especially mental disabilty ...ahhhh god) but I think the majority of parents of dhh kids are unaware of the resources and options out there. They are basicly like my parents were with me in the 80's and 90's...figuring that deaf schools are only for voice off kids, or if a kid knows English they don't "need" ASL.
I think too it's the teachers and administrators who contribuate to the myth as well. TODs seem to love pushing the myth that hoh kids shouldn't learn ASL, and that life should be an eternal speech/language session. Administrators see special schools and think " oh why should we spend all that money on disabled kids? They see big dollar signs and not a lot of benifit coming out the other end. They don't understand that deaf kids get a really good education at Deaf Schools, and alot of them go off to college, or get jobs through networking with the Deaf community.
The articles I'd like you to cite are the ones that say a lot of mainstreamed kids are resource room kids. Maybe some parents who are lurkers (or even active posters) will see those cites, and think " my kid might do better at deaf school or program!