The Lounge thread: Whatever you feel like......... Anything goes! Part XVI

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shel90 said:
I would love to use them on my ex hubby and his family. His girlfriend just bought my daughter a real Gucci handbag. What the F*** are they doing?
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A Gucci bag?!

I am sorry but the gloves comes off now, Shel.

You need to be ballsy about your daughter now. They are not being parents; they are trying to be her friends and win her approval.

It's not healthy for everyone.
 
Mrs Bucket said:
A Gucci bag?!

I am sorry but the gloves comes off now, Shel.

You need to be ballsy about your daughter now. They are not being parents; they are trying to be her friends and win her approval.

It's not healthy for everyone.
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I have had boxing gloves for 10 years and been trying to use them on him. He doesnt care...actually, the more I use them then more he turns them on me by saying that I am over-reacting, emotional, dramatic and etc.

By not reacting to him, it takes the power away from him.
 
shel90 said:
I have had boxing gloves for 10 years and been trying to use them on him. He doesnt care...actually, the more I use them then more he turns them on me by saying that I am over-reacting, emotional, dramatic and etc.

By not reacting to him, it takes the power away from him.
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True.

I can see it from your POV.

Shel :hug: I am truly sorry that you are going through this. No parent should ever have to feel like they must fight for their own child. My heart really aches for you.
 
Has missed a LOT, oops!! Will catch up soon!! Am looking forward to later today, me, mum and sister going to watch Avatar in 3D(with no captions) it's my choice if I wanna go or not but I am going to try :) After the film hopefully we'll go to Pizza Hut/ Chiquto(Mexican)/Frankie and Benny's(my fave)
 
Mrs Bucket said:
True.

I can see it from your POV.

Shel :hug: I am truly sorry that you are going through this. No parent should ever have to feel like they must fight for their own child. My heart really aches for you.
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Thanks..:hug:
 
Mrs Bucket said:
A Gucci bag?!

I am sorry but the gloves comes off now, Shel.

You need to be ballsy about your daughter now. They are not being parents; they are trying to be her friends and win her approval.

It's not healthy for everyone.
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It sounds to me like he is trying to "buy" his daughter's affection and that's really sad. She will realize when she's older that money doesn't buy everything and that her mother only wanted the best for her by trying to keep her "down to earth" and respectful of all people regardless of the financial situation. Shel seems to have done her best and it sounds like ex-hubby is jealous of the relationship between Shel and daughter and he wants to "rock the boat". Just my personal opinion.

I think Shel is being totally wonderfukl about this whole situation and making the best of it. Hopefully, her daughter will one day recognize what Shel has gone through mentally and emotionally. Sending hugs to you Shel!!
 
KristinaB said:
It sounds to me like he is trying to "buy" his daughter's affection and that's really sad. She will realize when she's older that money doesn't buy everything and that her mother only wanted the best for her by trying to keep her "down to earth" and respectful of all people regardless of the financial situation. Shel seems to have done her best and it sounds like ex-hubby is jealous of the relationship between Shel and daughter and he wants to "rock the boat". Just my personal opinion.

I think Shel is being totally wonderfukl about this whole situation and making the best of it. Hopefully, her daughter will one day recognize what Shel has gone through mentally and emotionally. Sending hugs to you Shel!!
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Thanks..he has always bought her fancy stuff since we split up 10 years ago. He got her a $300 dollar cell phone when she was 8 and then it just snowballed from there. Maybe that's why she decided to move with him to AZ because she knows that he and his family will spoil her rotten there. Already, one of his sisters posted on her FB that she will buy her a limited edition of facial stuff as soon as she arrives in AZ. Whatever...

Before Christmas, my ex was giving me hell because I refused to get my daughter an iPhone for Christmas. :roll: I'll bet you she will get one as soon as she arrives in AZ because she told me she will get a new phone and will give me her new phone number.

Funny thing is..my ex's fiancee used to page me complaining how disrespectful my daughter is to her and to her kids. Well, my daughter gets spoiled like that, she will expect everything her way. I hope my daughter gives her hell in Phx. :naughty:

:hug: to everyone for the support. She is leaving this Wed and I just want to get it over with..so I can move on. My emotions are just totally all over the place. Today, I am in an ok mood..yesterday, I was feeling angry and bitter. Who knows what tmw will bring. Ugh...

Thank god for my hubby, son, my brother,my mom, my dad and stepmom, my job, and my friends to help me get thru this.
 
:hug: shel. Your girl will get bored with everything within 2 months later, then she will realize how much she misses having going on in MD. i assume there is no ASL around in AZ while you guys do. of course you know already that you ll make sure to keep in touch with her by facebook, pictures from your boy that she will miss the most. Does she have other siblings in az??

I have seen many situation like yours and do the best thing is to stay cool and keep in touch. most kids come back later in life soon.
 
Yes, Shel.

Just hang on. I know it is so hard to do and just so easy for me to say.

It is not a phase your daughter is going through if she has been doing this for several years. She is going to learn a lot about herself when she gets older.

Her self-entitlement issues is not going to get her far when she matures. She is going to have a lot of issues socially, emotionally, intellectually and psychologically. She may try to blame you; make you the culprit of her problems but hang in there as she has to take accountability for her actions.

She is old enough and mature enough to realise there are consequences for her actions on a long range scale. She will have to own up to a lot of things and she will not like it but she needs to do it.
 
Wow Shel that's tough... :aw: I know you probably hear this a lot, but have faith and stay absolutely in touch w/ your daughter. Couldn't agree more w/ Mrs. Bucket and Frisky Feline. Stay strong momma!!
 
it is taking my eyes forever to wake up, I just got out of bed.
 
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JClarke said:
Oceanblue7 said:
It's Monday, I am still waking up. Work is a bit slow at the moment.
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That was yesterday's post... it is already...tuesday. :shock:
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Yeah, you are a day ahead of me
 
2 more weeks then im GONE TO salt lake city, Utah for NWADB tournament.
 
No wonder this thread has quieten down since the nothing thread has populated...
 
Am in training for my martial arts in Tae Kwon Do for World Martial Arts Championship (2012).

training started in few weeks ago. FYI, im not gonna to try in MMA.
 
That's awesome! I am training in muay thai kickboxing and spar begins Sat morning with a guy acckk it will make it easier when I have to compete with a chick lol


NorCal20 said:
Am in training for my martial arts in Tae Kwon Do for World Martial Arts Championship (2012).

training started in few weeks ago. FYI, im not gonna to try in MMA.
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Our 15 weeks old LOVES the maga saucer! He would jump up and down and exploring something is new! :) Our oldest LOVED it when he was a baby....:) I cannot believe he will be 4 months old on March 7 :(
 
Was nice to return to work for a full day after two weeks and finally feel productive.
 
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