Not to show disrespect, but... while I understand the socio-emotional issues you experienced while you were growing up, but don't you think deaf people who spent most of their social lives signing would experience those same socio-emotional issues once they finish school?
Perhaps they still do except they are older and more confident, so they are better equipped to deal with it?[/QUOTE]
We all experience times in our lives when we experience conflict with others but in my situation, I was told or implied that my deafness is something to hide and not to be proud of over the years and as a result, I started to believe that if I tried hard enough, I would be like my hearing peers and can fit in without the communication barriers. I was always apologizing for misunderstandings, for not paying attention in class, for not catching what everyone was saying and etc so I grew believing I was at fault for my deafness and was always working to make up for it only to continue to fail at it. That lead to my severe depression and shame about myself which lead to self-destructive behaviors. My best friend who is deaf and former oral grew up with self-esteem issues and she is still dealing with them cuz she is in a predominately non-signing environment full time and people still get frustrated, irritated, or pissed at her if she misunderstands or misses what they say so it just feeds to her depression. Also, she is still left out in a lot of situations and has to fight for her rights to get full access to communication so it is a constant frustration for her. Because I have both, I am not as constantly frustrated by an environment where access is restricted. I understand that I will be in environments like that but I know it is ok because I understand why and learned how to make the best of it. As a child, nobody showed me that nor taught me that. It was all about my shortcomings.
There are many more issues..
My brother grew up understanding his deafness and that he is not at fualt for some difficult situations and he was able to self-advocate for himself along with many others who grew up with a good understanding and respect of their deafness.
Those are the kinds of socio-emotinal issues I am talking about when replying to Oceanbreeze.